Is This Financing Scenario Too Good To Be True?
Chris Pierce
7 years ago
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Comments (14)You all made such interesting points but some trouble makers (lol) have crushed my unstated theory if the amount and type of clutter in my home mirrored the amount and type of clutter in my landscape the same must be true for my neighbor. I was so taken back by the self-realization that I purchase decorative items for both my interior and exterior based on a drive to surprise, I thought for sure I could then deduce I would find similarities in neighbors interior and exterior design ie if their landscape was filled with lots of big bold color that the same would be true for their interior. I suppose in a perfect world any thing we added to our interior or exterior would have been predetermined by our overall design but lets be honest most of us don't live in furniture showrooms or nursery display gardens. The clutter of aunt Mildred's rocker or your Hydrangea collection can water down your original plan to a point where you can't recall ever having had an overall design. For fun lets try this little experiment imagine if you will the conversation when there is a knock on your door or garden gate and it is someone who you don't know very well and who has never been to your home/garden. Of course the first sentence out of your mouth is something about excusing the mess, your guest then makes a complimentary statement (isn't it telling what first catches a visitors eye). Now your response is the significant moment in the conversation I believe whether we realizes it or not most of us are compelled at this point to define our design for the visitor. "Thanks, I really like that cottage look ect". Let me know what you think. Wendy- aka troublemaker, I love your analogy. Although I am a big fan of bright bold color I have always limited that impulse to rugs and fabric (ie Susan Sargent) I don't know why I am such a paint pussy but I am. Recently I replaced upholstered furniture in my living room and discovered that there was little for sale that wasn't a neutral beige, white, or black. I suppose we are held more captive to the trends offered in commerce to our interior designs then we are with our exterior designs. Carl- I am sure I am not the only one who is hoping to make the move back to New England. Carol - making one object or plant the center of attention for a short time - placing a blooming potted plant in an important location, or bringing out a different beautiful curio each month, the way the Japanese do, in the tokonoma . Also, the grouping of objects or plants concentrates the "busy-ness" and leaves the rest of the space feeling more open and calm Really Brilliant. Pixie lou - Wouldn't it be interesting to hear the first impressions of a visitor to both your public and private spaces. I am going to guess you would be very surprised. sharbear50- Welcome to the New England forum and safe travels. Nan - I think you are being your usual humble self I see an overall design in both your indoors and out. dee - I am curious after you ask your visitor to excuse the mess in your home/garden what comes next? spedigrees - We are a lot alike but after many many years of collecting I am now readying my house for the possibility of renting. It has been an interesting process and I surprised my self in the end to see what was packed up and what was not. terrene - I envy your self control when it comes to interior clutter!...See MoreToo Good to Be True Weather for Gardeners
Comments (6)Hi Lavender Lass, Sorry if my post made you feel badly; this weather we are having is SO unusual, a real freak heatwave. We will have a different scenario soon I'm sure ("if you don't like the weather in New England, just wait a minute.") Farmer's Almanac says we will have frost as late as end of April. We've had snow in April here, so I have no illusions... Thank you for sharing your wintry scene, I always love your photos. You surely are in good company with your weather. Hang in there, before you know it things will be green and lovely and you'll be out there, trowel in hand!...See MoreToo good to be true?
Comments (8)Yes, it's a valid way to do it. Usually, though, the builder will recoup the interest he has paid on the loan by increasing the cost of the house. You will still need to make sure you have at least 20% equity in the build to get the mortgage without PMI. Just to clarify as well--are you thinking you have to have 30% right now with 20% to the bank & 10% to the builder? It's my understanding in dealing with a few different banks that they require you to have 20% invested in the house and they will finance up to 80%. You hang onto your 20% and you pay the first 20% of costs directly to the builder. (So pay him 10% up front to get started and then the builder should provide itemized receipts to you showing where the money went & whether you're on budget so far. When you've exhausted your personal funds for the project, the builder will go to the bank for his future draws up to the agreed upon maximum loan amount. Any costs over and above that are your responsibility. Before you close/convert the mortgage, you will need to bring in the itemized receipts showing what you paid for and how much the expenditures were. This is your proof to the bank of your having invested the 20%. Hope this helps!...See MoreScenario----It IS Him!
Comments (16)This happened to me at a Willie Nelson concert back in 1981. I dated a man from 1970 to 1974. We went our separate ways. In 1981 I was with my sister and daughter and some friends from work at the concert. There was this man sitting directly in front of me that remembled him. The only thing is he was with a blond and another couple. He dated a brunette back in highschool for a couple of years, then he dated another brunette and married her. They split up and he dated me ( brunette ). A few months after we broke up a friend made the comment that he was dating someone else who was a brunette. This friend said something about him liking brunettes because that's all he ever dated. That was true. Anyway, my dd and I just couldn't decide if it was him or not. The woman he was with and the woman that was with them left to go to the bathroom. He stood up to let her get by and I saw his belt. It had his name on it. It was him. I spoke to him. He told me he had tried to call me several times, but my number was unlisted. He asked for my number. I asked him if that was his wife he was with and he said it was a blind date his friend fixed him up with. I still wouldn't give him my number because it didn't seem right to do that while he was on a date. He gave me his number and I called a few days later. We spent the next four years together. I loved that man so much, but if I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him I would need to go to night clubs and go hunting with him pretty often. That just wasn't my thing. There were a few other little things too. We decided to just be friends and we stayed in touch until the first week I was married. He called one morning and Bob answered the phone. He said it was a wrong number and he never called back. I know it was him because I have caller ID. I saw his picture a couple of weeks ago at my highschool websight. He was at a class reunion and he was with his wife, a blond....LOL!!!! Linda...See MoreChris Pierce
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