msrose, I don't have a BM fandeck, but I do know that RH paints have their roots in BM paint colors from this old thread. Unfortunately Pumice is not included on that list -- it's a newer RH color. But if you go to BM with the chip or sample I'm sure the folks at BM can match it. thanks pesky1, and binsd, I'm glad to hear your husband likes the room! Here is a link that might be useful: Restoration Hardware Paint matched to BM colors

Was that cactus green at one point? Is it mushy? I just left my plants for six days, the temps were between 90-100 degrees during the day. I watered all my plants the day I left (watering until water came out of the drainage holes in the bottom of the pots) I didn't water them at all until the 6th day when I returned home, and I had no problems. My staghorn fern was a little wilted but bounced right back after being watered. My point is, one of the best things about succulents is they can handle some neglect every once in awhile. Unless I'm leaving for several weeks I don't let anyone touch my plants. The only instructions I left for the person who lives on my property was to not touch/water them. If your cactus isn't mushy than its probably a lighting issues. The other plants with the exception of that brown one in the long planter all look ok and if they looked different than when you left them they should bounce back. When in doubt don't water. I have a haworthia coarctata that will turn very dark green when exposed to a lot of light. Unless it's burned, the burn spots are obvious and white. It had gotten a burn spot when I first brought it home, the burn was on a lower leaf which I was able to cover with gravel but now it's hardly noticeable.

My cabinets are bright white too, I find a nice kitchen rug helps, the white cabinets will reflect the tones you put near them, so you really don’t need to worry, they won’t look stark like they do in an empty house. Here’s what mine looked like initially and then after decorating etc. You can really see how the cabinets reflect the rug color in the photo of the range. The counters are a pale grey color.

Since there are horses on the bags of alfalfa pellets, I suspect the size of the pellets is about the size of your thumb. Those are also called horse cubes. What you want are the rabbit feed sized. Here is a link to feed stores near Orlando. Call around and ask for rabbit chow or alfalfa pellets the same size as rabbit chow. Another place to find corn flour, not the same as meal, but equally effective, is at a grocery store catering to Hispanic shoppers. They carry corn flour for tortillas in 25 pound bags. You do not need both. I was giving you some alternatives. Since you have a Tractor Supply nearby, a couple other choices are DuMOR 16% Layer Crumbles and whatever floating catfish food they have. There is one called Trophy and another. Those have 35% conspicuously marked on the label.