Kitchen Compromise - How do you co-design with your family?
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Wht. size is your kitchen island & how do you use yours?
Comments (29)missymar-We are also building a Frank Betz-the Kensington Park. My kitchen is 13'4"X 10'6" and calls for a 2 X 4 island. I too have debated about this and wondered if it may be tight in the aisles. It seems the aisles may be 44" if I calculate right. I want the island for landing/prep space as well. The island also seems a little in the way when I think about cooking-navigating around it. I am thinking of getting an island on lockable wheels with a butcher block top in roughly the same dimensions so I can move it around where I want it to be. Closer to the sink when prepping, closer to the fridge when loading, unloading and out of the way when I need it moved. Here is the kitchen of the house we are building in a recently finished home, we will move the ovens here as well, different from the plan: We are going to have a wet bar-just havent decided the exact location. I think it will be under the stairs beside the breakfast nook. This will be kids juice boxes, yogurt, cheese etc to move their stuff out of my fridge. The other option is to put it where the kitchen counters kick back around and shows a desk in the plan. Here is my 1st floor plan:...See MoreHow did you have to compromise?
Comments (4)We compromised by not bumping walls to increase our square footage. Initially I regretted all the limitations that put on our redesign but now I just notice how nice the cabinets look and function, how shiny the new appliances are, etc. Right now all you are seeing is that big bulkhead thing, but when you start getting all the other changes in place the bulkhead will most likely become less obtrusive to you. Over time you start focusing on the things that function well, the things that look nice. The things that bother you initially really do fade. Not sure exactly how that works but I know the one piece of travertine that was right in the middle of the hallway that was sooooo much lighter than the other pieces, the piece that really stuck out like a sore thumb and everytime I walked over it I regretted not asking my DH to replace it. Well now I walk right over it and I don't even think about it or notice it?? That is just one element of your new space, it will become less and less noticeable to you. HTH...See MoreWeek 114 - How do you use your kitchen?
Comments (19)This is an excellent post, Beachem! Some of you know that my 30 yr. old daughter, Joy, who lives with me, and I are in the process of becoming certified organizers. We're also writing a book, "Minimalism and the art of the lovely home." And a lot of you know my house story. In January, I bought a 1979 manufactured home fixer upper. It was previously owned by hoarders and even after truckloads were removed by them, they still left truckloads of the hoard behind. Joy and I spent three months just cleaning out their hoard. They had neglected the home to the point that it is really deplorable. And under the hoard it was FILTHY! Another month just to CLEAN. Then, 2.5 weeks ago, the movers delivered OUR stuff. Now we're in the process of unpacking/organizing all that. And, just in our spare time, haha, painting the interior. Really not the highest priority, but we needed some cheering up! I bring all this up for two reasons. First, the kitchen remodel will be a gut, but won't happen for a few years, and that may change a bit of how it is used. Second, when organizing a home, the first thing Joy and I ask clients is, "What is the purpose of this room?" We talk through it, and ask them to write it down. It seems obvious, but really isn't. Just read the comments above me. The purpose of a kitchen can be: cooking, eating, food storage, kitchen related storage, non-kitchen related storage, command center and/or home office, social gathering space, homework or art project space, electronics charging station, romantic dinner space, landing space for everything that comes through the door, family meeting space, bar, football...OK, probably not football, but you get my drift! YOU need to decide what you want the purpose(s) of your kitchen to be, and then organize your kitchen around that. Once you define what the space IS, you will find organizing it, or remodeling/building it to be a much easier task. OK...so my kitchen is a small eat-in kitchen. It's a 900 sq ft house, so there is no other dining area/room. (Though I don't mind eating in the LR when I have guests.) No island. The kitchen part is an L, and there is a small, round pedestal table that can seat 4 in a pinch. We just have two chairs to save space, since 99% of the time it's just the two of us. Future plans may include banquette seating. There is also a huge, hideous built in china hutch with a pass through. It faces the LR, so the back of it faces the K table. When I'm done painting the kitchen this weekend (I hope!) I'll post pics. The kitchen is often the heart of the home. We spend a lot of time in there, and we almost always cook dinner together. We eat out very, very rarely, so dinner is prepared in the kitchen 7 days a week. I work from home, so we have breakfast and lunch in there too. Breakfast usually separately because I get up a lot earlier than Joy, lunch mostly together. Breakfast for me is usually yogurt and granola. Lunch is generally a salad. So not really "cooking" for those meals, unless I get ambitious and make pancakes or something. The purposes of my kitchen: cooking/meal preparation, eating, coffee station, coffee with neighbors who pop in, coffee or lunch with friends and clients (from my editing business), and general social gathering spot. This may shock some of you here on the KF, haha!, but I DO NOT want the "command center" in the kitchen! It's too small, and I have never liked it there anyway. I now have a library, which is the master bedroom. My books, desk, computer, files, a small bulletin board, etc., are in there and that is also the command center. I ABHOR stuff on the refrigerator!!! I don't care how cute the cat, grandchild, whatever, is, it's not going on the fridge! And that is not the place, in my kitchen, for calendars, announcements, lists, etc. I know it sounds ridiculous, but that's just a "thing" with me. I think it makes the whole kitchen look messy and cluttered. I have a small dry erase board and bulletin board in the library, and that's where that stuff goes. If my kids were still little, it might be different. As far as liking people in there while I'm cooking, I'm really OK with that, and likely to ask them to pitch in! My mom, OTOH, did not want ANYONE in or near her kitchen, and had no trouble telling people to get out and go sit in the LR! She didn't even want them in the adjacent dining room! I think that's just a matter of temperament. I'm a clear counters person, but due to lack of space, have my utensils canister, a fruit bowl, and my beloved coffee station on my counters. My LR and eat-in kitchen are basically an open great room now, except for the built in. The top half (above the pass through) will be knocked down eventually, and the bottom half will be made into a useable peninsula, with the storage opening on the K side. (Those bottom cabs are our pantry.) That will really make it an open concept great room space. I'm very casual and have no need for anything more formal. CEFreeman, if I ever become a hoarder, it will be books and office supplies, haha! I love Staples like some people love BBB or W-S! ;-)...See MoreWeek 146 - How did your pet influence your kitchen design?
Comments (29)We're remodeling our next home now and since the Laundry Room is right off the kitchen we planned storage there for dog stuff. My lab loves her crate and that's where we'll put it. I find it handy to be able to out her in the laundry room and close the door if I'm mopping the floor or we have contractors in the house. We just ordered a nice dog bed that will go somewhere in the family room for her daytime naps....See Morehellonasty
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