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This is probably more of a marriage thing but...

18 years ago

Maybe I just need to vent or maybe I am just being overly sensitive about this but...

The other night my DH and I were hanging out together watching football (something we both thoroughly enjoy) and we had had a few drinks. My DH had had quite a few more than I but we were having a good time... enjoying being grown ups with out any kids for a night. Anyways, the ex calls at about 10 o'clock that night and says her mom broke her leg. Can DH please help her get mom into the car so that she can take her to the emergency room. DH tells her yes he will come. I tell DH you have been drinking... you cant drive out there. (Now mind you my next statement was going to be. If you cant drive I will go and help her) DH tells me no, your just drunk so you dont want me to go help an old lady. Needless to say, my temper flared and I was highly pissed.BTW I had only had two drinks that entire night which for me is not a lot. I have a very high alcohol tolerance.

After all of the crap that I have dealt with via the ex over the years and all of the nonsense that I have kept my mouth shut about. After, purchasing medical supplies for exes father when he was dieing and always completely supporting DH's continued involvment with his exes parents because they are elderly and ex does not take care of them... he would dare accuse me of being jealous enough to not want him to go help an old lady who broke her leg!! I am so hurt and insulted and livid that I can barely look at him right now. I am trying to take a moment and make sure that I am reacting accordingly and I am not being ridiculous... but, really, can he honestly think that is how I would react after everything I have done for them myself.

I mean don't get me worng I personally think the ex has well to put it plainly balls for calling us to help her after all she has put us through recently with the kids and her attitude. But, that still never would have made me not go and help her mom.

I don't know ... am I overreacting? Am I being silly? I just feel so insulted that he would question I dont know my character like that.

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