Help Me Break My Ivy Curse
maggiepatty
7 years ago
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Laurie (8A)
7 years agoKaren S. (7b, NYC)
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I have a 'carrot' curse on me ... how about you?
Comments (20)I too have a carrot curse (I do fine with beets and radishes though) I think it all has to do with moisture. We get no rain from now until October. That means we are very dry and we warm up quick. So the only time I had success with carrots was when I remembered to water at least once a day, sometimes two times. I think I will try the board method though and see if that helps. I think too that they are very tasty to the buggy critters. I have in the past gotten very excited when I saw germination, only to come out a couple of days later to find not a sprout in site. They are so slow to germinate and soooo slow to begin growing that they need super care. I often wonder why I keep trying when a bag of carrots is so cheap! but I course have a bed right now where I am hoping to see germination soon!...See MorePlease help me with cats claw ivy!
Comments (8)Thank you Lazygardens for your tips. I did not know that. Will make sure to cut it back. Meanwhile, it does not want to stick to the metal fence. It is probably too hot. I attached wood sticks to metal yesterday and guided cat claws, so we will see if that helps. I also have a question about my english ivy. So far so good, most of these plants are doing good but they are not attaching to the wall at all, kind of just growing along it on the ground. Walls (all of them) get really hot by the end of the day and this, I guess, is the problem. Should I build wooden trellises and train ivy on them? Also, could anyone recommend a vine that would grow good (and fast, if possible) in a pot by the wall facing west? I need to cover it. I also have 2 citrus trees planted in crates nearby, so nothing invasive would be great. Thank you guys....See MorePlease help! I need to break my lease
Comments (2)well, kicking the ball against a wall is not "having nowhere else to go." Little kids kicking the ball on the ground back and force to one another, or riding trike and squealing--those actually, depending on one's personality, could be pleasant noises to hear outside one's home. And I think you need *first* to tell your landlord of the problem. Documentation (setting up a video camera, or something) might provide him w/ a tool to use against the other tenants. So, if you can, try to get video of the problems, and put that on a disk. Or take a snapshot of the motorcycle, and print it out (or get a print made, if you use film). Write a letter to the landlord detailing these problems. Tell him the time of day the kids play, and request that he come and see it for himself. Tell him you fear that these other tenants will act against you if they suspect you have complained, and request that he investigate these things directly himself, so that the complaints can be clearly seen to be coming from him, independent of you. Then ask if you can move to another unit. Then you have to give him time to fix it, if you want to break the lease without being forced to pay the rent until he finds a new tenant. Your landlord certain doesn't want someone kicking a ball against his wall, so he needs to know. And does he know about the problem w/ the breakers? In order to have any legal leg to stand on, you have to give him a chance to fix these problems....See Morehelp me break up with my cabinet maker!
Comments (33)Good luck with the break up. I always get so worked up about this sort of thing. I try to devise all sorts of stories in my head to explain. DH always says just tell the truth ---in my 10 years of marriage I have converted to his way --- I won't admit it to him, but the outcome is always better. My sister, (and me previously) would both make all sorts of crazy excuses. Problem is, then you worry about the story catching up with you. If you just tell the guy, "Thanks so much for your bid and your time. I was really impressed with your work. You make beautiful cabinets. But, one thing I really wanted was the soft close drawers with my inset cabinets. I heard about a cabinet maker that makes this combo, so I had him do a bid as well. I expected it to not be competitive, but it was actually significantly lower. In this economy we need to make wise financial choices, and in this case I'd save some money and get the soft close that I really had my heart set on, so I feel like it is the right choice for us. Thanks again for all of your help. Of course, he may argue it with you, but in the end, you have the proof to back you up --- you want the glides, and the price IS better. No brainer. I am about to have to do this with builders --- we have 4 courting us right now, they all are bending over backwards to be helpful. Unfortunately, we can only use 1. I live in a small town and will see one of them all the time. Can you believe he is my lowest choice, but I am such a wimp that I have considered picking him so I don't have to avoid him! Luckily, one really great builder in the area has just given us a bid that is almost 100k less --- I don't know how he does it because he does everything the nice way, doesn't cut corners. All of the most beautiful homes by our property were built by him. I am so thrilled to have just gotten his bid because now I'll be able to tell the other 3 the price was so much better, we just couldn't ignore it --- we need to save money where possible. It is not just a choice of our favorite (though I really liked this builder the most as well). Anyway, I am dreading the "talk" too, so I understand, but I am definitely going to just tell them, I am getting everything I want with this guy, and the price is MUCH lower. My architect told me he suspects all of the other builders will try to drop prices to entice me. If that happens, I have a bit more negotiating power with this guy too (though I HATE negotiating). GOOD LUCK TO YOU --- just tell him the truth and move on --- you'll spend more time fretting about it, and once you do it, it won't be a big deal. Just seems like a big deal now. Rachel...See Moremaggiepatty
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