Oh yeah, I forgot to mention, I really would greatly prefer something that has no leaves. We have no need to grow/shrink the table, and I don't like the seams leaves create.

I like the apron sided Sumner PB table I have. 10' with both sides in.

Look at Canadel.

RH Monastery table caught my attention recently. No leaves and lovely.

It took me 2 years to find my table. It is from Englishman' Furniture. They have locations in GA and NC, but I first saw their tables at a high end furniture store in the Boston area. I think they have what you are describing. Unfortunately their website is not the best.
http://englishmansfurniture.com/index01.asp

I am still very happy with my table after 15 years.

Room and Board has tables where you can customize dimensions and choose certain woods.

At our beachhouse, we got a cherry Kitchen Table from Shaker workshop. You can buy as a kit or assembled. OUrs is 8' long but they come in various sizes, finishes, etc

Why not have one made by a local carpenter? Check your local Craigslist and fb for sale pages. I see them all the time on ours. That way you can see their work in person, go completely custom, and best of all, you'll be buying local.

I am having a table made by a local artisan who specializes in old Texas farm styles. They tend to be a bit rustic and a bit on the heavier side -- all solid wood. They are all gorgeous pieces. He ships if you can't ind something local -- but I bet you can.

Do you have a reclaimed wood/ salvage shop near you? They would probably know of a good craftsman that could make a table for you.

Chispa,

Those are some beautiful tables from Englishman's. Do you know the price range?

We bought ours about 17 years ago at a flea market. It was made by a local carpenter from reclaimed wood. We have since moved and often go to a different flea market and nearly all the vendors with new stuff (rules are things have to be over 20 years old or handmade) will take custom orders. Maybe check local flea markets for a carpenter?

SF Reclaimed Wood tables

Have you seen this? There's also a place in San Francisco (I believe they have several locations, but I can't remember the name -- if I drive by tomorrow, I'll try to remember to post) that sells the wood and I think makes the tables too. It's on Valencia Street in the Mission District.

Oh, if you are in the SF area, there's also the wooden duck in Berkeley

Check out the Stickley Ledyard Trestle Table, part of their Finger Lakes collection. 85" L x 44" W. It is solid cherry wood and comes in different finishes as well as different levels of distressing. No leaves in tabletop, but you can extend the table by adding leaves to each end of table, if you want. I have this table in the medium color finish (Windsor), heavily distressed. Love it!

My daughter recently bought a gorgeous walnut dining room table from Etsy. It was made by Hedgehouse and you can order different sizes. I think she went with a 40 or 42 inch wide table by 74" Hedgehouse Her table is well built and finished very well.

Etsy had a lot of beautiful tables in a range of prices.

Bermax sounds like EXACTLY what you are looking for (because your description is exactly the table I was looking for). It is beautiful, VERY high quality, and VERY customizable, you pick the stain, size, shape, leg style, apron, and leaves/no leaves style. I think they use mostly reclaimed wood, but not sure because the finish is so professional looking.

The only negative was the cost. If I had the decision to make over, I would pick the Bermax. Saw it in NC (however, they are made in Canada) and the store had a couple dozen styles on display. Will try to upload pic from store of the table I wanted later.

http://www.bermex.ca/index.php

Looked at most of the choices already listed on this tread, some very nice, but the Bermax would be the best quality.

Have you looked at Nichols and Stone?

Momtosulu,

It has been 15 years, but I think it was in the $5K range. We have a large double pedestal with 2 leaves. It is reclaimed wood but with a pretty smooth finish and waxed, so it looks "dressy" but is very family friendly.

I'm going to add a link to the place that is making my table because they seem to run about half that. I don't have it yet, but I know he works well with customers and will make anything within his style range and work to make you happy. I went in looking for something similar to a table on his website and found something else because it had come back from a table a customer simply changed her mind on. He mad her a new base because he wanted her to be happy and he got my order for a modified version because the "reject base" was so pretty. He is in Texas but ships within the US.

Thanks chispa! I will check them out.