you are just going to have to get samples and try them out. have no idea what your room looks like or the type of light you get. what you don't want are cool gray colors. red oak is warm,,,you need a warmer gray, or a neutral gray. (BTW,,,I have Silver Half Dollar on my walls and it looks like a baby blue. I get afternoon sun in the room and they are tall ceilings. It's very blue once up. I have it paired w/Kendall Charcoal and silver travertine, so it still works. but w/a red oak floor, I'm thinking you won't like it) Get some samples! some of the colors you picked are on this,,,next to a cool, blue/gray tile floor. to me, these two tones clash. you may like it.

This is my wood kitchens idea book - just to show different light and dark countertops and wall paint colors: https://www.houzz.com/ideabooks/75202366/list/wood-kitchens This is my kitchen - just because I also have oak cabinets:) The countertop is quartz, but I wanted to show you the short apron farm sink should that be a style you like: https://www.houzz.com/photos/my-pics-work-in-progress-phvw-vp~110720042 I like your backsplash too but keeping a 4" splash may not give you the look you want. If you do that, consider something light for a countertop that does not contrast much with the tile backsplash so the change from one splash to the other is not as apparent. Also, if you do not have under cabinet lighting, consider it. Every kitchen looks prettier with it, and it is the most functional change I made.

Try adding photos of your space and the sofa in the comment section.... Nobody can really help without :(

tried to grab some in different lighting and with fiff wall paint. i swear its even less orange in real life- or even in my camera reel before it posts here