Building retirement dream house
Laura Squiers
8 years ago
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Anyone remember 'Mr. Blandings Builds his Dream House?'
Comments (13)Such a great, great, great movie. I have a story about it and I swear on my children's lives absolutely true. Tragic ending, IMO.... Sometime in the mid-80's, as was typical, teen me is chilling out in the pre-5000 channel era watching an old movie on a Sunday afternoon. I love Cary Grant, and have parents that are renovation addicts, so this one is particularly fun for me. Mom comes in and joins me, we laugh at the silliness and finally she says, " Uncle L has that house." Me, "Who?" "My uncle L, he's W's father." "Why don't I know him?" "Because he's an abusive and mean old SOB that no one likes very much, but he built my Aunt M that house - she's the one that died long ago in the car accident." "He doesn't have THAT house!" "Yes, yes he does, they built a bunch of them to promote the movie, although he couldn't get one of those. But, Aunt M wanted one. So one day he just called the studio in Hollywood. He actually talked to a producer on the phone and convinced them to send him the plans. I'm pretty sure they still have the plans and signed letter from the producer that came with them. He also owns a whole bunch of land where he goes hunting and fishing - he had all the timber and siding on the house cut from his own property and waited for it to cure before he built the house. It's an amazing, beautiful house." I was in it since that conversation, and yes, it was. Here's the tragic part - the immediate family never told anyone when it was time to sell it. My uncle died 9 yrs. ago this Spring (he lived in the house until his death in his 90's) and DH and I were looking to move to the town he had lived in to be closer to DH's work. We live in that town today. We really wanted to buy it but my cousin insisted on selling some of the land separately for commercial zoning - we didn't want commercial property right up against us, so we said no thanks. The house with a small amount of yard around it ended up being sold at auction for less than $200,000, I believe it is being used as a rental property and every time I drive by it I want to cry. It looks terrible and unloved, and honestly, the old guy had kept very good care of it until the last couple years. It has such an amazing story behind it, and I am sure that almost no one knows that it is a Blandings Dream House - except my cousin, I don't even know how much his own kids know about the story or if he kept the paper work that went with it. I would love to put the word out about it, because I believe there are organizations that keep track of the houses built in the promotion that try to get them preserved. But I'd just feel like I'm screwing over my cousin, and that the fools that don't take care of it now could stand to make a killing on it just because of what it is. Too bad, isn't it?...See MoreWe want to build retirement dream home. Where to start?
Comments (14)You probably already have an idea of what type of house you like: Farmhouse, bungalow, modern, whatever. Keeping that preference in mind, search for a location that suits your needs and will work well with the type of house you like (for example, I'm in a rural area; an ultra-modern design would look out of place here in my county). While you're searching, consider what services are nearby: Public transit, doctor's offices, etc. Once you have secured your location and you know whether your land is flat or whatever else, which direction has the best sunshine and views, etc., then you're ready to think about a house plan. Do not rush yourself in putting together your plan; a year or more isn't too much to allot to this process. Start now studying plans and educating yourself about what you like and don't like (we started out with a list of "must haves", but after going through X number of plans, we've determined that three of them were always iron-clad necessities, while we're more flexible on the others). Likely you won't be able to fit EVERYTHING you want into one plan; compromises will be necessary. Most people here are enamored of the Not So Big House series, and it's a good place to start, but you'll find other books too. As a part of that studying, be sure to pay attention to the things that'll make your life easy as you age; for example pay particular attention to the bathroom design -- what's popular isn't necessarily what's useful to an elderly person. Yes, you should consider budget, but only you know whether that's a big deal or not. Speaking only for myself, we are building a house far beneath our means, so we're not really thinking about it much. Rather, we are choosing to build a modest-sized house that will be easy to maintain (both in terms of cost and effort)....See MoreBuilding dream home, architect wants cost plus 12%, need advice.
Comments (66)I built my custom home and design it as well. It was my first and I was very green. My advise is make sure you know what you want and what you are willing to pay for. Learn who your builder is and do not trust too much when they start tell you what you (should) want. I learned the hard way and two months into the build project I had to practically live at the construction site. The builder did not like it much but it was my house and not his so I did not care. We budded heads when he kept defaulting to "his standards". He was good for the big strokes but when it came down to the details he failed. Pick out as many items as you can upfront so you can get a very good idea of cost. We went $50k over budget and that was because the builder's defaulting to "his standards" at the budget discussion table that I was not aware of until we were into the build project. I initially took his advise on some designing, I wish I didn't. When I became the wiser I starting taking things back in my own hands. And I am speaking of selections like cabinetry, windows, flooring tile, countertops doors, decking materials and much more finishes. I had a budget I wasn't suppose to go over and he, the builder, did not make it clear as to what we were going to get within that budget. I do not regret that I went over. And I tell you if I had another $50k laying around I would have used it up....See MoreHelp with a small dream home build
Comments (14)@millworkman - I did respond asking him to clarify if that includes land and the finished house, etc. I assumed it didn't, but on the other hand we've only been talking in terms of an all-in budget (not house only). Still out of our range either way, though. :( @Ashley Malouf - Thank you so, so much for your response. You have no idea how much that uplifted my spirits. You gave great advice as well, especially about feeling out the lands we have an eye on. Kirkland is getting more and more expensive each day, and where you have chosen to live is an amazing, beautiful piece of Washington state. We got married there (at Lake Crescent) and if we weren't such city-dwellers we'd be happy to settle in someplace similar. Alas! I will start looking through Facebook. So far I've only gone through Google and Houzz. I'm just thankful that the builders I've talked to have been (brutally) honest with me and didn't waste my time when they weren't interested - it's something! :) Thank you again! <3...See MoreLaura Squiers
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