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Comments (1)You can deadhead the blooms at any time but some people like to keep them for winter interest. On the other hand, if these are reblooming hydrangeas, deadheading promotes new bloomage so feel free to cut the strand that connects the bloom to the stem. If you have no fungal problems on the shrubs, feel free to use the spent blooms as mulch!...See MoreI don't know where to start (long)
Comments (2)To me it sounds like you two never learned how to have an argument. You tell him how to feel, he responds with name calling- didn't your mommas teach you how to fight nice? If not, it's high time you both learned. Honestly, it's like bad playground manners. He's abusing me, I'm abusing him, he started it- SO WHAT?! The point is that neither of you are being very considerate or nice towards each other. And your arguments are accomplishing absolutely nothing- not even a reasonable exchange of ideas. Name calling and telling someone how he should feel is not a point; those are things people do when they have no point. Why argue over nothing? Instead of "Stop feeling hurt" try "It really upsets me to see you hurt. Why do you feel that way?" You'll get a response besides being called a name, I'm sure. Whether or not you're prepared to hear what he says, that's another story; it depends on what he says. The other thing I would say is that it takes 2 people for one to be invalidated- the invalidater and the invalidatee. He has some responsibility to stand up for himself in a civil manner (name calling is not civil). If you both work on expressing yourselves in calm, civil ways then I think you're on much better track to saving the marriage. It will obviously take a lot of work from both of you- you've done it your way for the last 29 years; it's hard to change. Unless you both are willing to put in that effort, I don't think the marriage will be salvagable; communication is key in any relationship. Even if the divorce goes through, still learn how to fight nice- it's a skill that everyone should know because it is more productive than accusations and name calling. I know you really want to make this work, and it's up to him whether or not he does too. You're in for a very long haul- you will have setbacks- be prepared- that's part of the learning process. Good luck....See MoreLandscaping Ideas? I don't know where to start!
Comments (2)The first things to think about are: Views --- do you want your windows screened for privacy, or to not block a view? Maintenance --- how much time do you want to spend maintaining your garden? Shade --- do you need more of it or not? Use --- will you want your kids to play in the front lawn, a sitting area/vegetable garden etc? Areas that need hiding? Next, walk/drive around your neighborhood and notice houses that have nice landscaping. Note the features. I would start with a lovely tree off to the right in the front yard. A modern look might be a clump of birch. If it were my house, I'd put in a fruit tree with pretty flowers, like a Peach. I'd put a bed of smallish flowering shrubs to the right of the curved path to the door. I don't know zone 8, so I can't offer many recommendations. I might put a climbing rose up one of the columns...See MoreI don't even know where to start...
Comments (13)I haven't seen foursquares with metal roofs, I'd stick with a traditional roof. Pick a color that goes with your stone. Do you actually need new windows? Foursquares typically have wide trim around the windows and no shutters. So, you want a color where where the white or cream trim will highlight the features. Yellow or taupe might work well with your stone. Possibly a warm gray with cream trim. What is a Foursquare House? - Everyday Old House...See MoreRelated Professionals
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