"Actually eric it is well proven, people with a warm fuzzy outlook has less medical problems and heal quicker" What I was referring to was evidence that "positive thinking" doesn't necessarily help you to live longer, and advice to think warm sunshiny thoughts actually puts pressure on some patients who are made to feel responsible for being sick. "'The take-home message from this study is that..."It does not provide significant evidence that (group therapy and positive attitudes) helps (patients with breast cancer) live longer.' Reaction from those in the cancer care community include some who say these latest findings raise doubts about the mind-body connection -- the idea that a good result is only possible with a positive attitude. And Holland said that attitude can be hard to come by for a patient dealing with cancer treatments. "I've had one patient who tells me that if one more person tells me to be positive I'm going to punch them in the nose. 'I've had enough of this positive business. I don't feel good today. Enough already,'" Holland explained. For Jan Kuba, who underwent chemotherapy, radiation and radical surgery, the idea that her attitude would affect the outcome presented unwelcome pressure. "I think, "Oh, those few times that I felt a little bit down, they're the ones that are going to kill me," Kuba said." The researcher that conducted this study acknowledged that group therapy might contribute to a better quality of life for breast cancer patients...but not a longer lifespan. oakleif, if you'd take your own advice and show a warmer fuzzier side (or at least stop the personal attacks and pointless insults), it might enhance qualify of life for yourself and for others visiting this forum.

KYgirl - you didn't read my post in the spirit it was intended. Yes things happen that we don't like along the way. But it is always a good thing to realize that it is not the end of the world when something does not go perfectly in our build. It's just part of it. It happens to everybody. I have yet to see a single person say that their build went 100% perfectly from start to finish. So we pick our battles, cross our fingers,say a prayer and hope for the best and most definitely don't do things to bring the drama to us. It has a way of finding us all on it's own. I've fretted over really stupid decisions and already look back and laugh at it. Did I really need to lose 2 nights sleep thinking of tile color. Did I really need to argue w/ dh over brick color.....NO! I've changed my outlook and now I'm having more fun than ever. BMH - If my post sounded like I was making fun of you, I sincerely wasn't. I was just trying to add a little humor...

If Outlook then try right click on the header and click 'Message options' and you see the source in the tiny window on the bottom of the pop up. Windows Live right click on header and click 'View message source' Yahoo, right click the header then click 'View full header' If Outlook Express right click on the header and click Message source then there is one more click in the next window but I cannot remember what it says. Remember, if they are good scammers they'll be spoofing the email address and you will not really know.

Gmail is also very good at identifying possible spam and sending it to the spam folder. I think my hotmail/outlook is too but I don't use it as much. I gotten the "I've hacked your computer and your webcam and will embarrass you if you don't pay" scams too. But I have no webcam, and haven't done anything too embarrassing in the last twenty years or so anyway... so.. have at it. Delete Forever... and forget. I usually don't get much spam, possibly less since the pandemic. Maybe more OS updates though. Folks maintaining my OS seem to have more free time to code. :-)