Personally, I’m a fan of the industrial look also and am a huge proponent of doing what you like, regardless of whether it’s trendy. That being said, from a practical perspective, I like that it is more minimal, easier to match between fixtures, and easier to clean :)

I love those raindrop chandeliers, but in my opinion they’re better suited for an entryway or stairway than a dining table. You could really do most anything in your dining room that would “go” with those pendants, but you don’t need to match. These types are pretty popular and pretty versatile.

leave the door white. I like the drum shade as well looks nice transitional. depending on your budget a bell jar style would look really nice in your entry. https://www.houzz.com/products/minka-lavery-atrio-3-light-pendant-polished-nickel-prvw-vr~105338881?lid=87748774 https://www.houzz.com/product/86835523-jefferson-4-light-pendant-in-polished-nickel-traditional-pendant-lighting https://s3.img-b.com/image/private/c_lpad,f_auto,h_450,t_base,w_450/v3/product/livexlighting/livex-lighting-50402-91-66.jpg

A little bit of a different suggestion. I love that upholstered bench, but I would float it where you have the fridge to create a "hallway" coming in like so, facing it into the room. Move your bureau to the wall by the window to use as a dining room buffet, Instead, get a narrow piece to hold gloves, hats, keys, etc. and add a mirror over it where you have the dresser now. For that wall, this look and function. Note the rug creating a pathway through the "hall." As for the middle of the room, place your table in the middle of the room. If you get a rectangular table, you could also slide your upholstered entry piece on one side for extra seating at the table. Get a unique knockout table and perhaps all different kinds of chairs. A beautiful big round table in the center would also look great in that space with contrasting dining chairs. Many round tables can be extended into oval tables for company. Round tables allow for better flow than angular ones. Check Craigslist for estate sales to find a beautiful oversized rug. With a runner in the entryway area you create and a larger centered rug for the dining furniture, that will direct foot traffic in the space. Dining room rugs must be wide enough so the dining chairs can glide over the rug entirely. A low-pile pattered rug would make the space inviting and a bit more formal. Get curtains for the window to dress up the room and frame the windows.