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Neighbors built fence, making our driveway a tunnel
Comments (49)An older thread, but I guess it's been a little slow as it wasn't that far down the list. Pinkpaula notes that the fence is built in accordance with her area's codes. These regs will vary by city and perhaps neighborhood. In some areas a fence wound need to adhere to a setback to allow for maintenance without trespass onto the neighbors property. In other areas there is a maintenance easement parallel to the property line to allow for this (unlikely in a neighborhood that old). From the description it sounds like the kind of neighborhood I grew up in. It wasn't uncommon for a driveway to run between two houses or for two drives to run parallel. Most wouldn't allow for opening the car door until you were past the house. Down the block, one neighbor A built a fence on the property line only to realize neighbor B's driveway was too narrow for his pickup truck. Neighbor A ended up taking out a section of the fence in the back, neighbor B would use neighbor A's driveway and cross over. Will it effect the resale? Since that's what most of the homes in the neighborhood will have to deal with than it shouldn't have a major impact. Your comparable isn't a house on a big lot and a big yard, it's the other houses in the neighborhood that are close together. The reality of this situation is that if you can't open your car door while in the driveway it's likely that you couldn't have gotten out of your car without trespassing on your neighbor's lot to some degree. With your backyard and garage it sounds like you're fine, but your guests aren't. I'm with Kaismom on this. If fences are allowed on the property line in that area there's no reason for him not to put it there. He didn't want to sell part of the land, that's his call. The posters that are calling him a jerk are sympathetic to your plight but unrealistic and most would not be inclined to give up their property rights if the situation were reversed....See Moreoverhauling our driveway and landscaping
Comments (12)You have a small yard, which will be dominated by the driveway if you put a circular driveway in. Also, new cars have backup cameras, making backing out of your driveway easy. I zip backwards out of mine, which is long. My bet would be your next car will come with a backup camera or it will be a not-too-expensive option. I wouldn't put in a circular driveway. It's hard to advise about the planting. What exactly is there? Are they perennials that flower for a long period? Are they shrubs? Are they trees that haven't reached full size? Do you like any or all of them?...See MoreOur lawn, their driveway
Comments (47)There is a rule, actually, that correlates with one's legal responsibility. One does not have the responsibility of trimming plants off of other people's property. But they have the absolute right to trim anything on their own property, regardless of who started the plant. In other words, if your tree is growing into the neighbor's yard, they have the right to trim it all the way back to the property line, even though its trunk is located in your yard and you planted it. Just because it's grass instead of a tree doesn't change the responsibilities. One is not obligated to trim their grass at the property line, but the neighbor has the right to trim the grass back to the line, if they so choose. And having their driveway there might make them choose to do it. I have basically the exact same situation, except that in my scenario I am the "neighbor with the driveway." However, it's not really a driveway. I have a mowing strip inlaid into the yard at the property line because I have groundcover and my neighbor has grass .... wildly spreading, "invasive" grass. Next to my wildly spreading, invasive" groundcover! I am the one that installed the groundcover and the mowing strip (so that there is a clear line. The plants on each side must be kept separate.) My neighbor could care less about trimming the outer edge of his grass. I am the one that "caused the problem" and the one most interested in keeping the plants distinctly separated. I take it upon myself to do what needs to be done in order for the situation to work. I ask nothing of my neighbor. Way back when the mowing strip was first installed and my neighbor was taking care of his own grass, he would occasionally edge it. But he was neither dependable or did a tidy job. Now he has a mow & blow crew and they do a half-baked job of it, too. I don't want to do the work, but concede that I must. Most of the time, I edge it with Round-Up (surgically sprayed with a fan tip, which means that it must be done frequently so as to not look bad.) Being as it is easy and rapid, it is my preferred way. BTW, my neighbor said OK to the Round-Up to edge his grass. I think he, like you, Robinsnestadv, feels some responsibility to edge his lawn to keep it off of my things, and is therefore happy to make concessions in order to be absolved of the work. I don't think he knows it is entirely my responsibility. Anyway, my edging is very tidy so there's nothing to complain about. If I were you, Robbin', I would completely stop edging the neighbor's driveway. If he brings up a question about it, I would tell him that he's more than welcome to edge it all the way to the property line. That you have erroneously edged it at previous times only serves to confuse the neighbor and might go toward causing new bad feelings as you're no longer doing it. But he must come to understand who has what responsibility, and accept it. While one does not have the legal responsibility to trim their own plants as they grow across the lot line when it is the commonly accepted trees, grass and bushes that everyone is used to, one might cause some hard feelings and even possibly court action if they plant something that is noxious, invasive, or causes the neighbor and enormous amount of work. To be sure, if one cause the neighbor huge amounts of work, it is not right and would rightly be the cause of the neighbor's ill will. I don't think lawn grass qualifies, but something like bamboo might....See MoreNeighbor drives over grass & uses our driveway!
Comments (235)@ GGal - You do recognize my screen name right? [g] Yes, I’m aware that you have been here for 25 years. I’ve been here since 2002, so that’s 22 years. It may have been an ongoing issue to you, but it hasn’t been for me. I’m happy to see old threads resurrected. And either it is of interest to me or it isn’t and I ignore it and find something else to read. I’ve resurrected old threads plenty of times intentionally and unintentionally. I don’t see a problem with that at all. So we basically just disagree on the subject. That is inevitable on a public forum. I’m not following you GGal, about the confusion issue. What is the issue about confusion? The only confusion I see, is when someone clicks on a link that Houzz has intentionally put adjacent to a new thread that they have not noticed is an old thread. Why does Houzz place them in that way? Because they think that all their “old” content is valuable to them as a garden discussion website, I would assume. You evidently don’t agree with them. And going by my own experiences with old threads, once you have commented on an old thread unintentionally a couple of times, you figure it out and only post to old threads intentionally after that. It seems a problem that takes care of itself. And I am happy to hear that anything that was perceived as disrespectful was not intentional. I certainly post pretty direct and strong worded comments some of the time and do my best to communicate in a way that is respectful but you don’t always know how something you say is going to be received, all you can do is remind yourself once in awhile to do your best. As for the different forums…. Landscape design forum - I would assume gardeners and professionals gravitate to that forum and try to offer advice. That doesn’t limit the input you get to professionals. And are you referring to all gardeners who do not garden for a living as ‘hobby’ gardeners? [g] Anyway - to me it’s simple. You want advice on landscaping your yard, you go to the Landscape forum and you get all kinds of ideas from all kinds of gardeners and you thank them and consider what appeals to you and go away happy. Whoever started this thread chose to post it in both the Landscape Design forum and the Home Decorating and Design Dilemma forums. I think the OP would soon figure out what kind of advice they would get from each forum....See More- 9 years ago
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