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northeaststepmom

trying to unravel decree problems

23 years ago

DH has EOW custody. The decree awards him 2 seperate weeks of vacation time in the summer. He HAS been adding the 7 days from 1 of his weeks to his EOW giving him 10 days in a row with the kids but it cuts into BM's weekend. She did the same as well cutting into his weekend. This year they are going to try taking a week by his weekend and 5 days. This way no one misses one of their weekends. The BM says a week is a week and he is losing nothing. DH feels he is losing 4 days if he takes both of his 2 weeks this way. He feels the decree means he has EOW PLUS, over and above that 2 seven day periods in the summer. They are 2 different things. DH doesn't want to lose 4 days so he said he would take his weeks 5 days at a time and use his other 4 days for long weekends. BM feels the decree means his EOW plus 5 days to make a week and that's the end of it. She doesn't feel he is entitled to the other 4 days. I know, it's hard to explain! We want to poll others to see how you do it? What do you think? PS: BM is a SAHM so she has the kids all week long, all summer long. I believe she would do just about anything to not let DH get one extra second than the decree says! Thanks for your help!

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