Were you able to send your child to school while finishing your build?
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As a child, did you have books in your home?
Comments (63)Golly, I love all your stories! Some of your comments remind me of my own love affair with books, & one of them, 'We lived within walking distance of a branch of the NY Public Library', sounds like pure heaven! 'I can still remember how proud I was when I got my own library card when I was 5.' I was older, but I do remember that card! & the big steps up to the big door & the big balistrude (or some such) where I could sit & read until my mother came back to pick me up. the ceiling fans in the cool, hushed lobby area. the smell of the date stamps & the waxed linoleum floors... I read the "Black Stallion" series starting, I think, when I was in 2nd grade. read 'em all. The very first one "The Black Stallion", was an orange hardback book with the silhouette of The Black on the front. I loved that book. About 3 years ago, I bought a bunch of books that a library nearly 60 miles from my hometown was discarding, including an orange hardback copy of "The Black Stallion". When I settled down to re-read it, I found that it had been stamped in to the Ferris library in the 1990s, but it had been stamped in my hometown library in 1957. It was 'my' book. 'Oddly, I haven't done a lot of reading in the last couple of years' I've noticed that I too go through 'spells'; sometimes I read all the time, sometimes I sew all the time, sometimes I have to re-aquaint myself with the concept of 'books' & sometimes I have to make friends again with my sewing machine! Life takes us down different roads sometimes, but our old loves are always there. Sue, try audio books; I listen to them all the time, at home & in the car. I love 'em! 'When I was in first grade, I filled out a little tiny order form for a set of Brittanica encyclopedias and sent it in. A salesman showed up at the front door.' Bingo! I filled out one of those cards in the doctor's office, for a children's set of 'encyclopedias' of Bible stories. The sample book in the doc's office was a bright sort of turquoise marine blue with a technicolor-bright illustration of Jesus & a crowd of children. Out of that one card, I scored the Bible encyclopedia, the Book of Knowledge, & Lands & Peoples, an encyclopedia about different countries around the globe. The Book of Knowledge was my favorite; besides informational articles, it had stories & poems. "The Arab's (Something-Song? Call?) to His Steed" marked the first time I'd ever heard of Arabian horses, & they're still my favorite. My brothers & I were very lively, & the only way my mother could get us inside to take naps was to read to us from the Book of Knowledge! When she broke up housekeeping, my mother gave the Bible stories to her church's children's dept, & I don't know what happened to Lands & Peoples. I still have the Book of Knowledge....See MoreNow, you're done-what do you wish you had known while planning?
Comments (68)My opinion on pot fillers. If the pot is too heavy to carry to the stove when the water is cold, I sure don't want to carry it to the sink when the water is boiling. For the effort/cost I don't need one. YMMV, though. I wish I had run my layout by gardenweb members for feedback. I wish I would have thought about a pull out cutting board. I haven't had one for about 30 years and had adapted. Would really like to have one again. The matt white Formica shows every speck of everything! Good, because I can wipe it off right away. Bad because if I haven't wiped it off right away everyone can see it. I live on a gravel road. I rarely use my a/c. Windows are open all the time. The FX stuff I originally planned might have been a better choice. Maybe next time. I do like the look of the white, though. I really hate my upper diagonals but I also hate the blind corner cabs. The more complicated pull down/out doesn't appeal to me. Problem still not solved. I don't like what I have but I don't like the other choices. I thought and thought about this and only came up with the three "I wishes", so all in all, my kitchen turned out pretty good. I am more than delighted to have the peninsula gone and every time I think about my new kitchen I suspect my face has the orgasm expression....See MoreYour high school wishes for your future....
Comments (19)I recall that in my high school yearbook, under my photo, it listed my ambition and words I live by. The words I try to live by are the same now as they were then....He who is not actively kind, is cruel. by John Ruskin. My ambition was: to be happy. Kind of simplistic, but I am a simple person and I really do believe being happy is something we choose for ourselves, and even though I have had a lot of ups and downs in my life, I can truthfully say that I am very happy. Anyway, that is what I had posted in my yearbook, but as for my life's work....I hate to say that I didn't give it much thought. I wanted to raise horses. I did that. Wish I hadn't. I never wanted to get married and had no plans to have children. I did get married very early on, mainly because my mother wanted me to. She believed I should get married and believed a man should support me. So I got married and I played, and my husband supported me. I didn't have a baby until I was in my mid 30's and I have no regrets about waiting. I only think it made me (not speaking for anyone but myself, so don't jump on me) a better mother. In some ways, having a baby late, was sort of like having a baby and a grandbaby at the same time. I was more settled and secure in myself. I ended up taking care of my mother, who had dementia, until she died in her 90's and then I took care of an elderly former neighbor and friend for 8 years, until he died. I promised him I would, so he wouldn't have to go in a nursing home. I rehabbed wildlife...mainly because I felt sorry for the orphans, and I am good at raising babies of all kinds. (Despite not wanting children...I am extremely maternal.) Now I do anything I want to do. I have no grandchildren. My daughter is secure...doesn't need my help. I wanted a mule. I bought a green broke mule. I need to get used to riding again...so I bought a horse. I plan to raise a mule foal. I plan to start riding again and ride every day for the rest of my life...if at all possible. Gee....I think I forgot the question. I'm sorry. I am happy though....See MoreHow often do you talk to your kid away at school?
Comments (43)You know, mtn, this is what happens when you raise children to be strong and independent. They go ahead and leave you. ;) Naturally it's emotionally tough at first, even though we recognize on an intellectual level the value of the opportunity. My advice would be to keep a copy of her schedule and make yourself available when she is. I tried not to schedule anything during times I knew my kids were walking to class or to an activity, or had free time. I agree that it's better to speak with them when they have some privacy. There was typically a time a few days per week when their schedules diverged from their classmates' and I got to "walk" with them. That time changed every semester, and I was always happy to accommodate their schedules. So I guess in that regard, yes, I did "schedule" a time, but it was very organic and driven by their calendars. Her class/roommates will be receiving care packages, so even though you are nearby, it's always fun to get mail....See Moreabick2
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