DH jokes that it has a certain cottage charm
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Comments (4)They may be too close to the truth, but they're still funny, especially the ones about hearing loss. (Written by someone whose DH drives her CRAZY b/c he has a hearing problem but won't use a hearing aid. You'd be amazed at some of the things he thinks he hears me say! :>)...See MoreDH laughed, ' I did it once this year'..
Comments (39)@tishtoshnm: Oh hun, I don't split the wood with a maul, I use a 3-ton, PTO hydraulic woodsplitter! We burn 5 to 6 full cords every year and if I had to use a maul we'd have frozen to death years ago! Remember, the very first thing on my list of DH's jobs was keeping the d*** cars and machines running, and that includes the woodsplitter and its power supply. I probably glossed over it a bit in my post above, but we had some really hard times over chores in our early years, too. I blush to remember quite how grumpy, cranky and just plain, b**chy I was about it. Sometimes (but more often not, I fear) with justification. Like when the above-mentioned woodsplitter was often on the fritz for months on end preventing me from getting the wood done in time for good seasoning. Of course, I could have hired someone to either bring the wood (not split the way I would have wanted it) or to fix the wretched machine (not done the way he would have done it) but instead we squabbled over it, endlessly. Ex: When we married we were both wood-burners. I was horrified to discover that my DH was content to dig wet wood out of the snow and throw it hissing and dripping on to a smoldering fire. I need to have wood stacked up two or three years in advance to feel secure. I needed to have wood separated by species so I could match the BTU-load to the heating demand of the day's weather. Because I have small hands, I needed to have the wood split into relatively small sizes so I could pick up a log in one hand and load it safely. I needed to have dry kindling in the house every morning to re-kindle the fire. I am terrified of chimney fires so I need the chimney swept regularly (multiple times per burning season). I get great psychic comfort from neatly filled woodricks. I also was at home all day in a house heated ONLY with wood, while he was away in an overheated office. (Once he began working at home, the need for dry wood seem to be driven home to him for some reason. Hah!) Finally, it dawned on me, or maybe desperation took over, and I took command of the fuel issues. (Except for maintenance of the machines.) And Peace finally reigned in our household on this topic. But I really did have to get over my own embarrassment that I had taken over this "masculine" task. I used to be quite cagey about revealing who actually did the wood work in my family. What I learned from this was that I could get it all done, alone, and done in the way that made me happy. (Except for fixing the machines, which is still an issue.) And it taught me that I would be able to continue to live here if I was left living here alone. (Except for fixing the machines, of course.) We gradually started to practice a regime of "whoever is bugged the most about something, does it. And for the rest, who cares?" Not elegant, but practical and it certainly makes for a calmer, more generous and loving household. And that, over multiple decades, is pure gold. L. PS: There are different weights of splitting mauls, you should try more than one if you have to do it by hand, as I did before I married Machine-Man. Handle lengths also make a big difference, too....See More3rd time's a layout charm??
Comments (27)Fillers are wacked. In the bumpout area, no matter what you do with the rest of the cabinets or their position, you must have one filler because your cabinet run is up against the walls on both sides. The filler can be small - 1.5" or even .75" if you are really brave. It's the insurance policy that the cabinets will actually fit. Refrigerator panels do not take the place of that filler. They cover the side of the refrigerator and provide support to an over-the-ref cabinet. If the ref has tall cabinets to either side, you do not need refrigerator panels or fillers. Again, there is absolutely no need to put fillers between every tall cabinet. If you use frameless cabinets, you need to ALSO allow for something called a starter molding (.75" filler) so the cabinet doors or drawers on each end don't bind against the wall. The starter molding doesn't take the place of the single required filler because of the bumpout. If your cabinets (not the countertops - the actual cabinets) stick out from the wall 3/4", you don't need the starter molding. Framed cabinets, as far as I know, never need starter moldings. For example, if the pantry and the oven cabinets are positioned next to each other, you do not need a filler between them. Or between them and the next cabinet. If the pantry is positioned next to a wall, if framed, you do not need a starter molding, if frameless, you do. But you do not need to add any more filler just because its near a wall or another tall cabinet. Refrigerators are a bit different. Refrigerators need some room beside the hinges to open. The amount of room varies a lot between different refrigerator models - from 2" minimum to 14" minimum. Some refs need one quantity to open at all - say 2" and a different number if you want to be able to clean it without moving it - say 12". If you want the ref positioned on an end towards the table space, it can't be right against a longer wall. A shorter wall, yes, but not a longer wall. It's doors won't open. That's why you see a number of kitchens with a small, tall pantry or broom closet right beside the ref and on the wall side. So, try to remember the critical measurement of about 26" and don't get a ref with a shallower body and that problem is solved. In your drawing way up top, if the wall is longer than the ref but the ref and the pantry switch places, the door opening issue is solved BUT the doors open in front of the prep sink and the prep area. On one hand, its really efficient but it might also become annoying. BUT you still don't need a filler between the ref and the next cabinet. I'm not sure why you have 6" of filler there....See MoreFrench/English country, French/English cottage, cottage, shabby chic
Comments (26)I just wanted to chime in to say that I've seen pictures of homes with doors and window sashes that are unpainted wood paired with trim work that is painted, and I thought it looked beautiful. Basically, anything that opened/closed/moved was unpainted wood, and the rest was painted. So that's something to consider as an option. I wished I'd thought of that option before we went with all wood trim and doors in our main floor living areas and all painted trim and doors upstairs (bedrooms, bathrooms, and laundry room). We have lots of stained wood (trim, doors, built-ins, etc.) on our main floor, so I understand the challenges of decorating around it and finding colors that work with it. But when you find the right colors to bring out the best in your wood AND give you the vibe you want, it's worth the challenge. There were times (after spending too much time looking at trendy design magazines or web sites) when I second guessed our decision to go with so much wood, but I've come to love it more over the years because of its character and richness. I grew up in a house that had unpainted fir paneled walls in every room (even the bathroom, though the walls in there were varnished), so for a long time I just longed for light, bright, painted walls. After having those for years living on my own, I guess I finally came around to appreciating natural wood again....See MoreIdaClaire
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