Wedding musings part two - guest list
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And so it begins...wedding guest dress
Comments (150)Just checking back in here. You've been busy. I love the RL dress on you too. I suspect the other is also really flattering, but that the overexposure of the lighting on the pic and maybe the pic angle makes it not as enticing as the RL. Either one would be perfect. Are you in the mood for silvery/pewter shoes? I just bought these at Dillards (amazing selection I'll add) to wear this weekend as stepmom of Bride. They are comfy enough for me to wear and still act as hostess at this wedding. By J Renee and pretty affordable. I'm a lot taller than you, but have the same figure issues, ie shapely ample tush and bustline. For this "black tie optional" wedding all the bridesmaids will be in long dresses as will I. I ended up buying a dress in the salon the day we went wedding dress shopping, at Sweet Elegance in Atlanta where they were absolutely wonderful. And I went with a mock wrap - silver, beaded. Still haven't decided on jewelry. sigh. Wedding is in three days. (why do they picture a 20-something in a dress meant for MOB?) I made my dresses for my two sons weddings, but making it this time was going to be a logistical nightmare. Have a wonderful time at your barn wedding....See Morewedding on a budget with 300 guest! help
Comments (9)I don't know if fake flowers are cheaper than real ones. Find out names of reliable florists in your area, give them a budget, and ask what they can do with it. If you come in saying you want a certain kind of flower or something, you might unknowingly raise the cost a lot if it's out of season. Let them tell you what gives you the most bang for the buck in your time frame. The biggest problem you have is the number of people. Whether it's fancy or casual, buffet or plated, no matter what -- feeding 300 people gets very expensive. Liquor, too. Do NOT try to do the food yourself or have your friends "cater." 300 is just way, way too many for amateurs. You could avoid serving a full meal -- but ONLY if you carefully avoid meal times, which isn't easy for an hours-long event like a wedding. 2:30 or 3:00 pm until 5:30 or 6:00 might work. Then you could serve as little as just cake and coffee. Often, a lunch or brunch costs less than a dinner. People drink less, too. But they also don't dance as much or generally get into a party-party mood until after dark, either, if that is important to you. You can eliminate liquor altogether, or serve just wine or wine and beer, perhaps a signature cocktail. You're going to need chairs, too, for a wedding at a lake, unless there is a pavilion or something with seating provided. Skip limousines and favors. Make your own invitations on a computer and try to keep them so that there is not extra postage. This will sound counter-intuitive, but the best money-saver we have found was hiring an experienced wedding coordinator right at the beginning of the process. She doesn't make choices for you, she helps you realize your own goals. She has paid for herself every time by steering us to good and reasonably priced vendors, and, even more important, steering us AWAY from ones she knew were unreliable, dishonest, or too pricey. They also know a lot of good tricks that save you a lot of money. You're going to need someone anyway, with 300 people to wrangle. So get them now, at the planning stage, and ask them about money-saving tips. They know lots. Good luck!...See MoreEasy casual wedding musings
Comments (42)I am sorry for the loss of your aunt. Wanted to respond, but I have been under weather with a stomach bug (maybe food poisoning) during final exams week--great timing, ugh. Around here, many of the breweries have nice side rooms for parties and receptions. Are there wineries near you, too? We were older first timers (43 and 37) and we had about 75 guests in my home city. But we had the formal wedding and reception at a historic mansion and we wanted the party. We were engaged in December and married in July. Also did a Friday since it was less expensive. One of my grad school friend's DH had just been ordained an Episcopal priest, so he performed the ceremony. I had looked at venues where I lived, where DH lived, and my hometown, and I wanted to go with something that required a minimum or no extra stuff to be brought in and could maximize the number of family and friends in attendance (vs. coworkers). No way could my 80's mother travel to a destination wedding where a flight would be required. One of the nicest weddings I had been to was one of my fitness instructors where she had it at her home. She was a master gardener and had an amazing yard. It was beautiful but a lot of work to bring in things. She wound up selling that house after she got married and bought a new property with her DH, so, that property was out for us. The new property was an amazing historic farmhouse and she said we could use it, but once again, everything would need to be rented and brought in. OTOH, I did use her home and farm for bridal portraits which turned out amazing. Went to a wedding of a friend this summer, and they also had it at their home, but it was a large property where they could set up a tent. They already had a gazebo. She did have Olive Garden drop off catering, but her son works there as a waiter. My oldest brother is 70 and got married for the third time maybe 5 years ago. My SIL's husband had passed away and they had been dating awhile. She has grown children and grandchildren. Still, they had a church wedding, gown, tux, and reception with maybe 100 or so people, a little bigger than our wedding. It was really nice. It was sort of the similar situation as yours. My brother said he'd never get married again but our father had passed away at 70 and he said if he only had a limited time on earth left, he would want to be married. Good luck, and you know, we all did such a great job with jojoco's wedding, we can certainly help you! Now I need to stop procrastinating on grading final exams, LOL....See MoreHey Ya'll Wedding Guest Dress Opinions
Comments (53)Thanks for finding the butterfly dress Cindy! Funky, maybe you saw the dress from Anthro? It’s kind of similar? Yeah, I’m kind of thinking I need to wait to pull the trigger until I see some new spring dresses. Amy, that mod cloth dress is so pretty, but a little too short for my liking. Bonnie, I think that dress is a little different? And I’m not sure about a dress that’s only $22! I can’t imagine that it’s made with even a little bit of quality. Oh Lake, I totally forgot about Peruvian Conn. Love the dress with the bold stripes. I’m putting that one in my maybe file. Thanks Mtn! The house is doing well. It’s a semi-custom and we moved in about 10 months ago - how time flies! We’re really pleased with it and the house/property are much smaller and more manageable with time and money. Plus, I’ve gone back to school which, so far, is and absolute blast. Wish I had done this long ago! Just, no doesn’t have to be floral. Those dresses are much too short. I’m really going for midi to maxi. I’m 5’7” so maxi dresses look pretty good on me and I’m not interested in showing too much leg. Sue, yes maybe too casual and too short. Jill, that’s kind of what I want - something that’s a hint of dressy but can be worn casually as well. dyh - UO is tough! Very young and very skinny girl dresses! I wish! I don’t know how I missed the Anthro dresses. The beaded wrap and the butterfly are perfect! I think the tulips are just too big of a print and too busy for anything but a waif. Love Free People but nothing is speaking to me....See MoreUser
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