Whoa! Porn is adultery...Heck I though porn was a great tool to help keep actual adultery from happening...Whoa! What an easy way out...having a no porn clause... But uhh for real, anytime someone makes you question your sanity you should leave, unless you are like," I love you so much I feel crazy." Something like that is crazy, but constantly hearing you are soft minded will make you believe that you are, and that isn't right... Then again my husband is jealous and constantly accusing me of cheating or not wanting to be with him, and I literally never leave the house...ever. If I do happen to go somewhere--the store, the kids grandparents, anywhere other than home he will call me...frequently. I have gotten 3 or 4 calls in a couple of hours numerous times...He continually checks my phone, facebook, email, everything...It for real has made me not want to be with him anymore, and i tell him things, what your guy says to you. "it's all in your head, stop asking me that, so on and so forth..." Perhaps I am like your guy, and my husband feels like you do. I haven't ever cheated though... My husband has acted like this as long as I have known him. Really I should have never continued seeing him, but I did... Now I feel like it is too late most of the time... I do know that my husband being so freaking whiny needy and insecure all the time, has put me in the danger of cheating category...I'm not going to, but I find myself being attracted to other men these days. It didn't used to be an issue not cheating on him, but now I have to think about it...Could it be because he wore me down with all the constant worrying and asking and snooping and everything...I don't know. But your guy is actively cheating often by your description, so you either have to stay knowing that he is stepping out with other ladies...(because you know he is)... and if you can't he happy with sharing him, then go out and find someone that is happy with just you. I feel like some people are incapable of being monogamous... and those people belong with other people with the same views...You can't put a person that needs 3 people to make them happy at any given time, and pair them with someone that needs only one person to fill their hearts. Unless you actually only need 1/4 of that one person's heart...Because if you are sharing your partner you are not getting the full time and attention of one person...so true monogamists can not really be with "Social" monogamists. Which basically means you have this one person that you want to spend your life with, but there may be other people from time to time that you want to sleep with just because of some sort of physical thing, but still wish to be with and love that one person that you spend your life with... Sounds like you got with a social monogamist. He wants to be with you, but also other people from time to time, for nothing serious. You are his serious person...So I guess think about whether that is something you can deal with or be interested in. Then you would remain married per your beliefs, you could set some sort of rules on these extramarital affairs, and perhaps you might enjoy having the same freedoms, which obviously this goes against your beliefs, but it is one of the ways to stay with this husband you have... Do you want it to work as it is, or do you want him to be a whole new person that he has shown you repeatedly he can not be? That you knew he wasn't before marrying him? If you want a truly monogamous marriage, then go find a husband that truly wants the same...but make sure to give them awhile to show their true colors...A lot of people claim to be monogamous, but they are claiming such because they know it is the right answer, but not how they actually feel...so give adequate time and opportunity for cheating, and if none occurs, then you may have found someone just as interested in being with only one person as you yourself are...if you are? Just mull it over.

Change orders should be in writing and signed by both parties. That's a standard business practice because if you don't document what was said, you end up with the he said/she said hard feelings down the road. WHich is where you are at. I must say that the price he's given you for replacing the floor joists is extremely reasonable. Extremely. And, he's due his 10% markup on any of the changes. That's how he's paid. That's fair. The lighting needs to be referred back to the original contract. Read it to see what's included and what's not. If it's not in the original contract, then it's a change. Sounds dumb, but the original written contract is the bible for the process. If you don't get that 11th commandment in writing in that bible, then it's a change order, even if it was verbally discussed. The $300 demo wall credit sounds fair, if the cost of demoing the wall was the only part of that wall removal that was in the original contract. It didn't include drywall repair, floor repair, moving of electrical? If those costs weren't specifically stated in the contract, then they weren't included in the wall demo and the $300 is a fair price for just removing a wall. Maybe it was worded like that originally because until you DO put a hole in the wall, you can't know what would be in that wall that would need moving and those changes would have been a change order at the time of demo. It's all about communication. A contract is nothing more than a written document about the communication you've had with your contractor and the things that you've agreed on. Some contractors are good at the work they do and not so good at the business side of it. Sounds like you may have one of those. But, the communication issue is a two way street. In the future, you need to be proactive in getting those changes documented as well, for your own protection! Write the date you discussed the item down and email it to him, "Per our 2/14 discussion, you agree to do XX job for YY money and this does include sub jobs ZZ and AAA. If hidden problems occur, I understand that further change orders will ensue." You'll get his attention quick if you put in writing something that he didn't intend to convey to you in your conversation. For now, your best approach would be to call him and have a face to face conversation. Communicate with him that you need further clarification of the charges. It doesn't have to be confrontational. Just a friendly dialogue. "I'm a homeowner, not a contractor, so I'm not sure I understand your bill. Help me figure out what you're charging me for here." And if you do disagree with the charge, say so. "I was under the impression via our conversation back in the first week of December that this was included in the original payment. Why is that now a separate charge?" Allow him to clarify things to you. And, doing so in person will allow you to clarify your own thoughts and...

Slab doors and drawers in maple, birch or select oak with a good stain finish seems a possibility here. Have you looked at the many semi-custom and custom cabinet makers who now produce what is called exotic veneer finish in a slab door? Kind of like what Coco Chanel reproduced in her kitchen, or at least part of it? It's a nice look for the right kitchen.

All their kitchen cabinets had the dimensions of each piece and the assembly instructions, so I would assume the besta line would too. Your answer would just take some simple math.