Do you believe in God?
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If you believe in God or a Higher consciousness, please PRAY
Comments (12)Merci, Pug, Mike thanks so much. You all made me smile today. Merci, I've been doing quite a bit of praying lately, I'll add one more prayer and hopefully HE will hear. BTW, Belated Happy Birthday. When was the special day? It was very nice of your mom giving you such a beautiful plant. It's healthy, lush, and very green. Does your mom enjoy plants too? You mentioned a problem adding vinager? What happened? It's too bad you can't summer your new Gardenia outside. Those nasty mites are terrors. I thank God my plants have been bug free, well, all except one. A succulent called Tiger's Jaw. I spotted white gook a couple months back, cleaned w/rubbing alcohol, but those little sh*t's won..Mealy are the worse. Mersi, what have you used to rid mites? Do you use chemicals? My plants are showered, but never left in tub/sink filled with water for days..I do soak African Violets and a few other tropicals like Anthuriums, but after the top of soil is wet, plants are then air dried then placed in their spot. I've also learned, the hard way, soaking shouldn't be done at night, especially if chilly/cold. My new Gardenias, for the most part, died. I'm not saying I'm not to blame, (in part it's my fault) but when they arrived, after thorough inspection, leaves weren't in the best of health. Most had light brown, soft spots. Is anyone familiar with these spots? Could it be a fungus? If anyone here grows roses, and have dwelt with, think it's called brown or black spot, the gardenia leaves looked simiar to rose spots. Merci, I looked at the photo of your new gardenia, and she/he? looks very very healthy. You are so funny though..Don't fear your plant..I honestly think, like pets, plants sense our feelings. Did you ever hear stories about dogs who smell fear in someone, and even though the dog is gentle, will actually harass that person? This happened to my little sister at a picnic one time. Or ever see the Andy Griffith episode where Aunt Bea takes care of a baby. Everytime she lifts the child, the little girl screams. At the end, Opie fed the baby blueberry pie. Aunt Bea comes home and thinks the baby's face turned blue, isn't breathing. She swoops the child in her arms, calling for Andy to notify the town doctor. But this time, the baby doesn;t cry. The reason was because she sensed Aunt Bea was no longer afraid of her but for her. End of story. I'm sure everyone reading this is happy hearing about Aunt Bea. lol. But I really believe plants sense our moods. We show them who's boss, they'll respond with a 'beauty pageant.' Flowers and healthy leaves. As for sun, my tree gardenia lives out front facing mostly west, some south and north. It gets a lot of afternoon sun, 'when we have sun, surely not this year.' I set it out some time in April. Some nights were in the 30's, and a few 80F days. Thank the stars it's doing fine..no flowers, but I think the reason is, too much rain, no time to dry out, no fertilizer or Superthrive, but the foliage is find. It gave me a big scare when still inside. That's the reason it went outside. Anyway, HAPPY BIRTDAY.. Pug, I hope you're well too..and the pups. With spring, I bet your plants are beautiful. lots of flowers? How are your fruit trees doing? And Coffee tree. Citrus. etc, etc. Mike, it's always great hearing from you. How are your plants doing? Any new additions? If so, please post. And how are you coming along? I hope everyone is well, it's great talking to you guys again. I missed you all. But things happen, life isn't always a bowl of cherries, unfortunately. My husband had surgery last week, the same time I came down with stomach flu, not to mention my puter kicked the bucket. All in one week! Oh Butterfly, before I forget, how in the world did your plant fly out of a car window, on the highway????? That's so sad. And dangerous, too. Thankfully, no one was hurt, other than your plant..Wow! Take care everyone..hugs, luv ya all..Toni...Amen...See MoreDo you believe in the afterlife?
Comments (24)Here's something I posted on this forum back in 2007, edited a very small amount to clarify pronouns: A few weeks ago, I heard this story from Beth, a young woman I met at a garden club get-together. Beth's husband Chad's older sister Lisa had taken care of Chad his whole life, & when Chad & Beth married, Lisa "adopted" Beth too & was very close to both of them. Lisa died in a car accident before Beth even realized that she was pregnant with her first child. Lisa had lived in Hawaii several years before, & had become close friends with a guy named Mel. In the crush of events, no one thought to call Mel. Late one night when Beth's new baby Gemma was 2 weeks old, her phone rang. It was Mel. He said, "I'm sorry to call so late, but I've just had the oddest dream, & I can't reach Lisa; I must have an old phone number. Does Lisa have a niece named Gemma?" After explanations & commiserations, Mel said that in this dream, Lisa had just dropped in on him at his home & visited, just like she always used to do, & told him that she was looking after her niece now & that, when the niece was older, Lisa wanted the niece to come to Hawaii & enjoy all the things that she, Lisa, had enjoyed. . Then she said she had to go, she had to go back to Texas to look after her niece Gemma....See MoreDo you believe....
Comments (25)A family of fine people who many would say were the salt of the earth that I knew a number of years ago had suffered a number of very trying circumstances - son in law killed in a train hitting car, a daughter with very severe ongoing disabling illness who died rather young, another daughter who died young, leaving small child and their barn burned shortly after I arrived in the community. A number of people said that there was no way in which they deserved such a series of painful situations, such suffering. That it seemed not at all fair. Perhaps much of the time it appears that many "get what they deserve", in our judgement ... but it seems to me that in many cases there are those who don't. In any case, it seems to me that I should live a decent, honest, trustworthy life, treating my fellow travellers on the journey of life as I'd like to be treated ... whether there's a payoff or not. Plus ... I think I heard on the radio the other night that there are something like 73 million refugees in the world these days, who have nothing. Do you think that they're getting what they deserve? The leaders of the Russians and of the U.S. agreed to have the Russians have a sphere of influence in North Korea, after World War II, and the U,.S. have influence in the south. During the Korean war, hundreds of thousands of Korean familes were split up ... it wasn't their fault, it was world politics, the machinations of the world powers, that did that. Did those Korean refugees get what they deserved? How about the 800,000 or so Rwandans that were slaughtred by a different tribe in about 100 days, about 15 years ago? And when the leader of the U.N. peacekeeping contingent, seeing it coming, asked for about 5,000 soldiers to keep it from happening, what response did he get? Nothing. Later, many of us said, "Never again"! But the same game has been going on in the southern Sudan for several years, and the rest of the world has done little to try to stop it. Same with the Central African Republic. Does anyone have any idea how many Iraqis have died/been killed in the past 5 years or so? It seems to me that it's easy for us, who live in relative peace, comfort, prosperity and security, to talk. ole joyful P.S. What have I done that makes someone feel that recent (really rather inconsequential) personal difficulties are deserved? As I have said on earlier occasions, if I have said things here which have caused someone personal discomfort or pain, it certainly was not intended, and I would like to know of it, and ask that any of you who may know of it let me know, that I may take what action may be necessary to get the issue resolved. o j...See MoreDo you believe things happen.....
Comments (28)The short answer - No. The long answer is that every thing that happens gives us a chance to react either positively or negatively. If you search out the positive that can be gained from an event, then you're likely to percieve it as "it was meant to be", or "it was God's will", or whatever. However, if you are don't seek a meaning, events are just events. I had a neighbor with a profoundly deaf daughter. She wailed all the time about her deaf daughter, but made no attempt to get the girl either into a special school, or to get her an interpreter for public school. Interpreters are provided free by the state here. No, she said "All things happen for a reason", well, maybe, but it doesn't relieve you of responsibility for dealing with them. I don't think every bad thing is for a reason. Things happen. Yes, have faith. But deal with the things. I seriously don't think it matters if something "was meant to be". All that matters is how one deals with it. That is the only control one has....See Moregramarows
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