I have no idea if this is a legitimate concern, but I'd be concerned about the fact that the legs appear to be attached on the outside rather than under the chair. Makes me wonder if the downward pressure of someone sitting on them would push the legs out and cause them to become loose over time. Doesn't seem like a very smart design.

For starters, true elegance IMO is simple. And I for one understand what OP means by rustic elegance. So: I love white, so I'd go with a creamy white on the walls. I have SW Creamy in a north facing room, and it's warm and soft. Another similar creamy white color, which gets enthusiastic reviews here, is BM Capitol White. I'd get off white linen drapes and an off white rug, maybe with a subtle pattern. Basically various shades of whites with lots of texture. Alternatively, go with a very dark blue wall color and off white drapes, rugs, etc. are there any bedrooms that you like? If yes, can you identify their common elements? Or post them here? Another question: what of this set have you bought/are you planning to get? Everything? Personally, I would not buy the complete set, i.e. get different nightstands, for example.

Qwanda - you're doing GREAT. What you have so far is absolutely a warm coastal vibe. So trust your instincts. You've got really good inspiration spaces on your Pinterest board. Pick out the accessories that speak to you and it will look fantastic. (The great thing about accessories - you can always move them somewhere else if the spot you intended doesn't work out!) As for plants, I'm not the person to help in that department. But I bet someone in that department will want to know which way is north in your room. Trust yourself - it will be beautiful! - Doug

@tgb1 thanks again for posting your photo. That maybe the perfect one. The C&B Vitner is more farmhouse than bistro. I’ve never bought from Ballard before. Do you know a) is the X-back of your chair bentwood (not metal)? b) do they offer free shipiping often? They don’t have it now (I can get 20% off) but RetailMeNot showed expired promo codes for free shipping, including one for 25% off + free shipping. Not sure how common that is. thanks for any addition thoughts and help. Thanks everyone! I felt stuck but now I see a way forward, lol!