What to do? Mother's wedding dress (pic heavy)
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Comments (9)Those kids sure are wonderful. A few now live out of state, but when home to visit, always come by to check on the garden and see what new plants have been added off the list. The extra marigolds from the originals found homes in my daughter's apt back porch. Yellow and orange that my mom used with her tomatoes to keep the bugs from gettting them. My son, who lives in Kentucky, has some chinese forget me nots, malva zebrina, and a few others in pots on a patio garden. My sister and brother prefer to just buy from the nursery, but they do buy some of the plants that my mother grew. Linda, the funny story with those victorian ornaments is that I would never in a million years have had them in my yard. I always thought "it just isn't me", yet I have my own craft business that is mainly hand thread crochet victorian Xmas tree ornaments. I would put out things like the ducks, the bunnies, a cat, but nothing like those. In the spring of 2002, I took them all out of the cellar to put in the memorial garden and their wasn't really enough room for the one with the gazing ball, so she got moved to another spot. They grew on me over that summer and now I love them. Must be that I'm just getting old or something strange. Alberta, you could do what I have done in memory of my grandfather. I grew up with my grandparents on a summer veggie and flower farm. He would plant at least 100 tomato plants. Nothing including severe water bans would stop him from watering those toms of his. One summer, we had such a severe drought that all water usage outdoors was banned and you could be arrested for using any. He was jumping out of his skin over those tomatoes of his. So he rigged this elaborate siphoning system from the bathtub to hoses that went out the bathroom window and long enough to reach all the plants of his. Every time someone took a shower, and there where 7 of us, we had to plug the tub so water would collect in the tub. then when it was full, he would drain the water and water his tomato plants. He rigged another hose to the line from the portable dishwasher to a huge rain barrel and a syphon in there too. All the water from the dishwasher was used on those tomato plants as well. He didn't loose a plant and we had an abundance of tomatoes, but nothing else. So what I have done since I started gardening over 30 years ago is put an American flag in one of my pots that have my tomatoes in them. He was an Army vet from World War 1 and worked with the military during world war 2. It makes me feel close to him all the time. Put a flag beside some of your bleeding hearts. Fran...See MoreWhat do you do when you are lonely? (long and pic heavy)
Comments (14)So sorry to hear of your loss. I think since DGM enjoyed gardening so much, she'd love the idea of plantings in your garden, in her memory. On a happier note...Happy Anniversary! Looks like you did some very successful shopping! I love 'one stop shopping' at community TS's...seems you find such a variety of great things. I have the same 'rant' with my GW. So many times I see items that are marked either the same price or higher than the store. Your candle holders were a great find..price and all, they were definitely waiting for you. Lovely cake plate and cute bunny dish. My favorite are the pretty For-Get-Me-Not plates. I love their delicate pattern. I'm thinking their name is also fitting to remember DGM by. I see great tablescapes using them and your other lovely dishes..which were also a great buy. Hope you and DH enjoyed a nice Anniversary with his favorite cake. jane...See Moreusing Mother's wedding dress
Comments (8)Before you cut it up, do any of you have daughters that might by chance want to wear the gown when they marry? If so I'd leave it alone until you are sure that someone won't be broken hearted that it is gone. I would think that you could make four very pretty pillows with the fabric, perhaps using the lace over the top or as an edging (if there is any lace) Otherwise, you could each have a shadowbox, use the fabric as the lining of the box, add a wedding pix, some dried flowers like she had in her bouquet tied with a length of satin ribbon, a copy of their marriage license or the family bible page about their marriage, etc. If you have a copy of their wedding invitation or other momentos, you could copy those on nice vellum (have it done at the copy place with a laser copier for best quality)....See MoreWhat to do with an old wedding dress?
Comments (22)The next possible brides would be my 20-something granddaughters who are even taller than my new DIL, and don't plan on marrying anytime soon, and have no interest in an "old" dress. And, as I said, the fabric is pretty shabby looking, with no hope of remaking it into something pretty for a wedding or communion dress. The dress was handed down in my DIL's family and a few family members. The oldest bride is in her 90's so the fabric is about 70 years old. Many of the brides are no longer with us on this earth. There are no other nieces or nephews of hers for there to be the "next" bride. The silk has held up well and can be washed, (I tested a small piece) but there are lots of shreds of what was lace and organdy hand sewn on. Not much of that can be salvaged and it has yellowed and disintegrated in some portions. I loved ideas from you all. I've come down to three: to use it like a background for a collage of all the brides photos in one large frame for my DIL to display wherever, to make large sachets for all the remaining past brides, and the one my own daughter had, to make it into a tablecloth to fit a card table. The wedding guest book could be displayed on it with all the brides' photos, or used at another future wedding, or for Christmas base for a fake tree - since it in itself is "festive", and decorate the tree with pearl garlands, white bows, and such. Such creative geniuses you all are! Thanks for so much inspiration. I'm going to think on this for a while and let you know - hopefully to post a picture too....See Moregsciencechick
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