neighbor has painted garage door bright red!
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Comments (22)I don't have any expert advice for you, but I just wanted to say I feel really bad for you. I can just imagine her spraying the Roundup like she was putting out a fire. Roundup and weeds are all she knows. I love my trees. I've lived with them for many years and have an emotional attachment to them. As far as dealing with her - find out what the laws are first. Then read her the riot act, calmly but assertively, and tell her what the law requires. (Maybe give her a photocopy or a phone number to call if she has questions.) Give her a deadline to make the corrections, and tell her you will take further action with an impartial third party if she does not do so. If she makes any remarks other than "I'll take care of it immediately!" then just tell her clearly that she does not understand how serious a matter this is, and that her actions are a clear-cut violation of your property rights. The longer she ignores it, and the condition of your property continues to deteriorates, the more difficult it will be for her to resolve financially. If she gives you a hard time, tell her that her attitude is unacceptable, and forces you to put the matter into the hands of a third party immediately. And follow through, of course. This approach has worked for me, and I have never had to take legal recourse, because my no-nonsense attitude gets their attention. It is also civil discourse, and there have never been left over bad feelings. Good that she is moving, but you need to think and quickly if you want her to correct the damage that has been done, that you can at this point document, before she is gone and can ignore you. Good luck. Stick up for your trees!...See Morered garage door emergency pull cords
Comments (5)Yup, it's true. I saw it myself. Each summer hummers will get trapped in my garage and are very hard to get out. How come they can find their way to Mexico and back and can't find the way out of my garage? I don't know. Maybe it's bird brains. Yes, are attracted to the emergency release handle on the overhead door. While working on my lawnmower, I observed several fly up to the red handle to check it out. I shooed they away. Then I realized that this could be why they fly into the garage. My emergency release handle is now dark green. Pass this word to our other friends of hummers!...See MoreNeighbor (from hell) Has Been Vandalizing My Property!
Comments (53)Yes this is an old thread, but extremely relevant; especially in light of Covid and all the insanity it is breeding. I have two nasty neighbors, so I got the luck of the draw. One on each side. The neighbor to the left was syrupy sweet for a few months, but that turned. The neighbor to the right is anal as all get out but feels as if he is entitled to encroach on our property, move things, dig our fence up because he felt it wasn’t level, take deck tiles he agreed to buy from me, but never made good on, mow over my outdoor area rug, and “accidentally“ destroy various things. The man isn’t crazy, just anal and entitled at 50 plus years old. Worse than a toddler. Never apologies or offers to replace what was damaged. I have felt like retaliating in several occasions, but I always pull myself together. My husband is now seeing things more and more. You are not crazy. Those that are calling you crazy must be “that crazy neighbor” to someone else or just plain evil and nasty. There are so many people in the world like this. A person entitled and miserable is extremely difficult to live by. I pray your situation has improved. We are hoping to move in a year or so. I will be sure to pay extra careful attention to the neighborhood and make certain there is ample distance between property lines. I want peace!...See MorePaint my garage door in accent color?
Comments (9)Thought I would follow up with a picture of what I finally went with. The paint is all Kelly Moore matching: Body - Martha Stewart Enamelware (light blue/green) Trim - Ben Moore Wedding Veil (white) Front Door - BM Poppy (red) Sashes and Garage Door - BM Overcoat (dark gray) If I did this over, I think I would have gone with a more grayer blue. Oh well, next time....See Moretishtoshnm Zone 6/NM
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