This morning's update. If you still have any problems Tamara says to post oh the attached link. Update -- Saturday 1/7 Posted by gwtamara null (My Page) on Sat, Jan 7, 06 at 10:43 Morning folks, The last of the login issues should have been resolved last night. If you are still having problems logging in, please send an email with the subject line "Tamara, I can't login" and I'll investigate it. "Send me an email" links on member pages are still being resolved. For some members, the link is correctly showing on their main page, while for others it appears on the journal pages. I've looked at a lot of member pages over the last day and for those that do show an actual email address, this is because the box was checked off on the member page. If you do not wish your email to show, you'll need to simply go into your member page and uncheck the box. If it still shows up once you do this, you may need to clear the cache in your browser. We certainly respect your privacy and if you wish to not have your email show, this is absolutely your right. It's possible that in porting over registration information, that something happened for some emails to show up when previously hidden. This was not intentional. If you have unchecked the box and your email address is still showing even after having deleted your browser cache, send an email with the subject line, "Tamara, my email is visible" and I'll look into it. Trade lists should once again be visible. Unmodified trade lists are only visible for one year, so if yours is still not showing up, it may be because it was an old list. If you have an active list and it's still not there, send an email with the subject line, "Tamara, I can't see my trade list" and I'll see if we can restore it. If you don't wish to have your email shared with iVillage partners, make sure that you have this option unchecked from your member account. The opt-out option from the iVillage policy will also cover GW members. I know there are other outstanding questions that I may not have covered -- if you have other questions or outstanding issues, please post them here. Here is a link that might be useful: Update Saturday 1/7

Before you go spending money, let's try a few things. When you took your router to default, everything worked fine. When you use a pass phrase, you get to the internet but web sites don't load. I have a copy of your router manual in front of me so let's try a few steps. 1------Log onto your router 2------Under the wireless setup make sure the SSID reads NETGEAR 3------Make sure the operating channel for the wireless mode.is Auto. 4------ Leave the wireless mode set to the default setting of Up to 145Mbps for 2.4GHz. 5------ Select security options for the 2.4GHz wireless network.The wireless Security Options are set to None by default. 6-----use WPA2-PSK as your security option. 7----- enter the following as your passphrase wndr3400 make all letters lower case. Select APPLY at the bottom of the screen. Under DIAGNOSTICS, select the REBOOT option. Once the router reboots, close out all your screens and reboot you computer. When prompted for a passphrase enter wndr3400 all letters must be lower case. Please post back and let us know if that did the trick.

LOL Mustangs! Now we know why kids think milk comes from grocery stores! Bumblebeez, I know... they do send people out to do price check. But always come back and say "Nah, the tag there is wrong. It was on sale last week." If it was on sale last week the tag should be down. And if it was not down then you should honor the price posted! But these people always go by the computer. Every time I run into a situation like this the cashier always asks, "So, do you still want it?" If I mention they should change the price on the shelf I always get this not-my-problem stare. Superstore has good deals but customer service can be very lousy. Al

Is there any way you could make 'Home' a less cushy place for them to live? I guess I'm seeing a clean line between "independent adult" and "dependent child" -- and clearly your two want all of the benefits of each role without the downfalls for each role. In other words, a dependent child doesn't have bills, but they have a few chores, a curfew, and supervision. They don't have the right to tell Mom & Dad to "Butt out!" because they are dependent children. An independent adult has much more freedom, but also an adult's share of the responsibilities. So for a household of four adults, each adult should contribute about 1/4th of the work. For some, that would be income from a job. For others, it would be housework and yard work. For most, it's both. Would Dad agree that this is a reasonable view? Would the kids? And would they be willing to up their contributions in order to stay 'square'?