Neighbor came on construction site and took photos
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Comments (86)...if I went to see a movie, I would be noticing kitchens. lascatz, I do this all the time these days. I'm driving my hubby crazy! Congratulations on your happy news, spincrazy! Even though you now have a good reason to stick to a time line, try to follow lascatz and marthavila's advice and take a break, even if it's a small one. And it might not hurt to heed my hubby's advice. When I get stuck in a never-ending what-do-I-do quandary, he reminds me that "there comes a time in every project when you need to shoot the engineer and ship the product." ;-) Not that they actually do that (thank goodness since he's an engineer!) but his point is that we can fuss and fuss and fuss with a plan, thinking the perfect answer is just around the corner and we fail to realize that what we might be doing is just revisiting the same issues over and over and not making any progress at all. Besides, perfection isn't possible....See MoreI took my first gravestone photos today, and......
Comments (15)I am a volunteer on FindAGrave.com It's a very neat web site. You can look up cemeteries and or names. If you need a picture of a headstone far away from you. .just put in a request on the site and they e-mail that to the nearest volunteer in the area. I just got a request yesterday for 3 in my area. .I did e-mail them and told them I claimed the request but we are having a heat wave here in Oklahoma right now so it would be later next week till I could get out late of an evening to take the pictures. Sometimes you do have to do a lot of walking to find the grave. It's sure a lot more fun to do this in the fall or when the weather is a LOT cooler. .Susan you should check out FindAGrave. .I bet you would make a great volunter there also. .Debbie...See MorePhotos i just took of what's blooming at my house
Comments (6)love them! beautiful jade tree! could the one you're asking the name for be some sort of anacampseros rufescens? If it is...it's getting a lot of sun to grow so compact and red! I'm not really sure what happened to the links, could you just highlight a word, select the Link icon, and paste in the link from your photobucket album? If that's what you did...not sure why houzz didn't like it....See MoreNeighbors from hell during our construction process
Comments (25)Two disclaimers before I start. First, I am not your attorney and this is not legal advice, this time I thought I needed to say that. Next, I tend to be fairly aggressive in stopping this type of BS before it starts taking up too much of my time. ----- If this were one or possibly two neighbors I would advise ignoring it and just moving on. However, at some point it becomes a self-reinforcing problem and I suspect with three neighbors participating you may be at that point. In those situations they don't need your participation in order to have drama, they can participate in the drama with each other and may attempt to escalate in order to get a reaction. In some of these situations their need to prove you are the bad guy will extend to outright criminal behavior in order to get a reaction from you that they can use to prove they were "right about you all along." I am going to focus on one thing specifically and relay what I would have done. Again, this works for my personality but may not for yours. Harassing contractors (yelling, threatening, hovering, spraying with a hose) The above is what I see as your most actionable thing. Especially spraying with a hose as technically that is assault (not saying that you will get a prosecution for it). I would instruct the general contractor that if anyone on the job gets sprayed with a hose that contractor should immediately stop working until they have dried sufficiently to work "safely." Please call the police to report the incident and present me with a separate bill for all the charges related to that delay. I would then present that bill to the neighbor as actual damages caused by their action. I would hand the letter to them as well as mail a copy. When handing it to them I would simply say, "I will give you a chance to settle this but I sincerely hope you don't because I want to escalate it." The whole point of this is to get all the actions out in front of an authority figure. If your side of the story is accurate the judge is likely to do you a solid and issue a warning to them, even in small claims court. This is essentially reporting the bully to the principal. Usually that stops these kinds of problems. Publicly shaming them on the internet is the other option, I just don't love that option as it can get away from you. I guess my only real advice is listen to your attorney but do let him help you stop this now if he thinks he can. Otherwise it is very likely to continue to get worse....See MoreNajeebah
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