Got CO on house but many unfinished items.
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Comments (7)Though it's too late, I'd have also recommended you not move in without a certificate of occupancy and everything done, and done right, even if it meant renting a cheap motel room for awhile. This is why contracts need to specify these things such as completion dates, penalties for the builder for failing to meet them, etc. But many home buyers simply do not realize the importance of all this until too late. Once a builder has most or all of your money, they have virtually ZERO incentive to come back. They do not really care about it hurting their reputation, another myth home buyers believe until they learn otherwise, (myself being no exception to that one). Complaints can be hidden very easily. For starters, they are simply not as public as you think. You may file complaints all over the place but other consumers may not find them due to privacy, etc. Plus, many builders got very arrogant during the boom and figured people were lining up for homes and wouldn't pay attention to complaints, which builders easily waved off as "fussy customers," and "isolated incidents." Now that the boom has gone bust, many of those same builders are teetering on the edge of bankruptcy, because they ran their businesses so poorly that the slightest downturn in business could put them under. A contract should always have a provision for holding back a final payment until everything is done, done right, and has passed all inspections including--hopefully--your own experts' inspections. At this point though, I suspect you'll be like so many others. You'll learn to do the finish work yourself and cut your losses, or you'll look into what your legal recourse is. If you're lucky you didn't sign any arbitration clause and thus retained a right to sue. Even if you don't sue, (may not be financially practical), having the right to can give you a lot of leverage. Some states have a rather high limit for small claims court if you aren't forced to arbitrate disputes. I do not recommend falling for the arbitration propaganda. The builders know who the arbitrators are and often do repeat biz with them. You do not. There is great potential for bias there. I hope the rest of your home is done right and that this is the limit to your problems. Good luck! Here is a link that might be useful: Homeowners Against Deficient Dwellings...See MoreHow to get out of co-owning house with angry daughter
Comments (6)Is she your only child? First, take a deep breath & realize that she is 18... immature and like a lot of young people, feels ENTITLED. I used to think it was the parenting that created thsse entitled children but the more kids I see out there, having an attitude of "deserving" what parents had to work hard for... I am beginning to think it is a societal epidemic. (not to say parenting did not contribute to it, but let's be honest.... how many of us would have gotten spanked or worse if we did some of the things kids today get away with? I would never have talked back to my parents... not so much for fear of being beaten but becasue I knew it was WRONG. Of course, I never tried it so can't say with 100% accuracy if they wouldn't have spanked me. I never wanted to find out. Kids today push the envelope & have been told how to report it to the police or CPS if they are ever put in fear of bodily harm.) Anyway, one solution is to stop buying her groceries. I may be too blunt here, but if you tolerate a half hour of her demeaning you and telling you what an idiot you are, then I would have to say that she may be right about one thing, that you are somewhat to blame for what's gone wrong in her life. Now, before you take that the wrong way, let me explain what I mean. Sometimes, we as parents want more for our children than we had...we want them to suffer less, have more, do better in life. In the process, we "protect" them from failure and disappointment which is something they MUST experience to appreciate achievement, which is what makes them feel good about themselves. Society has stepped in and in some ways, taken that away from children by giving every kid on a team a trophy or not keeping score because the losers might feel bad about losing. I hear people say that young people shouldn't have to work full time AND go to school/college and that education is more important than work experience. Of course, I disagree but that's another subject for another day. My point is, if you are providing food, paying all the bills & tolerating her barage of insults... then THAT might be part of the problem. Stop providing them.. give her nothing. Hand her a bill for her half of the bills that she uses... utilities, cable, phone, etc. Calmly tell her that if she wants to be treated like an adult, the first thing she needs to do is start behaving like an adult and that means to provide for herself. That's a tough stance to take and in most cases with an 18 year old, I wouldn't suggest being so harsh but any 18 year old that feels it's okay to treat her mother (that is still supporting her) like that... well, it tends to make me believe she has treated you poorly for a long time and you accepted it for whatever reason. She wouldn't treat you this way if you don't tolerate it. If you are being abused (and verbal abuse is still abuse) and you live there & work there, you can get her out by filing a restraining order to have her removed. That is a bit extreme but if you leave, she will not pay the bills and the house will be lost. If she leaves (even through a restraining order) and is half owner of the house, you can refinance and buy her out of her half. Before you do something like that, check with the laws in your state or consult an attorney. That's just my opinion based on the info available....See MoreCo-signing a condo/house for my son
Comments (20)I live in St. Louis, and I take issue with the ranking. Looking at the legal boundaries of the CITY of St. Louis, yes, parts of it are really bad. But anyone who lives in St. Louis includes the COUNTY of St. Louis as "St. Louis", which the report does not. IMO, this really skews the results and paints an undeserved portrait of St. Louis. Morgan Quitno Press publishes the rankings. The president of the company, Scott Morgan, said: ".... he is not surprised to see St. Louis top the list, since it has been among the 10 most dangerous cities for years. Morgan said the study looks at crime only within St. Louis city limits, with a population of about 330,000. It doesn't take into account the suburbs in St. Louis County, which has roughly 980,000 residents. " Here is a See where it says "St. Louis City", and the little line pointing to the small light blue area? THAT is what is ranked. See the large darker blue area around it, that says "St. Louis"? That is the "county", which is not included as part of St. Louis, even though it is very much "St. Louis". Re: drcindy's comments: The area immediately around SLU is much better than it used to be, and I don't hear of a lot of problems. University City and the Central West End are still quite hip. Clayton (which is part of the County, but immediately adjacent to the legal city limit), is fabulous.....and expensive. I would rent for a year first, so she could learn the area and make the best choice for a good place to live. If I were going to SLU, I'd look at the areas of Soulard, Tower Grove, South Grand, and Lafayette Square. These are all on the good end of transition, with a diverse population and great shops and restaurants. Personally, I would not live North of SLU (not referring to SLU Med), or in North County in general. North County seems to dominate the news regarding crime. Also note that MODOT (Missouri Dept. of Transportation) is starting a MAJOR re-do of Interstate 40/64 this year. This is one of our major arteries, and will make traffic miserable if you live/work in certain areas. Here is a link to the plans The area of construction is West of the areas I mentioned, so I don't think your daughter would live there, but you never know what might seem like a great area to her :) Investment wise, ie, not taking a beating when reselling, there are a number of areas in the city that are going through a resurgence. Some for many years, others just beginning. Businesses and individuals pouring money and heart into down and out neighborhoods. A sizeable influx of new immigrants has pushed these neighborhoods in a positive direction. It's amazing what some of these areas have become, and because of location, demographics and amenities, I do not see a down side. I haven't been able to say that about a lot of areas around here. Some were quickly, (and poorly), "developed" by absentee owners who had no stake in St. Louis other than a quick profit. It seems that most of the people working on the turnaround neighborhoods live there or very nearby. I still recommend renting first!...See Morehow many roses you got coming spring 2020 ?
Comments (405)I have a dozen on order. Nine from Palatine as the multiflora rootstock loves my acidic clay soil. I just dug up a Tiffany on multiflora and rootstock was three inches in diameter! I moved it to the front yard about five feet from the sidewalk so everyone can smell it as they walk by my house. Three David Austins via the local rose society at just $20 each!...See MoreFla_Chic
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