MagdalenaLee----question re DNA testing
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Would you do DNA testing for a geneological search?
Comments (28)My husband has done some DNA testing, Autosomal, which is where you match cousins and that is probably what he is asking you to do. The other hubs did was Y testing, trying to find males with the same surname. One thing you can do to have a little more control over the results is to 1) make sure you have the kit number and that you set up the password. I had ordered kits for two people and paid for them myself. This was so I could see the results but I also included their email addresses so they would get results and match notifications as well. Once I determined if hubs was related to them (one yes, one no), then I had them change the passwords so that I can no longer get into their kit information. Our situation is a little different than yours but again in our case, like yours, these were total strangers who agreed to help us out. ] Be aware that there are sites that the DNA information can be downloaded to sites like gedcom where people that have different companies that test can compare results. This person may then have your information out there for anyone to compare your DNA to theirs. Names are not listed, just your kit number and he would probably put his email address as the contact person. There is an option of not putting email address at all but then that limits possible matches from contacting him/you. These are questions you should discuss before you do the test. Know if he is having the results sent to him only, you only, or both. If you have them sent only to you, then you can request him sending his to you and you could be the one who sees if there is a match. The person who hubs did not match still appreciated receiving the information and we still keep in touch. The one who did match has helped confirmed our lines matching back to the GGGF in the late 1700's. The autosomal testing is not as definite. We get matches all the time but the probability is small. It has helped to find some relatives that we weren't sure of. Do you know the name of the company and type of test?...See MoreDNA Testing by National Geographic: $99 (Lindsey?)
Comments (15)Our son participated in this two years ago, I think. Very interesting....We are very Northern European, German, Scandinavian, Swiss and Scots. His information came back that his paternal ancestry is African... recently (like 1700-1800) from the west coast of Africa. We assume the slave trade. He was/is so thrilled, as he has always had best friends, since 3-4th grade that were black, and this explained to him why he had such a "kinship" with those friends. So facinating. DH husbands' father was adopted by a Swiss; our name is quite unusual... and yet his heritage there is African. Oh, the things we are going to learn in the future....See MoreWould you test your dog's DNA?
Comments (35)aptosca, after close examination of the pictures, I would say Elvira is a miniature short-legged Black Labrador Retriever. OK, maybe not. She certainly is a sweetie! I would start the lower calorie/more exercise routine. Oh tosh, how boring! Don't you wish there was some magic kibble or supplement that would reduce weight? Alas, the same good rules apply to us humans and our pets. When we reduced the weight of our Wolfie, a big husky mix, we reduced the kibble and added cooked green beans. They do not add calories and gave the big guy a sense of fullness so he does not howl so piteously we are starving him....See MoreDNA testing
Comments (108)"There's a difference in having "rights" and forcing something on someone. "Rights" are like gifts given to us. We can choose to accept them or not." That is true. But, whether you agree or not... it's not forcing his rights, he has the same rights as the mother on the day the child is born if he is the biological father. A man should not have to go to court to obtain his parental rights any more than a woman should have to. Sharing DNA gives him the same rights as the mother, the child gets his/her DNA from BOTH parents and both parents have equal rights... until a court says otherwise. That comes with an equal responsibility... to support and have a relationship and parent the child. If a parent does not want to exercise their rights or accept their responsibility, they need to have a court, legally terminate those rights/responsibilities. It is not the same as your right to bear arms or your right to vote... you can choose not to carry a gun or not to vote, you cannot (legally) turn your back on a child... until a court terminates that relationship legally. BTW, It is the child's rights, not the parents. The child has the right to both parents and the answer isn't for some people to pick and choose which 'sperm donors' get the right to be a father or get a pass on their responsibility... otherwise, I know a few mothers that don't deserve that title.... deadbeat egg donors. But a guy can't make that decision, why should a woman get to decide if a man should be given the same rights she has the day the baby is born? I'm sure a Judge may not give a drug dealing low life deadbeat very much in the way of rights, but if he doesn't want the responsibility, then he can terminate rights and responsibility since they go hand in hand. and if a good man wants to step up and be named the father, and take responsibility and rights of a father to a child that is not his biologically, he should adopt.. just like a woman should adopt a child that isn't hers biologically if she wants the same rights and responsibility as a bio parent. I'm not preaching that deadbeats SHOULD have rights but it's not for US to decide. I sure would not like it if someone made me fight to get the rights that are mine... just because they didn't like me or the way I live my life. A court would be able to, and that's why we have courts....See MoreBoopadaboo
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