Kids off to college - is it time to build our dream home?
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Comments (15)This should be a good time to build, with plenty of GC's and subs available due to the downturn in home starts. Build your dream home. I never 'got' the whole second home thing unless it was VERY nearby -- and then...why do it? I wouldn't be interested in driving three hours each way to one. Many are not that easily rented either unless they are in year-round vacation spots. As we were building our permanent home a rental we'd had on the market for some time finally sold. We did a 1031 and bought a condo on Maui. We use it one month a year. It's rented about 80% of the rest of the year. It carries itself; we have a free vacation rental; it's appreciated very well. It's nicely outfitted and we have an owner storage closet in the unit. (Yes, it IS more than three hours away, but we only go once a year!) An aunt and uncle had three homes: two an hour apart in RI and one in Florida. This is a very expensive and tiring proposition, keeping up three properties and moving posessions around between them. I have trouble remembering what's in the pantry at ONE home!...See MorePlease Help Design Our "Dream Home"
Comments (13)Thank you for the comments, we are overwhelmed by the helpfulness of your responses. @bpathome Our twin daughters as well as my husband and I will be living in the house. We plan on having a place for both his parents and my parents in the basement underneath the kids rooms. Which largely contributed to the Elevator being placed near the entrance way, just under the right side of the kitchen and beside the bathroom (marked with a red X) We plan on entertaining as well, which is why we have focused on the great views that this property has to offer illustrated by the photo uploaded which also pictures our mighty Canadian winters (just 1 hour north of Toronto). The photo is looking Northwest, but more West than North The two rooms the flank the entry are: Laundry room (on the left hand side) and a mud room (on the right hand side - separating the front hallway from the garage). There is no formally designate dining room, as we don't really use the room too much in our current house and feel that the bowed room would serve as both our regular kitchen eatery and dining area. [https://www.houzz.com/photos/comfortable-luxury-eclectic-dining-room-charleston-phvw-vp~819528[(https://www.houzz.com/photos/comfortable-luxury-eclectic-dining-room-charleston-phvw-vp~819528) Your help through comments, suggestions, and opinions are greatly appreciated so please keep them coming :) @Michelle As mentioned in the reply to @bpathome, the mud room (on the right hand side - separating the front hallway from the garage) flanks the right side of the hallway while the Laundry room (on the left hand side) flanks the left hand side. Thank you for the comments on the master wing, we enjoyed that as well since it will also provide for a courtyard to be setup [https://www.houzz.com/photos/arbor-oaks-concord-nc-traditional-pool-charlotte-phvw-vp~241236[(https://www.houzz.com/photos/arbor-oaks-concord-nc-traditional-pool-charlotte-phvw-vp~241236) And yes there will definitely be lots of light as the sun hits the back of the house at the optimum time. Just opened the drawing, to calculate the square footage in the hallway and you are right there is approximately 300 square feet in the hallway but we hope that it turns out to look similar to a combination of two other hallways on Houzz we've stumbled across (minus the barrelled ceiling): [https://www.houzz.com/photos/hallway-phvw-vp~25792910[(https://www.houzz.com/photos/hallway-phvw-vp~25792910) [https://www.houzz.com/photos/hallway-phvw-vp~25792920[(https://www.houzz.com/photos/hallway-phvw-vp~25792920) Please continue to provide comments as they are greatly appreciated so please keep them coming :) @jn3344 The two rooms, I assume you are referring to, are those which flank the entry area being the Laundry room (on the left hand side) and a mud room (on the right hand side - separating the front hallway from the garage). So both are required. Thanks for the questions, please keep them coming :)...See MoreFirst time home build - would appreciate review of our floor plan
Comments (22)Does anything stand out as unusual or impractical? It's almost double the size of an average American house. Your main floor has a large family space plus an away space ... why the whole basement as well? It'll be at least a decade -- and probably another house -- 'til the kids want to be separated from you. One thing we're wrestling with with is our kitchen island size I think you're falling victim to "this is what nice houses have" syndrome. Why do you need a breakfast table (not a nook -- nooks are tucked away spaces) PLUS a large island with seating ... located literally within arm's reach of one another? And I'd venture to guess another outdoor table only steps away. How many eating spaces do you actually need? I'd say choose one or the other ... if you go with the island, enlarge it a bit /make it really nice, not stools lined up so no one can talk comfortably ... if you go with the table, shorten the island to allow for circulation (and don't neglect the space you'll need when chairs are pulled out ... this table is in the center of your floorplan, making it a major thoroughfare. Our breakfast table is 3 1/2' round -- definitely go with a round table in this area -- and it's ideal for 4-5 people. We never put food on the table; rather, we serve plates from the stovetop for casual weekday meals. Don't forget that you want to be able to reach the back door. Currently it sits 6' from the stove so we can move it over at least a foot to 5' away 6' between the stove and island seems to be too much. 4' would be better. Another question is whether the master shower at 5' x 6' is just strangely large. Yes. In my opinion (and I spent several years measuring friends' showers and hotel showers to develop this opinion), showers shouldn't be more than 3 1/2' - 4' wide. Why? Because once you pass that width, you're kind of out in the middle of a too-big space, which feels uncomfortably exposed. If you one day need grab bars, the walls'll be too far apart for them to be reachable. However, this is an easy fix. Just reduce the size of the shower and center the tub on the open wall. Overall, I think a lot of your things are over-optimized. This may not be just as bad as under-sized, but it's a problem. You don't want over-sized ... you want right-sized. Have you measured friends' houses, etc. to see what sizes you actually prefer? The laundry room is on the second floor adjacent to the master bedroom. I'd bump the machines to the left /make it easier to vent the dryer. I personally would leave the laundry room door open most of the time, so I think this is a good spot for a pocket door. I'd also double the window in the laundry room so it would allow more light into the hallway. If you're going with modern front-loader machines, which are pretty deep, this laundry room isn't any too wide. Someone commented on the double doors to the mbr, are there issues with double doors? They seem to be common on mid to higher end houses around here. Again "this is what nice houses have" syndrome. Things that are common aren't necessarily desirable. Double doors require two hands to open ... and the light switches must be placed either behind the door or too far from the door for comfort. And what's the gain? Nothing. Well, if you're working with a small space, you might want your doors to "park" in a smaller area, but that doesn't seem to be a problem ere. In fact, I'd consider a 17' long master. What are you going to do with the space at the foot of the bed? Nothing. It's just empty space. Imagine you put a TV on the wall ... it's 17' away ... too far for easy vision, and you have to turn up the volume. Do pocket doors wear over time? We would prefer to keep them closed so the mud room to kitchen area would be closed most of the time. Yes, they do wear out, and they're harder for little fingers to open. I personally would go with a pocket door here anyway ... because I'd keep the door open most of the time. An alternative: A swinging door. Other thoughts: - I understand that you like to cook (and you will again once the kids are a bit older), but a larger kitchen is in no way a better kitchen. This much cabinetry is going to cost a fortune, and much of it is likely to end up as clutter-space. - Is that a pantry in the middle of the house? Again, this would be a good place for a pocket door. Note that your standard hinged door covers up a big portion of your shelves, meaning you'd have to go into the pantry /close the door to access these items. OR, this might be a place for double doors on swing hinges (swing hinged doors don't require hands to open). - The dining room isn't exactly close to the kitchen -- it's not absolutely ridiculously far, but neither is is conveniently placed. Consider the steps that'll be necessary to transport food, plates, drinks to the dining room. The butler's pantry half-way between is a good place for a buffet set-up ... be sure to include a few outlets there so you can run a crock pot in this area. - Is that empty room across from the stairs a half-bath? If not, it should be! You absolutely need a bathroom on your main living level. - Upstairs you're over-bathed (plus another full bath in the basement and what I think is a half bath on the main floor). You'll run yourself ragged keeping these bathrooms clean /keeping toiletries and toilet paper in them each. And only one of the upstairs baths (the one that shares a wall with the laundry room) looks to be adequately sized /comfortable. The others have minimal sink space, meaning no storage for the kids as they grow older. I'd go with ONE nice-sized bathroom open to the hallway. So much less money, so much less work....See MoreBuilding dream home, architect wants cost plus 12%, need advice.
Comments (66)I built my custom home and design it as well. It was my first and I was very green. My advise is make sure you know what you want and what you are willing to pay for. Learn who your builder is and do not trust too much when they start tell you what you (should) want. I learned the hard way and two months into the build project I had to practically live at the construction site. The builder did not like it much but it was my house and not his so I did not care. We budded heads when he kept defaulting to "his standards". He was good for the big strokes but when it came down to the details he failed. Pick out as many items as you can upfront so you can get a very good idea of cost. We went $50k over budget and that was because the builder's defaulting to "his standards" at the budget discussion table that I was not aware of until we were into the build project. I initially took his advise on some designing, I wish I didn't. When I became the wiser I starting taking things back in my own hands. And I am speaking of selections like cabinetry, windows, flooring tile, countertops doors, decking materials and much more finishes. I had a budget I wasn't suppose to go over and he, the builder, did not make it clear as to what we were going to get within that budget. I do not regret that I went over. And I tell you if I had another $50k laying around I would have used it up....See MoreOne Devoted Dame
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