When your appraiser just doesnt *get* your home...
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Comments (25)I had lights put in cach closet so they come on when the door is opened and off when closed. I love this feature; no more hunting in a dark closet. Used T5 slim flourescest light fixtures. I also have drawers on all the bottom kitchen cabinets. Makes those dark recesses in the back go away. Did in floor hot water heat which I love. No more drafty forced air. Put a shower valve that controls a hose spigot inside the garage so we can wash the car on the outside concrete pad in the winter. Full extension glides on the kitchen drawers and the soft close on the drawers and the cabinet doors. We are at 5000 ft in northern Wyoming so we did tripple pane casement windows and 2x6 walls with foam insulation on the exteriior wall. I would do double hung windows if I had to do it again becasue the flies like to roost between the inside screen and the window pane. Have at least R50 in the ceiling that's blown in fiberglass. The new stuff that doesn't itch. I also agree with putting plenty of outside spigots and outside electrical plugs. Wish I had more....See MoreOT? Homemaking when you're never home ...
Comments (26)Thank you all so very much for your thoughtful, moving responses. Wow - I'm overwhelmed to know that so many of you feel similarly, and also wowed that there at least a couple of you whose lifestyles are like mine - with your hubbies staying at home while you go out there and bring home the bacon. (It is an unusual lifestyle, and I've found, surprisingly, that even in this day and age of acceptance, many people still raise eyebrows at the choice that my DH and I have made in this regard.) I think that women just lean naturally more towards that nurturing instinct than men, which is pretty much what Red said. Not that there aren't men who make a home and do it beautifully (I think of my own dad, who adores making homemade soup and knows how to clean house down to the last perfect detail), but more often than not, home-nurturing is a feminine trait. Perhaps it is a combination of seasonal change and hormones and "the grass is greener syndrome" rearing up in me that's causing my feelings. We don't have kids at home, although 7 indoor cats are demanding and force constant cleaning vigilance around the house. I must admit, I'm thankful that DH is home to deal with the nastier aspects of this, as I have zero desire to wipe up kitty barf or clean up the misplaced "tootsie rolls" that magically appear on the rugs at times. In my past life (when I was married to my ex), I spent 4 years as a full-time homemaker, and I absolutely adored being at home. That was a period in which some of my fondest memories were made, as my mom and I got to enjoy hours of "girl time" together. We shopped, we lunched, we traveled, and on my own I decorated and gardened and cooked and sewed, and did not for one minute miss the outside workplace. After four years circumstances dictated that I go back to work full time, and I've now been at this job for 15 years. Just as I was thankful for my time off work, I'm also thankful for my job. I know it's enabled me to do much and have things and experiences that I otherwise wouldn't have been able to. A very important part of my life nowadays is traveling. DH and I love Mexico, and I honestly am not sure what I'd do if suddenly I were forced to give up our twice-yearly trips down south of the border. This thread has reminded me that there are indeed trade-offs, and I need to be increasingly thankful for what I do have and love and enjoy, instead of pining for what I don't have. I feel I'm rambling now. Just wanted to thank everyone for the wonderful input. There's so much to ponder here....See MoreHave you had your home appraised?
Comments (49)The reason I'm confused is because people refinance ALL the time to lower their rates and these days, it's pretty unusual to see a prepayment penalty. I'm not saying it's wrong, it's entirely dependent on the type of loan you did, but just to be sure, I would double check your note to confirm a prepayment penalty clause is there and what the terms are. Refinancing is not a small deal and requires a specific expertise. If this man is lying and/or not doing his job, I would have a very difficult time trusting him with our financing. I might even be inclined to have a word with his manager and insist that a different loan agent be assigned to us. This is a little off topic, but figured I'd share anyways, but when I arranged for the loan to purchase our house, the loan rep kept trying to push us into an adjustable rate mortgage. I kept telling him no and insisted we wanted a fixed rate, 30 year mortgage only. On the day we went to sign docs we did it at the office of the Title Company. They get their instructions from the lender ie the loan rep and when they handed me the note to sign, it was for a 30 year Adjustable Rate Mortgage! I know from experience, that based on the conversations a borrower has with their loan rep, they trust the documents are accurate and they'll sign whatever is put in front of them without so much as a glance at what they're signing. And with us at least, the copies we were sent when the origination began, were for a fixed mortgage. Yet if it ends up being wrong at signing, the bank will tell you, you should have read what you were signing, and you are stuck. The commission for an Adjustable Rate mortgage was higher than that of a fixed rate loan and that Loan Rep was banking we wouldn't catch it. Well I did and I was really upset and made them redraw the docs. Since then, I've heard several times that the same thing happened to others in our area who had financed with that company which was a very large industry leader at the time. I can't say I feel bad that they are now defunk!...See MoreWhen do you know your new home doesn't interest you anymore?
Comments (27)The listing agent cancelled our appointment by email. Our agent let him know, any time is fine. But no answer. ************************************ The pre build approval process has become brutal in many jurisdictions.... I came across the grading plan requirements for a 2008 build--seven items. And they let me draft it myself, instead of insisting on costly surveyors. On my first builds in the '80s--all on infill city lots--as long as you put in swales around the perimeter you were good to go. This build: 50 items to be included. And the city refuses to even look at your building plans till they are satisfied with the grading plan! Oh, also a Tree Protection Plan by a licensed arborist, identifying in excruciating and costly detail every tree on the lot and the neighbouring lots as well. Then you have to fence them off to prevent construction damage....See MoreMark Bischak, Architect
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