Rent-to-Own from Parents-in-Law
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Comments (13)IMO, you are better off reducing your asking price and focus on selling that home asap. With renters (even rent to own), you also get hassle and you still have responsibility of that home and things will get old and break even if you have perfect renters. And, the renters usually get precedence over you since you want to fix their things quickly, which makes you feel like a second class citizen. For example, you will have a huge TO DO list for items related to your new home. But if the dishwasher fails at the rental home, guess what just got moved to the top of the list...pronto? You drove by the home and they have 3 cars in the driveway and a 4th car parked on the lawn. Oh my, how do you handle this if the lawn parking wasn't in the lease? They have a dog now but they say it is a friend's that they are watching. Oh no. It looks like part pit bull to you and your insurance says no pits, what do you do? As the other home ages, the roof, water heater, carpet, furnace all age and eventually break and need replacement. The interior and exterior will need repainting after a few years. Yardwork and weeding and fertilizer, etc from renters is usually minimal, so your hard will likely deteriorate gradially and you might need to do this yourself again in order to sell it. You would need to buy homeowners insurance specific for renting the home. Chances are very, very high that the renters will NOT buy it and then you will have to coordinate them moving out and then you focus on selling the place again, but only after you repaint, touch up, clean the home after the renters left. I strongly suggest that you focus on selling your home. Having responsibility for 2 homes is not fun and can be stressful and costly. Even if one home is brand new and even if the renters are good. You will still have bills to track and pay for both homes...insurance, taxes, mortgage, maintenance. It isn't worth the hassle...life is too short....See Morerent vs. own- question related to disabled brother
Comments (12)Drcindy, My SIL is facing a similar situation. Her brother is in his 40's and lives with their father (now in his late 70's)in another state. Tim is autistic enough to be a bit isolated socially, a poor judge of character, and financially naieve. He is highly functional at work and is considered a brilliant mechanic. He makes a nice living. He's able to take care of the basics...dressing, cooking, shopping, driving, paying bills and the like. We put together a family plan for him for that moment when his father dies or is too ill to live independently. Tim was involved in every stage of our discussion and planning. We will sell the house and buy him a condo with the proceeds. We prefer renting to buying because,no matter what, he'll always have a home and, hopefully, an asset that can work for him as he ages. We're not too worried about the homeowner maintenance problems because those exterior things like roofs, elevators, landscaping etc are taken care of the the HOA. He will have to replace appliances as they fail but we feel he can handle those purchases with a little long-distance help from us. We didn't want him to be frustrated by the slow service that rental maintenance often provides. We have targeted buildings in Florida (where he lives) and Virginia (where we live) that have 24/7 front desk staff and inhouse maintenance. Yes, they have more expensive condo fees but we feel that having a socially active HOA, a staff he can get to know, and a staff engineer for in-condo repairs will provide a sense of community for him. It also provides us points of contact that we can get to know. Finally, my SIL will have a durable financial power of attorney to conduct complex financial matters on his behalf. That ensures part of his paycheck will go to his retirement, part to savings, taxes paid, insurance kept current etc. She'll be able to help him work through the financial details of his life. We have set up a small trust for the money he inherited from his mother and any future large sums that come his way. My SIL is his trustee. She's been preparing for this a long time and as her family, Tim's our family so we're grateful they let us help. Good Luck...See MoreRent or Own?
Comments (41)I've lived in 22 homes/locations in my over 80 years, including 6 years in a university dorm. A number of them were provided by my employer. In some cases, I shared a home with others, and once shared a house with a couple of other men, and we ate in another house on the same compound where three or four women lived: we were all missionaries, helping with health and educational issues in war-torn Korea, with some of us helping refugees get back on their feet. I boarded with an old lady for a couple of years 25 or so years ago when re-locating back to Ontario, rented a room from a guy for a couple of years, then shared a two-bedroom townhouse with unfinished basement with another guy for a couple of years and continued living there alone for another dozen years or so. I was paying about $800./mo. for the townhouse, paid for my power and heater rent but water provided, no sewwer or garbage fee, prior to moving here to what was old step-unle's farm, nearly 7 years ago. The bungalow on the farm had two bedrooms and a wreck room, plus unfinished basement, but being older it had somewhat less utility than the one in town ... but the initial rent was $450.00 per month. Water for washing, etc. was from a well so the only fee was the power bill to run the pump, but the well is too close to what used to be the barnyard so I pick up water in the city, etc. in jugs for drinking and most cooking, though I may boil potatoes in well water. Landlord will pay to pump the septic tank if/when it may need it. I pay the power bill, and landlord shares it, as he installed it into his shop from the same meter a few years ago. Put newspapers, plastic out for recycling, free - could do so for aluminum cans, but I sell them to scrap dealer. Garbage costs $1.75 a bag, but much of it is added to the landlord's burn pile. While travelling past my old townhouse home the other day, I saw that they were offering them for rent, starting at $849./mo., so that rent has not gone up a huge amount since my departure. I'm paying $512.50 rental, with increase as of Mar. 1 anticipated. I have a shed in which to park my car, with extra room in it where a friend's van is parked, a garage where I have builing materials, supplies, a couple of trunks and a freezer, plus space in the barn which I use to service the large garden that I have, plowed and tilled by my landlord ... and he gets a share of the produce. The government offered us a tax-free savings account aimed at home owneership about 35 years ago, max. allowable $1,000. per year, $10,000. total and I thought that I'd need to find a home on retirement in about 20 years. I invested the max allowable $1,000./yr. beginning in '74, and continuing till '83, missed one year so had invested for 9 years, $9,000. total, into a fairly stable, mortgage-based mutual fund. Its current value, having been unmolested in the interim, has grown from $9,000. in '84 to over $73,000. now, 27 years later, i.e. about 9% annual compound rate - with no deduction for the high-rate income tax that I've paid annually on the increases. I've been thinking that, in the interim between seniors, especially singles, living in their traditional home and entering a residential or nursing home, it seems to me that, rather than buyig a (temporry) condo or renting an apartment lone, it makes a great deal of sense for several singles to share a home. There are several advantages: sharing a home means discussion and more mental activity than when one lives alone; I find that I'm inclined to talk to strangers when I'm out, and am sure that I would do less of it if I shared my home with someone. Many find that carrying out all of the chores related to operating a household becomes onerous - and sharing would mean shared chores. They eat better, for several atthetable wouldd preclude the"tea and toast:" that a number of seniors may refer to as a meal. If someone fell, there'd be help available - and they couold triage:we can rtake care of it; we call this person's caregiver; or we call 9-1-1 - right now! There'd be major saving of money, what with rent, utilities, insurance, etdc. Gotta run - 3 min. to library closing (but I figure that my loaner car'll get me safely home). ole joyful...See MoreOwn or rent?
Comments (35)My house is not paid for - it could have been multiple times. But I have used the equity in it to make major upgrades that I could never have made out of my income, and with the first refinance, pay of a ton of credit card debt that was accumulated when we had two children in college - plane tickets, car repairs - you name it. It all added up, and yes, we were living beyond our means in some ways. I've always been able to refinance and actually LOWER my monthly payment as interest rates were falling. My very first mortgage was not a fixed rate, and it was for 30 years. Luckily for us, interest rates continued to fall and when the time was right about 12 years later, we refinanced with a fixed rate 15 yr mortgage. We paid off every single penny of credit card debt and have never again had any. Multiple refinancing later, all were fixed rate 15 yr mortgages, and all made good improvements to the house. I could not possibly rent a 3 bedroom house in as nice a neighborhood as I now live, for anywhere close to my my monthly mortgage payment, plus property taxes and insurance. BUT..I bought this house 33 years ago when prices were way lower than today in this neighborhood, and I still have a very low mortgage - about 20% of the value of my house. When the time comes (and it will come one day in the near future) that I can no longer live in this house, it will be sold and the money left after paying off the mortgage/real estate fees etc should pay for about 5 years in a very good assisted living facility. After that, I will have to dig into my IRA and other savings, if I'm still living. But I'm not like most people. Most don't buy and stay in a house for 30+ years. They buy a house that is more than they truly can afford, and they move every few years, usually when the house starts needing expensive repairs. And they just keep moving. While building up equity in a house is not a sure thing, neither is investing in any financial product. They key is not buying at the top of the market, buying what one can truly afford, and staying where one is. That is not always possible for home buyers today....See Morejohnson0476
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