Have you seen the new Martha Stewart cabinets at Home Depot? They come in those colors. At least you could get ideas. They may still have some of the catalogs at the stores. She has such beautiful photos! Good luck!

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Here are a few I liked, all Benjamin Moore...

Edgecomb Gray: Light gray, pretty true
Coventry Gray: A little darker with a blue tint
Gray Owl: Very light, slightly green
Sea Haze: Same chip as Gray Owl, a little darker, also slightly green (but both are pretty true grays)
Fieldstone: A bit darker, a green gray
Revere Pewter: More of a taupe, really gorgeous on walls

You could also do an actual color....our bedroom is Hampton Green, which is a very neutral green that sometimes reads beige and sometimes green. Potpourri Green is a light blue-green (think jade), and Wales Green is a light yellow-green that's almost yellow...I like both of those a lot.

Grays are really hard to choose, though---you really need samples. Even the ones we had large chips of didn't look quite the same when we had sample doors painted. Good luck!

Here are some kitchen photos that might give you some ideas. Also take a look at the Cornforth White thread of a few days ago -- it's a pale gray paint used on a kitchen by a poster in England.

Here is a link that might be useful: Gray

From Attic Magic ( I think the link above)

Green Kitchen Project Ideas Gray Paint

Gray Area Dance blog

InaGarten

After Oak Painted Kitchen

Magnetic Gray Sherwin Williams

The Colon House Blog Gray and White

Gray Dutch Boy paint

French Gray by Farrow and Ball paints

Steven Gambrel Designs

Great Barrington Green Benjamin Moore paints

Kitchen Ideas different uppers