Root Gall- did I do the right thing?
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Moses, Pittsburgh, W. PA., zone 5/6, USA
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Did I do the right thing?
Comments (3)Thanks Nance & Deb for your assistance. I went out to check the pond earlier and saw Gil my bluegill laying on it's side. I netted it out of the pond and put it in the isolation tank with the sea salt. I pulled my pump out of the bottom of the pond (where I store it for the winter) and pumped pond water into my spare 100 gal stock tank and added malachite green. I took the sick koi and Gil out of the salt bath and put them in the medicated stock tank. The koi seems to be doing better but still has a lot of fungus on it's tail. The bluegill is swimming around now instead of laying on it's side. My pond is 3,000 gals. I called Petsmart and they have Melafix for ponds. I am going to treat the entire pond before I start everything up. Hopefully this will prevent anymore sick fish. Jenny...See MoreDid I do the right thing with my schefflera?
Comments (1)Try posting this on the house plant forum....See MoreDid I Do The Right Thing
Comments (16)There is a book by Barbara Ehrenreich called "Nickel and Dimed". It reminds me of your story. "Determined to find out how anyone could make ends meet on $7 an hour, she left behind her middle class life as a journalist except for $1000 in start-up funds, a car and her laptop computer to try to sustain herself as a low-skilled worker for a month at a time. In 1999 and 2000, Ehrenreich worked as a waitress in Key West, Fla., as a cleaning woman and a nursing home aide in Portland, Maine, and in a Wal-Mart in Minneapolis, Minn."...... If you were making 40k a year, you undoubtedly have some skills you could probably use in other areas. What sort of work would you LIKE to be doing? What State are you in? Mentioning where you live might help readers come up with suggestions for alternatives to wal-mart. Jobs are scare, but they are out there. Are there any temp agencies in your area? I always found them good for getting your foot in the door, getting some training and seeing if you'd a workplace and/or the people. At one time I worked part time at two different places so I could use my spare time to find something that paid more. Plus, if I were laid off at one place, I still had some income coming in from the other. Do you have a family to support or just yourself? Do you prefer to work with people or things? If you like working with people then there is always a need for services for the growing boomer population. Many of these people are going to want care in their own homes as well as transportation to the grocery store, doctors appts, etc. If not, there are always admin jobs that don't require you to have to deal with the public so much. Have you ever wanted to travel? There are folks who like to hire companions to keep them company so they don't have to travel alone. How about care-taking? Some people have more than one home. They need a warm body on the premises for maintenance, security, and pet care when the owners are away. I guess what I'm getting at is that there ARE alternatives to wal-mart if you look hard enough. Its good that they hired you. Showing that you are willing to work no matter what the position means you are motivated. I know I'd be more inclined to hire someone who isn't ashamed to do what it takes to pay the bills. Links that might be useful: Nickel and Dimed www.amazon.com/Nickel-Dimed-Not-Getting-America/dp/0805063897 The Caretaker Gazette www.caretaker.org/main.php?smPID=DBS::SAMPLES...See MoreDid I do the right thing??
Comments (21)I agree that the alarming thing is that he went to his friend's mom with the problem. It's one thing for a 10 yo to play one parent off the other, but to turn to a third party adult is another situation entirely. Kids are told in school here that "If someone is hurting you or being mean to you, talk to a trusted adult" and if my BF's son or one of my N&Ns ever did that, I'd be very very worried. I think I'd side with with poster who said to talk to a school counselor (etc) before calling CPS, considering since you've never seen any physical signs of abuse... I personally would be hesitant to jump straight to CPS, but it DOES need to be brought to someone's attention who is trained in this sort of situation. My BF's son is 8, and he'll often tell us "Mom said I wouldn't live to see nine if I keep leaving my Lego on the stairs" (obviously she's not serious)... Last week he told me "Grandma is sooooo mean, she gave me a spanking this morning when Dad came to get me" (I asked BF about this - it was at pickup time, so he saw it - she smacked him on the butt for talking back as he walked out of the room. Perhaps not the best approach to deal with sass, but certainly not the vicious beating A__ made it out to be) I don't worry too much about that sort of thing, but I WOULD be worried if he had bruises that certainly weren't from playing soccer or tobogganing, or he told a friend's parent, or he had a large-scale freakout about going back to his mom's. You're right for being concerned about this!...See MoreCurdle 10a (Australia)
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