Paid for Custom Home Design and now Bids are Way Over Budget
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Comments (29)Very interesting ideas on this thread! I'd say I'm most in line with LazyGardens: We're sticking to a simple almost square footprint, which is a money-saver. I say "almost" because we will have a bump-out covered patio at the back, but it's not a "busy" footprint. In that same vein, we're sticking to some inexpensive, standard-cost items: - the house'll be around 1700 sf - simple roofline - standard sized windows and doors - open floor plan But the biggest of all is that we are purposefully planning NOT to build to the extent of our budget. That is, we are building a house significantly beneath our means. We want a small house that'll be easy to maintain, and because we're building inexpensively, we can afford to go all-out on the couple of things we really want, and it means that we can pay cash, which is freedom to do more of what we want (instead of what the bank wants). Perhaps equal to that in importance: We are questioning EVERYTHING. Why do we want this? Why do we want that? We've determined that a whole lot of things that most people say are necessities . . . we don't actually want. I LOVE the arches that some of you are using! I can't believe the HGTV people say these things are old-fashioned and out of style! Every time they say Ewwwww and rip out an "old" arch to update the house, I die a little inside. Come to my house, arches! I will adopt you, paint you a pretty color, and smile at you every single day! Oh, and together we will boo-hiss the HGTV people. Autumn, I'd also like to know the website where you're getting your arches -- and don't forget to share pictures with us when yours are farther along! I totally agree with Annie when she says, Put your money where it'll show. For example, I never quite understand people on HGTV who put big money into custom closets. I mean, I see the point in well-made organization inserts that'll allow you to use every inch of the space . . . but people are going to SEE your kitchen and your living room -- even you aren't going to linger in the closet. I'll second what someone else said about being careful of old materials =ing increased labor. Doors are a good example. If you buy a new pre-hung door, a carpenter can pop it in super-fast (costing you little). On the other hand, if you bring him a used door sans frame . . . he's going to have to fabricate a frame from scratch, and that'll take him much more time (and you'll pay more). So if you're bringing in old doors (or whatever else) because you want the old-fashioned, nostalgic look -- cool! But if you're bringing them in to save money, you might be shooting yourself in the foot. On the other hand, vintage-nostalgic-cottage is our style . . . and I am searching out vintage light fixtures. However, the Electronics teacher at my school is having his intro-level students refurbish them for me as a lesson! He appreciates "real work", as it is educational for them. If something is ruined, or if I buy something beyond repair . . . well, I've saved so much that I can afford to "lose" occasionally. I pay for materials and slip him a case of sodas every now and then. He's also going to do my electrical for me. Likewise, our school's Masonry teacher is going to lay my brick. I wish Plumbing were offered at my high school! If you're looking for used items, don't neglect the Housing for Humanity resale store. People donate really good stuff to them (and a bunch of junk too). For example, I saw a WONDERFUL kitchen island -- brand new, never installed -- with beautiful black granite countertop -- last summer. It was on sale for some ridiculous price like $800. I still regret not buying it. I would've gladly purchased cabinets and countertops to match it, though I don't know where I could've stored it. And I'll disagree with one frequently-mentioned concept: I don't like the idea of building what you can afford today with the idea of ripping it out and replacing it when you can afford to upgrade (this seems to come up with countertops most often, but it could apply to other items as well). In the long run, this costs MORE, and it's wasteful -- both in terms of personal finances and ecological resources. If you're not going to be happy with what you can afford, ask yourself whether this is the right time to build. I was very interested in Tulips' link to the three-house comparison and spent more time than I care to admit studying those images. Honestly, I was surprised that in every single set of pictures, I strongly preferred the mid or high priced house. I would not have said that windows/lighting and crown molding were THAT important, but the website made a solid case, and now I am a believer. I'll throw out one more item: The fake wooden floors in the low house really couldn't hold a candle to the real hardwoods . . . though I wonder if it would've been SO EVIDENT if the rooms had been full of furniture....See MoreCharged for Custom Home Bid
Comments (38)RJ, when you price out a job at no cost does your process involve: 1) producing shop drawings along with the price 2) producing full kitchen layouts if kitchen is part of the scope 3) communicating and reviewing detailed bids of 15-20 subs and vendors for both compliance of the project, completion of the bid and lead times needed 3) meeting with the client several times for 2-4 hours each, proving cost saving solutions, resolving plan conflicts and pricing out various scopes in different options (brick, stucco, siding, etc.)? and many other steps along with those? I know, as a millworker, you have to put time and focus on your bids, I just doubt that your process is as complex and comprehensive. If it is not as complex and involving, I may be wrong, but I would guess that during some of the projects that you completed, you have had to ask for additional compensation or there was a misunderstanding on the plans or via client communication due to ambiguities not discussed during pre-project. When I provide a bid price, with the exception of the client taking longer than 60 days to decide to move forward (due to potential significant material price increases, but rarely) I stick to that price no matter what. Pre-contonstruction and pre-planning, as you know, are more crucial at times than the execution. I just don't give those services away. I do appreciate this discussion, as it has helped me in renaming my process as a simple bid to a bid consultation. In my experience, there is a huge difference and most builders do not provide the level of service that I do, per contract! bry, I am sorry if I was ofensive to you, I was merely sensitve at being called unethical. I am 100x more transparent than congress and this president will ever be and I agree with you about our current governmental system (both Republican and Democrat). I do not see myself in the same boat. When my clients agree to move to the next step, they have generally thought things out and have already regonized my value to the project. They are not making decisions in a vacuum, not with the amount of research most of them do, so when they do decide that paying for my service is worth it, they normally do it with open eyes and full intent. I really hope this dialogue has been helpful to folks out there. As I mentioned earlier, there are many ways to agree to a relationship between builder and client, the market ultimately decides what is right in this case. I have had many people reject my process only to come back to me and ask me to move forward with it, because other builders don't want to (more like cannot afford to) put in the time and focus on the bid. In fact I have produced bids for folks in other parts of the country, who know I will not build for them due to proximity, since they understood that after the process, they can take my product, use it in their contract, and receive true apples to apples bids from other builders. So for some it works and for others it doesn't I am glad we all have options....See MoreWhat's Reasonable for Custom Home Build Budget Items??
Comments (9)For a "Cost of the Work Plus a Fee" contract here would be Change Orders for changes in the "scope of work" if there was a Guaranteed Maximum Price. An Allowance in the Budget of such a contract would automatically generate a Change Order when the work was bought out. Similar to a Fixed Price contract, the design documents of a Cost Plus with a GMP contract should be as complete as possible with as few Allowances as possible. A Contingency in such a contract belongs to the owner and is really just an amount in the Budget that can be used with the owner's permission without generating a Change Order. I don't advise a homeowner to attempt to manage a Cost of the Work contract without professional assistance unless they have the time and knowledge to do it well since that can result in the homeowner taking on excessive cost risk as appears to have happened here. So, is there a GMP? How is the contractor's Fee determined? List the Allowance items in the contract. Did you or your representative negotiate the Allowance amounts? Can you propose bidders and suppliers to the GC? Did you have professional representation or advice in the design and contract negotiation phases and do you have such assistance now?...See MoreContractor bids all over the place?
Comments (17)Princeton is the weirdest town I have ever encountered... If you give a price for remodeling too low, homeowners think it's too low and go for a higher price... If the price is too high neighbors suggest using their contractor who is much cheaper but never shows up or charges an arm and a leg and botch-up the job, some estimate the jobs to get a foot in the door to lock the job and if accepted they don't return calls thinking they bided to low, etc heard many stories like this, especially from contractors that come recommended, or the other way around they're expensive thinking recommendation got the job in the bag but the customer says "wow, that is high". I know many good contractors who don't go into that town to give estimates simply for the reasons I mentioned and all that drama with the homeowner mentality in that town. I myself in all the time in business did only a few jobs there one was an office for a Stock Brokerage firm in the early '90s (I think it's a Jammin Crepes place there now) did a deck remodeling on one of the Estate homes. One job I never forget... I gave a price there on a simple kitchen update, nothing major, small house, direct kitchen replacement, I was @ around 15k, haven't heard anything from the homeowner, did a follow-up and he said they will use a guy who did some work for the neighbor... I live 5min from Princeton, hang out there all the time in the summer, nice college town, lots of good restaurants, etc about 1 year later I ran into a homeowner with the kitchen, he was in the same restaurant (Blue Point Grill I suggest you visit if haven't been there yet) at the table right next to me, and we started talking and he said I wish I hired you because he got screwed royally on that kitchen, the guy who came highly recommended charged him 30k and botched up the job and never returned to make it good on it. That being said, don't go by what websites say PER SF Pricing, they are all misleading. You cannot price any job, especially remodeling job by SF. I know the approximate cost of what I can build a New Home on spec per SF other than that I never base estimates on PerSF bases, every job is different and based on materials-overhead-profit. Especially in Princeton, depending on what area you are in, if you are in the heart of Princeton some places you cannot get dumpsters in, or have to deal with other restrictions so the cost is always up to conduct business there, many trucking company's, excavation companies and even contractors, they hear Princeton and they don't wanna do anything with it unless they can get their numbers. Many surrounding towns have Princeton addresses, like RockyHill, Montgomery, Franklyn, Princeton Junction, etc the remodeling cost in this area is much more reasonable because they have fewer restrictions. As for investing money goes, if you are in actual Princeton Township or Princeton Boro (not sure if they combined the two yet, I know they did that with the police a while back) It's worth investing, you cannot go wrong with that. Everything sells like hotcakes there and very fast as most surrounding places with Princeton addresses ( some people just want to have a Princeton Address even if they live in a different town) :-). Good luck...See MoreRelated Professionals
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