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Comments (9)Carrie, I think it kind of depends on what you're spending the money on if you withdraw it. (Again, not a lawyer.) After my dad died and I got Power of Attorney for my mom, we put my name on her checking accounts so that I could pay her bills, as she's not able to handle money (Alzheimer's). I make sure to keep copies of all the bills I've paid, and I always make sure each check is noted in the register. I also keep all receipts for the money spent on her prescriptions. It's hard enough to care for one's parents as they age, but taking care of the finances is doubly difficult. My parents were so frugal, I know that if Mom realized we are paying over $2,200 a month for her apartment at the retirement community/assisted living facility, she'd come unglued. As it is, she doesn't ask those types of questions anymore. We have maybe enough money to pay out of pocket for a couple of years. I'm going to file for Veteran's Benefits for my mom to try and supplement this, as my dad was a WWII veteran. Best of luck to you!! You're not alone in this journey, for sure....See MoreAdding minor child to checking account
Comments (12)Noodlesportland asks, why on my own account? Well it is not to teach him anything. I really just have in mind his being able to access cash and maybe pay some bills by check should there be some sort of emergency or situation in which his parents are not able to do so. The possiblity of that is probably remote, but it just seems wise to be prepared. Let's say, my husband and I were in a horrendous car accident and hospitalized and the car totalled. My son would need transportation for his daily life (and to come visit his parents!). I would trust him to buy a used car if need be and to pay cash for it. Big expense. Smaller needs for cash come to mind, too. Our closest relatives are far away and we would have to rely on local friends in such an emergency, but I think it might be easier for everybody if he would have access to checks and cash. I have already given him a credit card on my account and he has been spotlessly responsible about that for over a year. He's got a good head on his shoulders and he knows pretty much everything about our finances-- where the dollars come from, how & when bills are paid, where records are, and so on. We have always been forthcoming about and explicative of money matters, so he is well grounded. Still, if anyone has any cautions, I'm interested to hear....See MoreDD at music camp for 7 weeks--spending money?
Comments (19)Thank you all for your ideas! This will be as much a part of the learning experience for her as the camp will, I imagine. Thank goodness there's a young man whom she knows from the youth symphony who will be going there too, for the second time, and we've learned that he's unapologetically frugal. Laundromat vs. laundry service, etc. So she can 'follow' him and not feel like she's the only one who doesn't have parents who are 'wealthy' or 'generous' enough. We were actually able to find a 'teen' account at a local credit union we've wanted to begin a relationship with for a while, but just haven't. After DD took a quick tutorial and had to score 100 on a test about basic banking and personal finance issues (love the credit union if only for that feature!), a person there very expertly walked us through establishing both a savings and a checking account. The checking comes with a debit card that is also a VISA if you use it that way, and you are protected against fraud if any fraudulent charges appear (that didn't involve your PIN). Best of both worlds. Never thought it would be that easy--now she just has to not lose the card (although she'll be safe as long as the PIN isn't with it, which it won't be.) I swear, g'web home decor conversations is the Place To Be. I'll keep all those ideas in mind, including yours, Beth, a preloaded AAA Visa--who knew! Really helpful. Thanks so much!...See MoreMoney matters?
Comments (12)When I started getting child support for my daughter, I opened a savings account and had it directly deposited. I didn't touch that since I wasn't used to getting it and didn't count on it. Since I never received it on a regular basis, I didn't want to count on it either. That was good because it stopped all of a sudden in December. Since it was mostly arrears, it is my money to do with as I choose. (ie. save it for my daughter's use or use for current living expenses or bills) The only amount that I would feel obligated to contribute to our joint account (if it wasn't needed for anything else) is the current monthly amount since that is supposed to cover supporting my daughter currently. (or even arrears that accrue since we've been together would also be joint) and my daughter should be able to have the things she needs taken care of first. Then I began receiving support for my son in March. I have used that money for our bills because we put $13K on credit cards over the last year to fund our attorney (for the support case and a custody case involving his ex) and we are using it to pay back our credit card. ($7k was for the support case so that is what I am paying back) and when I'm done paying that back, the rest that is owed to me will be mine. It was ordered after my son was 18 so it is ALL arrears and reimbursing what I spent on my son before I even met my husband. He is taking his ex to court for support now and when it's ordered, I would assume that he will put it in our bill paying account to pay back for his legal fees in his custody/support case and also use it for household expenses since his daughter is 9 and currently, I am using my separate money to pay for things his daughter needs or wants. I think it does matter whether it's current or arrears and it is intended for the child, not to fund someone else's court case. I would be upset if my husband asked to use my kids' support to pay for his court case. I'd certainly not use it for his court case if that meant my child, for whom it was intended, had to go without something. (even if it was not a 'need') However, child support is intended to cover rent, utilities, food, clothing, etc. and if you are not contributing a fair share to cover your child's living expenses, then the child support should go to that first. I think it would be wrong for a SAHM to expect hubby to pay all the bills and say the child support I get for my child is separate and can only be used on my child....See More- 9 years ago
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