Have you looked at the Kohler Vas lavatory faucet? Very similar design as the Bol, but it does come in a chrome handle. Both of these are very short "reach" and need some special design attention for them to operate properly. They will ONLY work with an undermount sink; mounted very close to the bowl! Otherwise, do check out a full-range plumbing fixture dealer / showroom. While the Bol design is distinctive, there are other manufacturers of "waterfall"-type faucets of different designs. Likewise, they can help you select from a wide variety of nickel fixtures to match. Is there a Ferguson showroom near you? They are great at that! Here is a link that might be useful: AskMAson - Design, Remodeling & Repair Advice

I've read this a couple of times and tried to remember my son at 6-7 (he's 21 now), and he was a LOT like this. So here is some of what we did at that age. 1. Yelling...of course yelling gets his attention, negative attention is better than no attention. Make an effort to stop yelling. Focus on positive. I know it's hard when there is a mess, but the yelling is not helping you or him. 2. A GOOD MANNERS chart. Kids that age LOVE stickers and rewards. Make the rewards obtainable at first, harder in the months to follow. DO NOT take the rewards away for bad behavior, but reward good behavior. Showered today...Gold star. Washed hands after going to bathroom, gold star. Washed hands before meal, gold star. 10-20-30 gold stars = some kind of reward (candy bar, hot wheels car, something like that). 3. Okay this one may sound gross, but may be necessary. LET HIM GO TO THE BATHROOM WITH DAD. Let him see that Dad holds "it" while peeing, and know that Boys hold their penis when they pee, so they can aim. Heck, make it a game, like you did when potty training them, hit the cheerios. Dad can even tell him the secrete....shake 3 times, less won't do it, more is playing with yourself (my son thought that was SOOOO funny when Dad told him that). 4. Concentrate on ONE good manner a month, sit down with a plan and write it on the calendar so you remember. March is "using utinsils properly month", etc. Boys don't have good small motor skills, it takes time to learn how to use a fork, it really doesn't surprise me about the rice being all over...okay maybe to the extent he does, but not totally. 5. I'm assuming the poop in his pants is the "hershey squirts" or "skid Marks", but could be wrong. Boys don't care about them, and will wear them again. They seriously don't care..at least some. Mine just didn't care. Not until he hit about 17 (yes 17). 6. Fingernail biting is his reaction to stress, let him have that bad habit without bugging him. Many adults have it. It's something he can control, so let him. You may be surprised that if you back off that one, he actually stops it himself. He is still young, boys mature slowly in that area..yes it does tend to be a boy thing. Praise the good, TRY to ignore the bad, it's amazing how they respond to praise, wanting to get that more than they want to get yelled at. Vickey-MN

Forget the tiling for now. You need a plumber to correct that drainwork. I'm not even sure the stack is safe with the way they broke into it for the shower drain. Local professional opinion and quote required.

I hate the feel of hair on my body -- gives me duck bumps! -- so I wash my hair in my extra large MBR sink. I *could* easily wash it using the hand-held Grohe that can be positioned 'wherever' on its vertical pole. There's *plenty* of water pressure through this. The house is 14 now; no slipping, sliding, or other problems with the hand-held. (We had an old Speakman head in our condo until recent remodeling. Minimal difference.) OT: One of my favorite things in this house is the recirculator on the hot water line. This provides hot water in seconds at every hot water tap in the house. Now that I think of it, even with that fast delivery, I push the hand-held shower spray away from me for those few seconds and flip it back when the water is hot. We should start a thread on how long you spend IN the shower, after all the debate about the water delivery system!