Paid for Custom Home Design and now Bids are Way Over Budget
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Comments (29)Very interesting ideas on this thread! I'd say I'm most in line with LazyGardens: We're sticking to a simple almost square footprint, which is a money-saver. I say "almost" because we will have a bump-out covered patio at the back, but it's not a "busy" footprint. In that same vein, we're sticking to some inexpensive, standard-cost items: - the house'll be around 1700 sf - simple roofline - standard sized windows and doors - open floor plan But the biggest of all is that we are purposefully planning NOT to build to the extent of our budget. That is, we are building a house significantly beneath our means. We want a small house that'll be easy to maintain, and because we're building inexpensively, we can afford to go all-out on the couple of things we really want, and it means that we can pay cash, which is freedom to do more of what we want (instead of what the bank wants). Perhaps equal to that in importance: We are questioning EVERYTHING. Why do we want this? Why do we want that? We've determined that a whole lot of things that most people say are necessities . . . we don't actually want. I LOVE the arches that some of you are using! I can't believe the HGTV people say these things are old-fashioned and out of style! Every time they say Ewwwww and rip out an "old" arch to update the house, I die a little inside. Come to my house, arches! I will adopt you, paint you a pretty color, and smile at you every single day! Oh, and together we will boo-hiss the HGTV people. Autumn, I'd also like to know the website where you're getting your arches -- and don't forget to share pictures with us when yours are farther along! I totally agree with Annie when she says, Put your money where it'll show. For example, I never quite understand people on HGTV who put big money into custom closets. I mean, I see the point in well-made organization inserts that'll allow you to use every inch of the space . . . but people are going to SEE your kitchen and your living room -- even you aren't going to linger in the closet. I'll second what someone else said about being careful of old materials =ing increased labor. Doors are a good example. If you buy a new pre-hung door, a carpenter can pop it in super-fast (costing you little). On the other hand, if you bring him a used door sans frame . . . he's going to have to fabricate a frame from scratch, and that'll take him much more time (and you'll pay more). So if you're bringing in old doors (or whatever else) because you want the old-fashioned, nostalgic look -- cool! But if you're bringing them in to save money, you might be shooting yourself in the foot. On the other hand, vintage-nostalgic-cottage is our style . . . and I am searching out vintage light fixtures. However, the Electronics teacher at my school is having his intro-level students refurbish them for me as a lesson! He appreciates "real work", as it is educational for them. If something is ruined, or if I buy something beyond repair . . . well, I've saved so much that I can afford to "lose" occasionally. I pay for materials and slip him a case of sodas every now and then. He's also going to do my electrical for me. Likewise, our school's Masonry teacher is going to lay my brick. I wish Plumbing were offered at my high school! If you're looking for used items, don't neglect the Housing for Humanity resale store. People donate really good stuff to them (and a bunch of junk too). For example, I saw a WONDERFUL kitchen island -- brand new, never installed -- with beautiful black granite countertop -- last summer. It was on sale for some ridiculous price like $800. I still regret not buying it. I would've gladly purchased cabinets and countertops to match it, though I don't know where I could've stored it. And I'll disagree with one frequently-mentioned concept: I don't like the idea of building what you can afford today with the idea of ripping it out and replacing it when you can afford to upgrade (this seems to come up with countertops most often, but it could apply to other items as well). In the long run, this costs MORE, and it's wasteful -- both in terms of personal finances and ecological resources. If you're not going to be happy with what you can afford, ask yourself whether this is the right time to build. I was very interested in Tulips' link to the three-house comparison and spent more time than I care to admit studying those images. Honestly, I was surprised that in every single set of pictures, I strongly preferred the mid or high priced house. I would not have said that windows/lighting and crown molding were THAT important, but the website made a solid case, and now I am a believer. I'll throw out one more item: The fake wooden floors in the low house really couldn't hold a candle to the real hardwoods . . . though I wonder if it would've been SO EVIDENT if the rooms had been full of furniture....See MoreNeighbor built house way over no build line
Comments (39)See a lawyer who specializes in property law. See one as soon as you can possibly get an appointment tomorrow morning. Spend today getting your other neighbors on board to assist you. Yes, an attorney will cost you something - but if you can get a half-dozen or more neighbors to help split the cost, it won't be terribly expensive. Here is my thinking: Because your neighbor has been told that he has to get EVERYBODY to sign off in order to get the variance he wants, I am guessing that the language that originally created the deed restrictions says something to the effect that they are for the mutual benefit of all property owners within the development. If so, the deed restrictions are a covenant that runs with the land. Everyone buying property bears the BURDEN of the deed restrictions on their property but also ENJOYS the benefits of having the same deed restrictions apply to every other property. Each buyer basically agrees to be bound by the restrictions (thus giving up certain rights that he would otherwise have with his land) in order to gain the benefits of everybody else abiding by the same restrictions. Under such conditions the developer, by himself, cannot waive the deed restrictions. Since your developer has said he will sign, you can bet that if the developer had the legal right (all by himself) to waive the deed restriction on the land, the developer would already have done so. The developer didn't... so that very very likely means that he couldn't. A lawyer will need to check to see how your deed restrictions were created. If I'm right though, you or any one of your other neighbors or all of you together have standing (i.e., the legal right) to go to court and get a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) to make the neighbor stop all work IMMEDIATELY. You would not even have to have him served with process first - so the first thing he would know about the matter would be when the TRO was delivered to him. A TRO is similar to a cease and desist letter but much stronger because it has the force of law behind it. TRO's generally have a limited life span. They're only good until a full hearing can be held on the matter. So after the TRO is issued, then there would be additional court hearings to determine if a temporary injunction or a permanent injunction should be ordered. At those hearings your neighbor would be required to make his case that he should be allowed to continue. But I don't know of too many courts that would allow the neighbor to continue to build without first getting a variance from the county or zoning commission or whoever grants such things in your jurisdiction. If your neighbor continues to build in defiance of a TRO or an injunction, he can actually be taken to jail. Given that your new neighbor appears to be a bully, it would probably be best if a goodly number of neighbors joined in together in the request for the TRO. Otherwise the neighbor might try to bully the one person (possibly you) who takes the lead in forcing him to stop work. If a dozen neighbors go in together though and all of their names appear (in alphabetical order) on the request for the TRO, it is much much less likely that the neighbor will try to bully anyone. A TRO would stop the neighbor from his strategy of deliberately INCREASING the supposed economic hardship he will face if forced to tear up the work he has already done. And the fact that he has already continued to work on the project in light of the fact that he KNOWS he is in violation of deed restrictions is a strong argument that the TRO should issue. Good luck - and let us know how this all turns out. BTW - I too am confused about who the "real estate agent" is and what her role was in this whole SNAFU. Are you saying that the new neighbors (the ones who are building) were victimized by an unscrupulous real estate agent who did not inform them of the deed restrictions on the property or convinced them that they could ignore the deed restrictions. If so, it is possible that your new neighbors aren't so much bullies as they are victims who are reacting badly to a situation where they see themselves possibly losing a huge investment because they were given bad information. It sounds as if they are continuing to make some bad choices but one would still feel a bit of pity for them....See MoreCan anyone help with confusion over custom cabinet bid
Comments (20)My custom cabinet maker priced the same way, and I also questioned him at first because it was new to me. He told me that over 20 years of building cabinets it's the simplest and fairest way he has of quoting and it all works out pretty closely in the end. Think of it this way: all kitchens have appliance cutouts, it's not unique to your kitchen, and it's already factored into their price per foot to begin with. That is, he could have told you it's $500 x 10 linear base feet for the range wall so a total of $5,000. Or else he could have told you it's $833 per actual cabinet footprint after measurement, so $833 x 6 feet of base cabs plus $0 x 4 feet empty range space = 5,000. It's not like yours in the only kitchen that's ever had space for appliances, so they are already taking that into account in their calcs and it wouldn't have changed the answer. In fact, I'm amazed they even offered to give you another $500 off -- I would take it and run. :) Same thing for the range hood. They already knew they were pricing the hood before they gave you the quote, so their hood price reflects the delta cost. Would it make you feel better to see it itemized as a lower price per linear foot, then a higher price for the hood? The number would be the same in the end because they know what it costs them to build you a quality kitchen and that's ultimately reflected in the bottom line, I hope that helped. I know what you felt because I had the same initial reaction until my cab maker explained it to me and when I thought about it I saw he was right. Bottom line, if you think it's a fair price go with it, if not go somewhere else, but don't get too hung up on the methodology behind their calculations. Good luck with your new kitchen!...See MoreHelp! Custom home design is a nightmare.
Comments (156)Is there a specific reason that you need three garage doors all opening to the driveway? Our first house was a reasonable sized ranch house with a wide and extra deep two car garage (somewhere about 35 feet). A prior owner had grabbed 6 to 8 feet and added a breakfast room to the kitchen but the garage was full depth for 2/3 of the width. The sellers used the deep space for two cars swapping the fun car with the beater according to the season. We loved having all the space we wanted for the lawn tractor, workshop equipment and projects. The garage didn't look out of proportion to the house and only having a two car wide driveway limited the expense of maintenance and the fun of shoveling snow (I have since discovered the wonders of using a machine for that task!) I have seen several houses with a large front opening garage that also has single overhead door access to the rear or a double service door. Many time the outdoor tools and furniture are used at the opposite end of the lot from the driveway and the rear access makes it much easier to use and store those items. In my neighborhood there is a ranch house where the original garage was converted into a drive through garage with a double door front and back. Behind the attached garage the owners put a hard surface patio area and built a detached garage for his fun car storage and workshop space. I don't know if you are open to such ideas but flexibility can work for garage spaces just as it does inside the house....See Morepricklypearcactus
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