thank you! ill definetly keep all that in mind! but as far as of right now, what could i do to make it feel better? would changing the soil help? also if i do change it, they gave me bonsai food to add to the pot every 6 months, should i add some when changing soil? i really appreciate the help! :D

Hi - thing is, it's hard to tell from here whether it's actually drying, or showing signs of overwatering - it's not always easy to tell the diff. and only you know how much you've given it how often, though reading over your first post and looking at the pebbles, I wonder if it has had enough... do you give it a decent drink each time, or only wet the top? The thing about stuck on pebbles also is that it doesn't allow natural drying of the soil underneath... so get them the heck off and see what's under there... and you can always come back here with results :). I find that the pointy end of a little bottle opener is a good 'lifter' to get started peeling the thing off from the centre - be very, very careful about what you do there stem and rootwise - the stones usually come of in chunky pieces.

So tell us, have the rocks been glued on? Then tell us what kind of soil is in the pot? Is it very gritty, or is it very soft, fine soil like in most flower pots? Here is why it's important to know: if the rocks were glued on and the soil is like what's in most flower pots, then once/week watering has probably been too much and you need to slow that way down; if you have a soil that is mostly a fine gravel, and the rocks aren't glued in place, then it is much more likely that it could have been too dry. I agree that it looks like Eugenia, and by the looks of those leaves you will lose most or all of them. It's definitely a sign of stress, but maybe not of death. It will take time to know.

ok so i took the pebbles off, and they weren't glued on in any way, the soil is really compact, i would say like in most flower pots, but very sandy, i would even compare it to wet sand, but black, its not super humid, but enough to feel it humid. i water it with 4oz of bottle water not to schedule, but depending on how much sunlight i think it took through out the week and made it dry enough, but usually comes down to once weekly.

Right now it looks like the bottom leaves are dry and the top is still fresh, I've read that it shouldn't be taking direct sunlight like im giving it.. i thought maybe too much sun might be drying it :/

Not enough sun may be killing it - it's tropical and needs high light all day. Try it, see how things go, but don't water according to that, but according to how damp the soil is - and as I said, wait til more soil than less is dry.

I think you are making the right adjustments now with moochinka's help. I hope it recovers and you post those pictures. If it dies, though, don't waste what you've learned. Buy another!