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Comments (13)shesharee, I'm so glad you have decided you will never do this again. Just because we *can* do something that makes our lives easier with the little beings we choose to live with doesn't mean we should. I learned something the hard way too about my cats (it was with regard to nutrition), so I know the guilt and the power of the resolution that come from it. I was even raked over the coals 'publicly' (an online event to which he was invited) by an international expert for what I did. UGH. At least you and I both know that no other cats will have to suffer now that we've learned better. I hope Gizmo comes out of it as safely as possible and doesn't have to go back there for a long time. Give her lots of love, reassurance, a fresh raw treat, and a gentle g'web hug :)...See MoreCat's claws
Comments (33)All of your stories are wonderful. Your story is sad, Tally. My indoor kitty is presently having a fit because he can smell the stray (Cleo) on me. He'll hiss and growl at me when he smells my pants. It's funny but at the same time it gets me thinking "How in the world is this going to work when he behaves like this and it's only a smell and not yet the other cat 'in person'.... I'm going day by day. Now I just hope I can get her to the clinic on Wed. to get spayed. We have a lot of melting snow and refreezing the next morning. I'm hoping it's all mostly gone so I can get her there bright and early Wed. morning. I don't want to wait another day! I think I'm in for quite a nightmare. We brought in a kitty that was about 5 wks old over last summer. My dd fell in love with it and we figured we'd give it a try. Our vet had a bunch of them at the time so we tried for a week. Our cat became so aggressive that he'd try to bite us. He actually took to my MIL's ankle who was visiting at the time. It got so we couldn't even walk by him without him growling at us! Sunny, our cat, never even saw the kitty... it was just from the smell and the soft meowing from the kitty. We eventually returned the kitty to the vet. We checked often and she was adopted eventually. I think of this and then I think of an actual introduction of Sunny to Cleo and I panick inside. Ok, enough torture for now. I'm going to take it one day at a time! Hay Dios mio!!...See MoreGoing over Raw and no DE-clawing with a Group home?
Comments (14)Until you know what the conditions will be regarding pets in the group home, you really shouldn't "worry". But I think being prepared with good information is always helpful. I think there is lots of good information about declawing on the internet. Education is the key. If they require declawing, perhaps print out the page from the linked web page and ask them to change their declawing requirement for humane reasons. However, you should be able and willing to pay for any damages that your clawed cat may do to the group home. Perhaps offer an additional security deposit to cover pet damage? As for raw food? If you are the person that would be responsible for purchasing and feeding the cats, I don't see how they could dictate what you are feeding them? However, if someone else is buying the food and feeding the cats, you may or may not have to make a compromise on the diet? They may follow your wishes as it is your cat and it is your money. However, if someone is totally grossed out by raw, you may want to consider alternatives out of respect for that person. Here is a link that might be useful: declawing...See MoreWhy? Questions about my cat
Comments (17)On the issue of declawing cats... I can't remember the lady's name, but she wrote The New Natural Cat book. Her belief about declawing is that a declawed cat knows that it is unable to defend itself properly and so it becomes insecure. Those insecurities come out in a variety of behaviors, including inappropriate elimination. I personally have seen that scenario more than once with declawed cats and young children. Little people can be very stressful to cats, and a declawed cat has extra reason to feel threatened in that situation. I've known a few people who had declawed cats who did fine until a baby started crawling around the house- then there was suddenly cat pee in all the wrong places. I worried about how our clawed cats would react when DD started moving about under her own power. Everything went just fine and it was easy to see by the way the cats behaved around her that they felt (and still feel) very confident in their own abilities to deal with her. To this day, I'm surprised that neither one has come to the point of sticking a claw in her, she's certainly deserved it more than once. FWIW, my tortie is not sassy so much as dependent and demanding. We also have her litter mate, who is a typical laid back orange tabby. Since he doesn't have the same personality issues that she does, and we know they stayed with their mom an adequate time, I couldn't chalk her behavior up to weaning issues- but then again, who knows?...See More- 19 years agolast modified: 11 years ago
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