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Comments (4)Mitchdesj, A long time ago I made the decision to have no-haggle pricing in the store and have kept that in place. Having said that, I'd say 50% of folks DO ask for a discount or want to haggle a bit, and of those 5% are annoying combative about it. Women do it FAR less than men. Men make up that vast majority of hagglers and tend to be more abrasive about it when they have their wife or girlfriend with them, as if it was some kind of testosterone-laden sports contest in front of their woman. I have expect some of them to beat on their chest, Tarzan-style. Everyone loves a deal! But to artificially have a posted high retail that can be bartered down to a lower price unjustly penalizes those that do NOT barter (typically the elderly customers, and the gentle, soft-spoken folks). Plus the barter system creates total havoc with your sales staff unless you resort to silly codes on the tags, etc. Price it fair to start with, tell 'em they have to pay the sales tax as applicable, and delivery if they want it right from the beginning and they can decide if they want to shop with you or not. There is a certain clientèle (again the men) who just can't buy in a store where they can't haggle the price, and I always wonder why that is? If they'd done their homework ahead of time, and price-shopped an item, they'd see the ticketed price is their best deal going. Duane Collie...See MoreI feel horrible (LONG, but I need to get it out)
Comments (8)I really hope you have been in therapy or at some point will get some.I have been through similar things (although probably not as bad) I was also molested (by a cousin).In my teens I was pretty promiscuious and got mad when people called me a slut because I didnt think I was.In hindsight,I know It was a reaction to all I had exprienced. My mom kicked me out of the house alot and always put her loser boyfriends first too.They never tried anything with me,but were alcoholics and abusive to my mother. My relationship with my mom and sister has been a disaster for the last 15 years.Neither one of them has been there for me at all,and have only made my life more stressful. So I finally went to therapy because it was causing all kinds of problems.Severe anger,depression,anxiety...I learned alot.My therapist said it was more healthy for me to not have them in my life.Of course,they make that impossible,but I have learned to shut them out more and not let them interfere with my life. I think you are doing the right thing.Obviously your mother hasnt changed if she still has Jack in her life.Dont justify your mom's actions by saying you were supposed to help her have a better life.You didnt ask to be born.And unless your a moron,everyone knows having a baby doesnt make life easier! I'm really surprized you turned out so good considering.I have too only because I try to do the opposite of my mom at all costs. Just think how it good it felt to get it all out here.If you had a therapist you could really dig up those issues and even free yourself of all (or at least most) guilt. If you cant afford it,most counties have some kind of free mental health plan.Or on a sliding scale of much money you make. My husband has kinda saved me too.He has been the most stable person I have known.He has put up with alot from me because I was so "flighty" when we met cuz of all the drama.I essentially went to therapy for him,because I didnt want him to have to constantly hear about it or put him through any grief. It sucks to have a crappy family life.I'm sorry about all you have been through.But in a way it's nice to know I'm not the only one....See MoreMy stepkids hate me, frustrated and broken
Comments (11)If you are going to school full time, AND working part time...do the hours add up to less than working full time? Just wondering... I do understand that you want/need to finish your degree since you are very close to finishing. I also understand that you now have a home for your children, that you may or may not be able to provide without his help. I also understand how valuable it is to have someone to share your life with, and help you raise your children, instead of trying to raise them alone. Especially since he is a good man, who treats your children well. And "I get" that his children have a choice in their behavior, and they are making your family life miserable. However...as a parent, do you understand that if he turns his back on his children, he has failed in his role as a father and a parent? That these next 6 years are the most crutial years in the development of his kids, and will determine who they will be as adults? That as he chooses you and your children over his children (both he and his children will understand that he chose you over them) that will in and of itself create "issues" for both he and his children. Raising teenagers is enormously difficult for ALOT of people, even those with intact families. His children are acting out, of the anger and pain of what has happened in their life... I understand that you feel that they should not "win" and ruin what you and your fiancee' are trying to build...that their bad behavior should not be rewarded by getting them what they want...which is you and your children to leave. However, as a father and a man of integrity and honor...he must fight to hang in there and finish raising his children...whether he feels like it or not. Perhaps they do need to live with their mother...I don't know. But he should not give up on them because it is hard. And he is right in demanding that they treat others with respect, and that includes you and your children...but it also includes their teachers and others, or life will be hard for them...because in life, we must treat people we work with, and for, with respect, whether we like them or not. This is tough because their mother is teaching them one thing...but he needs to teach them what he sees as important...and do his best. The rest will one day be up to them. I wish you the best as you try and do what is right for you, your children, and your fiancee' (and his children). He is in such a tough spot because he loves you, and does not want to lose you...and yet his own children need him...but their behavior is destroying everything he wants, and the life you two are trying to build. But as the kind and good man you know him to be...which makes him a man of honor trying to do what is right...by both you and as a parent. What a hard, hard spot to be in. He will need to be strong, wise and walk through this. I wish you both better times ahead....See MoreStatutory rape, does it evolve as a precursor to molestation?
Comments (27)"Age of consent" is arbitrary and I don't think a lot of people even know the true definition of "statutory rape" . 'Rape' is such an inflammatory word that brings out a knee jerk reaction in people. All statutory rape means is that it breaks a law that is on the books in some states/countries but is legal in others, ie; it goes against a statute. For instance what is legal in Iowa (14) is illegal in North Dakota (18). As joann23456 pointed out there is a difference between a pedophile, who is one who is attracted to physically sexually immature children, and someone who is attracted to young adults, and that would include just about everybody. What man would not find a 17y/o woman attractive?? Just because a man finds a young woman attractive does not mean is is perverted and will molest or rape or commit incest with his grandchildren. It is a non sequitur. If you find grandpa's tales and his liberal attitudes, distasteful just tell him. As a previous poster pointed out it just seems boring and immature. BTW the Age of Consent in the Philippines is 12. The age of consent for a travelling US citizen is 12. The armed forces has different rules, and the Age of Consent where they will prosecute is 16 but of course all homosexuality is illegal in the armed forces and any homosexual contract engaged in by a member in the military can result in a court martial and being sent to prison just as honosexuality can result in prison in some countries as can engaging in ANY premarital sex no matter what the age. It is all arbitrary just like drug and alcohol laws with minimum ages, and laws requiring women to cover their heads in public at a certain age. http://www.avert.org/age-of-consent.htm Here is a link that might be useful: Age of Consent by State and Counrty...See MoreFunkyart
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