Wish I knew more to tell you. I had a purple waffle Pilea for years that would be happy outside in hours of direct sun while warm enough to be outside, made tiny white flowers. My instinct is that this plant needs more light, less water... Winter rays are much less strong than summer rays, might need shade during summer but is starved for light during the shorter, weaker days. A lot of house plants can be like that, at least from what I've seen.

looking for episcias, will pay postage or trade violet leaves, moon flower seeds soapwart seeds,

Glenda: I have been looking at that bright moon tonight here in Texas. Do you think we were looking at the same time? You did not say God bless the moon and God bless me.

Those big colorful grasshoppers i think like them...actually i am not sure what they don't like. lol i just looked up what a lubber is...a lubber is one of those big colorful grasshoppers...we always called them giant grasshoppers...btw they are not so colorful in the juvenal stage...they are black with a yellowish/orangish stripe.