Did you/Could you stay in current home while building?
Lindsy
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Comments (14)I am a total stress/emotional eater and it's already started just thinking about everything that needs to come together to build. So - I started myfitnesspal in November right before the holidays (hanging on to those dreaded baby pounds and my baby is 8!) and it's worked great - and it's FREE! You might want to check it out. I put in that I wanted to lose 1 pound a week until I reached my goal weight and so far I'm down 13 pounds since Thanksgiving. I love that I don't need to totally deprive myself of the things I like but just need to keep my calories at a certain level to achieve my goals-it tracks it all very easily. Not to my goal weight yet but hoping the maintenace will be fine. That is where I usually lose it and gain it all back. :(...See MoreWhere do you live while building?
Comments (12)We sold our home in just 3 days Oct. 2011. We had an offer on a short sale we planned to gut (which was taking too long in the end, so we pulled our offer March 2012). We finally decided in May 2012 we were going to build. We signed a 6 month lease initially with an option of going month-to-month after that. It is a small house with no yard, but it is in a great neighborhood near the kids' school. It doesn't require a lot of maintenance & our monthly bills are much lower, but we still have the privacy. I did look at apartments, but I felt we would be too squished. We were very lucky to find this house on Craigslist for an excellent monthly rent amount. The homeowners live in a bigger home they built nearby, so they are flexible with our situation. We sign 3 month leases at a time since the initial lease ran out. If we want to go month-to-month (which we will do when it gets closer to our build being finished), we will pay an additional $50/month, per the terms of our lease. They allow us a 30 day notice in writing. With the number of children you have (& pets) I would definitely try to find a situation like ours. I know friends who've gotten burned on CL rentals, but ours has been ideal. The kids have made friends for life while we've lived here. The neighbors are the best, & I will cry when we move into our new house, as I will miss these neighbors so much. The people we are renting from are lovely, too. They were initially going to rent the home to another family who could sign a 12-month lease. After we saw the rental for the first time, I told the homeowners we would take care of their home like it was our own. That sealed the deal! They called us 20 minutes later & said we had the house, as they trusted us more! I think being in limbo for such a long time will be a nightmare with 4 kids. If I was in your shoes, I would go nutty. Kids thrive on routine & permanency (my social worker hat is on). It might be a fun adventure at first, but it will eventually get old. Also, building is stressful enough. I don't think it will help your marriage, either. Plus, do you really want to be out of town while your house is being built? I plan to stop by every day I can. Not being there is very risky. Good luck with your decision & I hope you sell your home as quickly as we did....See MoreHow did you handle old house when building new?
Comments (17)Even in the face of falling home prices, we decided to continue living in our current home and NOT put it on the market until our new home was ready. Financially, selling earlier MIGHT have made better sense but 1) I absolutely do not want to move more than one time and 2) I cannot stand the thought of real estate agents walking strangers through my home! Besides which, I'll readily admit that I am simply not a good enough house-keeper to keep my home in "showing shape" seven days a week for weeks/months on end. LOL! Being able to clean it up, paint it up, and showcase it after we move out (as opposed to showing it full of all our junk) will probably balance out whatever equity we lose due to the falling market. At least that's what I told DH and since most of the JUNK is his and he didn't want to put it in storage for 9 to 12 months AND he is no better at housework than I am, he let me convince him. Luckily, we were within a couple of thousand dollars of having the mortgage on our first home paid off before we signed a contract for the new build. (Would have already had it paid off but three years ago, when we found the land we wanted, we discovered it was a whole lot cheaper to refinance our house and purchase the land outright than to get a land-only loan.) Since we won't be faced with the possibility of two mortgages, that gave us a lot more freedom. Fortunately too we're in a part of the country that hasn't been hit too hard by the subprime mess plus we're in a university town where rentals are at a premium so, if we can't get a decent price for our current house when we're ready to sell, I'm 100% sure we can keep it rented easily enough. In fact, I've been advised that holding onto the old house and renting it out would probably be the smarter thing to do financially. I just really don't want the hassles of being a "landlord" though so I'd really rather sell it, roll whatever equity we have into the new house, and be done with it....See MoreDid you come home with something new while swap shopping
Comments (20)Oh and I love my new item that comes from the same line I sent..I stopped by the kitchen store yesterday with hubby to "handfeel" the knives I'm looking at..They have a "gift" set coming that is exactly the pieces I'd use every day! I'm hoping hubby gets it for under the tree. :o) Although he was eyeing this gorgeous SS 4 slice toaster from Cuisinart. I wasn't sold on it because it was very long..the slot was 2 slices per opening, instead of 4 side by side like I have now. I don't know if it would fit in the cupboard the current one lives in..LOL And I'll be buying more of that swap item line...I forgot to ask Eileen to order me one of what I sent..Gosh darn it..the boys will love them on Friday Nights...sooo..."shucks"..I have to pop back in the shop this week...LOL...See MoreKimberly S
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