Trial is over, DH doctor gets 45 years. Is it really Justice?
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Comments (18)We're covered by an HMO so we don't have this option. I'm very happy with what we have, tho. Our plan includes an on-line feature where I can send my Dr. emails, set appointments, fill prescriptions, view my health record, etc. If I feel I need a longer appointment than the standard, I ask for a 45 minute one. I've never had to wait longer than 10 minutes past my appointment time. The nurse told me they schedule the appointments with 20 minutes between them so to account for overages and give the doc time to get the records updated. My only gripe is that the specialists are located within a hospital complex and hour away, but our GP's are close and we don't have to pay extra for the specialists. I have a friend who is on a different plan, and she's really got hassles with it, most as you've all mentioned, no easy access, long waits, etc. She claims she's free to see any doctor she wishes, but we've never had any trouble changing providers. DH and I are lucky we like our docs, DH only has changed once; I've had my same doc for over 15 years....See More2 doctor visits, 8 trapped bunnies, & 100s of hours later...
Comments (8)I don't have any of the garden right when we moved in - only after I ripped out most of the weeds and mildewy phlox. I'm not sure how big the garden is - suffice it to say it's big! This picture is located between the 1st and 3rd photo I posted. That scraggly grass on the left is the same grass in the middle of the first photo. The buddleia in the middle had completely grown over the beautiful daylilies you see in the third photo. This photo is facing the back of the garden, with the shade garden on the left and the main bed on the right. We ripped out the ivy arch you see and the yucca plant next to it is still being dug out (every 4 weeks... I hate it!). You can see the spirea on the right and the barberry to the right of the ivy arch for orientation....See MoreMy rant - why is the government now prescribing for doctors?
Comments (34)This is an issue that I struggle with on a daily basis. I have a disease that causes me great amounts of pain. In addition, I suffer with fibromyalgia and I need a knee replacement-my knee is bone on bone and has been that way for a few years. I also fractured my spine 5 years ago so I have bad, chronic pain from that. I cannot walk unassisted-I need a cane now, and will be transitioning to a walker in a year or so. I cannot climb stairs without assistance and I cannot bend my left knee. My disease exaserbates my knee problem because my ankles don't bend so my gait is off-throwing off my hips and back too. About 8 years ago I was prescribed 60 325/5mg Norco-the lowest dose available, and it was to take one to two a day as needed for severe pain. For 5 years I seldom refilled except ever few months. Then I developed the fibro and my knee got worse. Coupled with my physically demanding job, I was having to take the two pills a day. Then the pain just kept getting worse-which is very typical with the disease I have. So since I only had a prescription for 2 pills a day, I'd only take them when I could not longer bear the pain-I'd be at about a level 5 all day and I'd take the pills when it got to a 7. As a long term chronic pain sufferer you learn to live with pain! My doctor told me that I was in a very, very small group of his pain management patients who really did need the pain pills. I never called in for early refills, my urine tests always came back clean, etc. But then he retired and I got a new doctor. My new doctor doesn't believe me that I now need a higher dose of the Norco. A nurse told me that the dose I've been prescribed (for 8 years) is virtually the equivalent of a Tylenol 3-used to help someone get over a sprained back and not for a long term-chronic pain sufferer. My doc prescribed Tramadol-which helped somewhat with my fibro pain but didn't do anything at all for the other pain-the pain that would make me white out at times, feel like I was going to vomit from pain, and keep me up all night, in tears. I kept refilling it because it did help me get through the day at work when just wearing clothing hurt and my HAIR hurt-but I'd save the Norco till bed time so I could take two just so I might be able to sleep without crying. FInally I went in to see him, literally in tears because I hurt so bad, to ask to get my prescription increased. He's had me take xrays which show severe arthritis and bone spurs in my left knee. Arthritis in my ankles, my right knee, my back and my neck. (I was told 15 years ago I had the neck of an 80 year old, it's so damaged from car accidents). So he has proof that I'm in agony but he told me that since I already take Tramadol, he won't increase the Norco, because it will just stop working and I'll need higher and higher doses. He blames the extra weight I've put on because I CANNOT WALK ANY MORE to the Norco stopping my metabolism. His solution to my crying in agony was for me to call the bariatric unit to get into the gastric bypass program so I will lose weight so they'll fix my knee. In a very best case scenario that would be at least 18 months out, and it won't help the lymphedema or the arthritis in the rest of my body. My friend has fentanyl patches, takes Lyrica, and gets regular injections for her various pains. I do not want to move on to Oxycodone or fentanyl! I just want my Norco increased to 1-2 every 4 hours as needed-which is the TYPICAL low dose. I won't even take them if I don't need them! I can't take ibuprofen-it causes stomach bleeding in me. I try cannabis, I try massage, accupuncture, stretching, water exercises, heat/cold you name it. I have said to my doctor that I've considered having my legs amputated if it would mean that pain would stop-of course I wouldn't do that but when you have such bad pain that you'd sacrifice your legs to make it stop-THAT is real pain. I really do live in fear of what will happen if the pain meds are further restricted....See MoreThe Big C - DH - now what?
Comments (110)Here’s the thrust of my message: Once you’re told where the cancer is, and told he needs surgery, find a specialist at a large teaching hospital. My DH’ s cancer was in a similar area. The specialist we saw in our large metropolitan area said he was familiar with the type my DH had. I asked how many surgeries he’d done for this . Well, last year, two. I quickly began my research and chose a top rated man at UCLA......who averaged hundreds per year. He was over an hour away, but so worth any inconvenience. The research included reaching out to all my various docs and dentists, along with calling radiologists and asking for names. US News and WORLD REPORTS was a source that confirmed our choice of surgeons. Some large hospitals have very reasonable guest quarters for patients and families. UCLA’s was wonderful.. This was 6 years ago. All is well. I’m not sure if my message will ever show up, but you can try messaging me if I can be of any help. Deep breath, this can turn out fine!...See MoreRelated Professionals
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