I don't want an upright persay, I am wondering how to achieve the normal height that they should be. I dont see how weepings could get to the height that most places list if the graft union is so low. I was afraid that it would not grow much taller than the union before weeping, which would make it a 2.5 ft tall bush. Hopefully that makes sense. I just didn't know if above the graft if some branches grow up to give it more height before laying over, or if you train it. Since supposedly the root stock below the graft doesn't grow vertically anymore. It didn't make sense that they would get as tall as they are listed if I just let the two limbs lay over at 2 feet. Unless sometimes they graft them at 4 ft which I haven't seen, just trying to figure out how to raise them properly from this small.

Your bottom branches are going vertical, which makes sense on gaining height. The two on mine were pointing down, so I figured they would not ever turn up to get height.

Most that I have seen are lower as well, but I didn't know if it was a specific variety. I may just leave it be. Thanks for the input

This discussion is pointless unless we know what cultivars you are referring to specifically. Weeping dissectums most often will develop into low mounding forms determined by graft placement - low grafts turn into low mounds :-) Staking a primary branch to grow more upright will help to increase height to a degree, but the natural habit of weepers is to start a very horizontal branch development almost immediately above the graft. With time and maturity, the natural growth and layering of additional branches will increase the height to some degree but the graft placement is the strongest factor in determining an ultimate size. Unless the tree is staked to achieve a more upright habit to begin with.