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Comments (3)I never curse people or personally insult them. I ask for their supervisor. People can make you lose it, I know!! Sometimes I don't want to leave my house because I dread going out into the world and having to run into or do business with one more ignoramous!! The last bad episode I had over the phone was when I was calling a lady at a church who was suppose to come to my home to pick up some donations. I rearranged my schedule for her and she didn't show or call. The girl answering the phone was very rude so I ended our conversation by saying, thanks for being so helpful and hung up on her. She had caller ID on her phone and she called back and said "you hung up and I was going to ask for your number." I said yea, right. So I cancelled the entire donation and donated the things to another needy group....See Morehelp...lost a loved one of 18.. i am 16.
Comments (12)Angelfalls, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I too, remember being 16 and so in love. I know that the feelings are real. Having lost my 19 year old daughter and watching her boyfriend deal with her loss, I can speak only from that experience. I have not ever lost a boyfriend. They loved each other very much and he grieved greatly, as you do. After almost 8 years, he recently found another girl whom he loves and who makes him happy. He will always have Christin in his heart along with all of the very happy memories and so many special times that they shared. Just because he has moved with his life doesn't mean that he has forgotten her or ever will. I know that Christin would want him to have a happy life because she loved him that much. I know that you don't feel like living or thinking about the future and Christin's boyfriend didn't either. All he could think about was Christin and being with her again no matter what it took. As time passed, that pain eased and happy memories took the place of the horrible sadness and grief and lonliness. The same thing will happen with you. I know it doesn't seem possible now, but it will happen. Just take each day at a time with your grief, just like we all have to do. I promise you, he will remain in your heart, but your heart wom't feel broken anymore. It will heal. I'm glad you came here. We all care. If you would like to see Christin and a picture of her and her boyfriend, you can enter this site. Lu Here is a link that might be useful: Christin Cosby Memorial Web Site...See MorePlease help, I am a TOTAL wreck!!!
Comments (3)None of this is really lethal yet. If you would like you can email me your phone number and I will walk you through some of this. the rebar does not really have to follow everything exactly. I tied about forty pools by myself last year, so I have had a bit of practice fixing this kind of stuff. brent@cal-tropic.com...See MoreI am completely lost for a solution
Comments (6)Of course, my computer program is not allowing such a slick thing, My ((other)) son built computer and so I can't figure up from down on the systems end of things, but thanks, and it's an option I am hoping to access when he comes by after work next week. But to be honest, I am not in the mood for the chore of locking doors, lugging around keys, and having to put passwords on things that aren't to be shared with a 10 year old. If she is locked out of every thing, I won't really know if she's come around or not. What I feel like doing is just telling her, that I love her, but am very disappointed, that she has had all the chances I have to give, that we must have trust and honesty, (within reasonable expectations) and she can work her fanny off to assure me my world is respected at safe when I go to the loo. She can live with scrutiny and suspicion, or work her way out of it and that the longer she waits to be respectful and truthful, the longer it will take me to risk trusting again, because that is how I feel. I feel like her mom is an issue, of course, but I worked with at risk youth in grade schools for years, and I found I could get respect and honesty from some of those kids no matter how little the showed to their parents. The dynamics here are alot more intimate, and I am tired of wishful thinking that just makes me feel like a sap later.Then I have to be willing to be a hard nose because she is a tough little thing who I have never seen apologize or own up to her acts so far.I am to the point where I think I would just assume have an authoritative relatioship with her than risk her pushing these issues again, It really gets to me, and I dont want to feel this angry with a child again. I dont know if that makes sense, I am a little crazy here I know. HELP lol thanks for the help you have no idea how therapudic it is. I won't offend here to any suggestions, I really feel unsure of the correct measure to take....See Morepatty Vinson
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