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Comments (50)Johnmarie, I have choose not to post because as a BPD sufferer you are not sure quite where you fit. People who are depressed without BPD falsely envy the highs without realizing the pain and danger that can accompany them. Somehow I know you understand. What I find particulary disturbing about this post is the comments that all you need to do is pick yourself up by the bootstraps, that depression can be treated by positive thoughts with a side dose of fish oil. Major clinical depression is not, and never should be compared to "the blues" or the "sadness" that is expected to accompany negative events we all seem to share in our lives. Clinical depression is a MEDICAL CONDITION and quite a dangerous one if left untreated. In my mid twenties I was one of the strongest woman my friends knew yet I held a secret. Afraid of "the label" of being mentally ill, I came way too close to taking my own life. I thank God and a great psychiatrist, with yes, his bag of pills for being here today. I think this is where there is a great misconception, that depressed people are that way because there are crisis' in their life that they cannot handle. I had no "crisis", I had a high paying job I loved, my own home,enough men to fill my time, and true galfriends galore. So I don't know what the heck I was supposed to be sad about. Yet there was something too painfull to even put into words going on. Again, I thank God, for it had to be his hand that directed me, to walk into a local ER and say that I didn't understand why, but I knew if I went home that night I would kill myself. It doesn't matter what name you place on someone's pain, but if someone is reaching out for help, NO ONE should discount their need for help - in whatever shape or form that help may take. If pills work for you - great. If it's therapy - go for it. If you are not getting better you just might need to find another doctor. Unfortunately the stigma of Mental Illness can hold us back from the very sources that can help us. I am actually finding this discussion disturbing. If someone had a serious medical condition, like cancer, wouldn't it be wrong to tell them to tough it out, that it is all in their mind and that seeking help is not necessary? I only hope that these posts just might trigger someone who is not getting better to reach out for the help they need. Friends and family can be a great support, but if you had a medical condition such as cancer, you would never expect them to give you treatment. Unless you have been there, it is almost impossible for someone to understand just how painful a clinical depression can be....See MoreNew Cat Charging at Dogs - Anyone ideas?
Comments (5)Hi workinprogress, I am sorry you are going through this. This is going to be a challenge but Miles can and will learn to feel safe in his new home. Your dogs should also be allowed to feel safe too. They are probably spooked by the changes. They sound wonderful, peaceful and laid back large dogs. Sweet. My guess is that Miles believes the dogs are the same species. His aggressive behavior is probably fear based. Do you know his history? Was he tortured by dogs, chased, hunted, pesterd? Cats act aggressively out of fear. If a cat feels the need to protect itself, it will go on the defensive in order to ward off the perceived threat. Perhaps Miles lived with mostly other dogs and learned the Pack mentality. This is hard for a cat to learn and especially hard to change. Miles sees the dogs as a threat or a potential threat. He feels an automatic response to control and take a dominate position. Miles needs to learn that when he sees the dogs that the new response will be safety, love, happiness, comfort, security... A animal behaviorist might be helpful. But until then you need to get through the day. You may need to put Miles on a leash or harness. He will hate this but he will learn that he is safe. And you can protect the other animals around him. Cats are predatory animals. It is easy to forget this with the domestic breed because we see them as pets and vulnerable. But the are truly hunters and defenders. Miles has had to defend himself and his reaction is that of a cat who was hurt badly by dogs. Or had to learn his place among dogs. There are some homeopathy or natural kinds of treatments but I would ask the vet. Sometimes a short term use of Prescribed (Dare I say it Valium) or other medications can help relax your cat so he learns that his new home is safe. He discovers his new dog brothers and sisters are safe caring companions who he can always feel safe with. An old fashioned remedy my grandma used to do to her more aggressive cats. (These cats were just wild toward the older cats) was to put a bell on them. Everyone always knew where little Leroy was. They older cats and old dog could hear him before he leaped. I think you are a truly honorable person for caring so much for Miles that he has found his forever home. Don't give up. It will be a long road but you can do this. A fellow amimal friend, ~boxerpups some links that might be helpful http://www.thecattherapist.com/behavior_problems/aggressive_cat.htm http://www.catchannel.com/behavior/dogcat/article_2261.aspx http://www.animalhealthchannel.com/felineaggression/index.shtml http://www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/our_pets_for_life_program/cat_behavior_tip_sheets/aggression_between_family_cats.html...See MoreSeizing dog.....anyone help?
Comments (6)When our older dog started to have seizures, the post-seizure panic attacks were worse than the actual grand-mal seizures. Will he eat or drink?... sometimes after a seizure their blood sugar will drop, they will feel starved and scared... some food and water - a tasty treat, helps a bit, if they will eat. Can you take him for a walk? It can help get rid of some that excess nervous energy. I feel for you, the pacing is horrible. Your dog is nervous and scared. Similar to when a person has a seizure, they loose all memory for awhile and it slowly has to come back. Keep talking to him, calmly tell him who you are and where he is and that he just fell down and things are going to be a bit confusing for awhile, but it will be okay....See MoreIs this site going slow for anyone else
Comments (10)This is the only ONE that I have probs with. Just now I had to log in again with each (3) posts. Forget trying to post pics, I just give up!!!!!!!!!!! This is my favorite group of quilters and I miss you!!!! I still try but it is so time consuming and annoying!! I use Firefox and it is better but the ads still lock up. Sadly, I think it has cause some to give up and move on. Rosa...See MoreRelated Professionals
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