Builder Won't Clear Entire Lot - Am I overreacting?
Matt Neitzel
5 years ago
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Comments (29)Willie- I like how you have your microwave not above the stove. To tell you the truth I wouldn't have even thought of that. We have decided to just leave it as is and just have them fix the tile mess up they did. I really only use the microwave for popcorn most of the time anyway! LOL! Pat tea - Thank you! I will post it over there, thanks for the idea. DH liked the idea of trimming out the other windows so we are tossing that around. I had a friend come over this evening and she loved the mantel (sigh) and thought the white around the door looked nice! I could line up 10 people and get 10 different thoughts :-) The color in the laundry and bath rooms is Svelt Sage from Sherwin Williams and the tan color is Nomadic Dessert from Sherwin Williams. The colors look beautiful in person and the camera does not do it justice. Esp. the Svelt Sage. I LOVE it in the bathrooms :-) Thank you again for the sweet comments! Kel...See MoreMiele double ovens clear door knob by only 1/4". Am I in trouble
Comments (17)I'm actually not seeing it as a big mess. The architect spec'd the door and overall layout. We loved the idea of having a door. We knew the ovens would open in front of the door. Are you referring to the overall design as a mess, or that it's a tight squeeze? it's not like the KD can slide the run back a foot or even a few inches. When I tell you I interviewed/worked with 3 different KDs before contracting with one, working on this very area, I would not be exaggerating. We even entertained the idea of not putting that door in and instead, creating an access panel to toss recyclables, trash, etc but kept coming back to the garage door idea. Even during construction, I am loving the door so I'm not sorry we have it. Just want to figure out the door knob issue......See MoreBuilder won't give us a schedule
Comments (24)This whole post helped me. We have been doing weekly updates with my builder, but things are months behind what we were given told at the outset. It’s all very cliche. We were told 6-9 months. It’s now cresting a year, and there’s a good couple months to go. The ”game of dates” does not work. It forces the builder to choose either of three options (1) a date that is too soon to be realistic (but could conceivably be met if all the stars align, which they never do) (2) a date that is too far out (which is almost always going to inflame the client) (3) admit that there’s no sure way to tell and that they just have to work week to week and hope for the best (which feels so unacceptable to most people because we all have deadlines don’t we?). We recently forced our builder to give a date. I had this feeling that it was a bad idea to do, but I felt pressure from my spouse to do this. And what do I know? All you hear are bad stories so maybe forcing a date is the right thing to do. It’s not. I knew from my weekly updates that’s it’s not something that can be predicted with the correct accuracy. That date we got is today, and it’s not done. And now there are tears and anger and frustration. I’ve reflected on this a lot and take a lot of blame for this. I knew the only way to ensure progress was with weekly calls. I know this from all my own work experience. And while a finish line is important, they do get blown. I recently worked on a complete software upgrade for a business, CRM and ERP system. It went years past planned completion too. But it got there. And now it’s done. And it’s good. But forcing my builder to give a date has now done damage to his standing with my team, and he’s frustrated too because he had done excellent work so far. It’s just taking longer than anyone wanted. I’m proud that it was my own idea to do a weekly meeting, it seems a common theme here. I do a weekly call and takes notes and publish them. My builder says he uses them. He’s got multiple projects and it helps him to know what is always upcoming. It’s interesting to me that in a 15-20 minute call with him I can have an hour’s worth of typing the notes and 12-15 updates. Most builders have tools in their hand all day. They can only do these updates after hours and weekends. They can only keep that pace for so long. My builder is starting to use Builder Trend. This shows he wants to do better. We, as owners, need to assume positive intent. Builders do not need to drag jobs out for their own benefit. They want happy customers. There’s that old saying in the sports world ”don’t hate the player, hate the game.” Don’t play the game of dates, it’s a losers bargain. Do your part to help by documenting the communication. Keep it simple, and helpful, and positive. Imagine, one day, having the builder back for a coffee or a beer to enjoy the work they did....See MoreAm I overreacting our bad craftsmanship
Comments (17)My guess is that the OP went to one of those one stop kitchen remodeling showrooms where they do the design, let you pick everything out in their showroom and then hire all the subs to do the work. While those sorts of places are convenient, you have the trade off of not knowing the quality of any of the tradesmen. I’d personally forgo the ease of such a place in favor of buying cabinets and appliances on my own, hiring a good GC to handle install all of the above and handle carpentry and coordinate the electrician and plumber, while I pick my own countertop fabricator. Counters are an area where you want to do a lot of research and pick the best fabricator....See MoreAllison0704
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