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Omaha World Herald Article on Nathan

16 years ago

Nathan Andrew Waggoner couldnÂt stand to sit still.

Presented with the opportunity to watch television or play a video game, Nathan would rather throw a kayak on top of his car and head to the lake, drop a fishing line in the Missouri River or spend time with his friends.

When the 17-year-old died Friday, the world lost a young man who truly loved living.

"He dealt with the cancer, but he just enjoyed his life," his mother, Monica Waggoner, said.

Nathan, an Elkhorn High student, battled a brain tumor since May 2008. His cancer took him to Los Angeles and Chicago for treatments and to Hawaii for fun with other kids fighting illnesses. Through it all, he stayed positive, his mother said.

NathanÂs Facebook page, with more than 1,000 friends, is a testament to his magnetic nature. This weekend, friends gathered for a candlelight vigil in his honor. They told his family the things they prized most about Nathan.

Again and again his mother heard about his infectious smile and his friendly, outgoing manner, even in the face of truly difficult matters.

That was the Nathan she knew, Monica Waggoner said.

Nathan loved the outdoors, but he also loved to wrestle. In his freshman year, before he was diagnosed with cancer, he competed again and again, never giving up, never getting pinned.

"He was just a strong fighter and battled every single thing that he went up against," said Monica Waggoner.

Nathan was a fighter, but that wonÂt be foremost in the minds of his friends and family when they think of him. His mother will remember a boy searching out snakes and fish at the family cabin on the Missouri River. His friends might think of a wrestler, a snowboarder or a wakeboarder. In the end, it came down to the smile on his face. With a sunny day and some clear blue sky, it didnÂt matter what he was doing. He was happy just to run free.

Nathan is survived by his mother, father Jeff and brother Nicholas, 20.

Comments (11)

  • 16 years ago

    such a fitting tribute for a remarkable young man...If he managed to make just one kid value their good health and wonderful life they have...then he's done his job...

    You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers Leslie...

  • 16 years ago

    Oh, that is such a sweet tribute!

  • 16 years ago

    Liz, that's exactly my feelings.

  • 16 years ago

    Now that brings tears to my eyes. What a great young man he was to get so many accolades about how he lived his short life.

    Shirley

  • 16 years ago

    Made me tear up too...what a sweet article. Bless his heart!

  • 16 years ago

    So sad. He seemed like such a good boy. Hugs to his family.

    Sue

  • 16 years ago

    I feel so sad.

  • 16 years ago

    My sincere sympathy for your untimely loss.

    The death of a dear one is always hard to bear, but parents aren't supposed to outlive their children. Grandparents aren't supposed to outlive their grandchildren.

    Drawn-out illnesses are so hard. I think they are harder on children's families than on the patients. How are Nathan's parents and brother doing? How are YOU doing?

  • 16 years ago

    May he rest in peace with his Lord.

  • 16 years ago

    I'm sure knowing Nathan's pain and earthly battles are
    over offers some comfort...but his passing leaves such a huge, sad hole of emptiness in the lives of you, his parents and all who loved him.

    With heartfelt sympathy,
    Suzi

  • 16 years ago

    The only "good thing" about Nate's tumor was he wasn't in pain. I thank God for that. He looked and functioned totally normal until about November/December, when he had to go into the wheel chair. From there he lost strength in his legs, then arms, and hands. The last month he couldn't talk really, but his mom could figure out what he was saying. He was NEVER angry about his illness. He said "It's not about me."
    His tumor, in short, was called DIPG if anyone wants to look it up. I've known from the beginning it was the worst kind, but prayed for a miracle, for him to be 1 of the 2 out of 200 (?) who made it.
    Thanks for your caring thoughts.
    Leslie

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