Maybe BM Light Pewter - we have that in one of my daughters rooms. - I think it would look great in your space! Or even Revere Pewter but have it lightened by 25%. Good luck and congrats on your new home!

I’m thinking three dark walls. This is B.M. Nocturnal Gray, but just a guess to colors in the paper. You do need some blue undertone to work with what I call the “mean” west light. My go to for west light is Patriotic White, so I moved down the strip to find something darker. This color would show great with the white crib, and you could add a white rug on the floor, and a white lamp on the dresser.

B.M. Gray Wisp would work well....it is gray (cool against the warm cabinets) with strong green undertones (again cool). Ask your S W dealer to match the B.M. formula. If Gray Wisp is too dark, find the S W equivalent of B.M. Paperwhite

You can also save a bit of money, by painting the backsplash. I think, everything white, is a bit too much. You can get a sample of the blue you like, and put it on poster paper and tape that over the lower cabinet, to see how you like it. White on the top would be fine. If you are going to do them yourselfs, preparation is very important. Clean them, with a very good cleaner. Sand them, if any nicks, or dents, or holes, then fill those, and sand again. Wipe them down really well, and use a top quality sealing bonding type primer on the cabinets. Follow the directions on the can for dry time, paint coating time, and if that primer needs a very light sanding. Then wipe them down again, and start painting. Some can be done with a small foam (white) roller that says, for cabinets on it. Also, make sure the paint you are putting on, is an actual cabinet paint. It will take 2 to three coats. Follow the directions on the can for drying time, before recoating. Let sit a couple of days, before trying to hang the cabinets, and like above, do not close them, for 30 days. Primer the backsplash with sealing bonding primer. Use decent quality satin or semi gloss paint to paint them. Make sure they are squeaky clean, before doing anything to them. Trim, could be satin or semi gloss white. A nice light color on the walls and you will have a fresh clean kitchen. Do not rush any of these steps. Take your time, and do it right. It is time consuming to paint cabinets, and do a decent job. There are NO shortcuts.