What type of person do you need to be to GC your home?
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How prepared do you need to be before hiring your GC?
Comments (7)I agree with kptwin...the more specific you can be, the better and more accurate your bid will be. And it will send a message to your GC that you know what you want, and tell him not to pull the wool over your eyes. Be very careful out there...there is more shoddy work by contractors than ever before. Take your time finding someone, get at least 5 bids, including design/build (but they are usually more expensive). Hold firm to your wants and needs, and don't budge if the GC cannot or will not give you the exact fixture or appliance brand you want. Just have him pull it from the bid or give you an allowance for it...then go and buy it yourself. In fact, you may be able to get most things cheaper than your GC can. Many GC's are heading in that direction nowadays...with the internet and GC supply houses that are open to the public, you can usually get his discount without his markup...all for being willing to do the research, pay the invoice, and bring the materials back to the job site. Saves him a lot of work and paperwork. Even if he doesn't charge you markup on materials, he'll make it up with higher labor charges. They will try to get their money somehow. The bigger stuff...like windows, doors, etc...you can work with him and see what he recommends. Be careful of certain large companies like Milgard which pay the biggest commissions and kickbacks to GC's. They are not necessarily the best windows, nor the cheapest. As for flooring, if it's wood, know exactly what species you'd like, as well as what grade and stain/finish. For other solid floorings, know what brand and color. Same for countertop materials. Check out Costco if there is one near you...you might be able to get cabinets/countertops, windows, blinds, closet systems, etc...much cheaper. And know exactly what paint brand and color you'd like him to use. The more you know, the less likely you'll end up with builder-grade materials....See MoreDo you know your personality type?
Comments (34)Snidely I always find someone to talk to. I blend well. But I stand out. It's a conundrum. I'm not unhappy, nor am I unfriendly. But I have been told more than once I intimidate. I certainly don't look intimidating nor do I glare at or annoy people. I guess I mostly study them? I'm the one at the wall where I can see the whole room. On the flip side people find me extremely approachable. I smile and make eye contact with people and conversations start up everywhere with me. Standing in line, at events, everywhere. If you and I were in the same room, assuming your description of yourself is accurate, you would most definitely approach me. I don't know why. But I know it would be. I'm not exceptional in any way. Average looking, jeans and tees. Pretty nondescript. Now old. LOL My best friend is always laughing (shaking her head) at me. My DH is the same. He says he just doesn't know but it's real. Here's an example. One of the milder ones I can post here. Years ago my brother and I were dealing with my parents estate and he and I went to lunch at a diner in the city my parents lived to talk things over. When we walked in we were immediately seated, and an iced tea (without me ordering it) was placed before me with a "great to see you again". My brother remarked that I must be a frequent customer. Not at all. I had been there before maybe twice in the past but it was quite some years back. This has happened time and time again my entire life. As a teenager and beyond. People I hardly know also bare their souls to me. My best friend says I must have been a priest in a past life. She sees it and just shakes her head. It is what it is she says....See MoreWhat are you doing to make your house enrich your life?
Comments (38)I've been thinking about this a lot since it was first posted. I'm not sure I'll be very coherent, but my rambling will make sense (mostly) in my head. We bought this house/property 5.5 yrs ago, it was a neglected house, but the lot was to-die-for (middle of town, near a great park, LARGE (for in town), 7 minute commute to work, on a corner, with lots of mature trees). We stalked it for years prior while the old lady went off her rocker (sadly not exaggerating) as we lived just 2 blocks away. So that's part of our crazy plan- to not contribute to sprawl (it just makes me sad). I live in an area of the most fertile soil in the world- we should not be building houses here. So doing a demo/in-fill makes my heart feel a little joy. We want to create a legacy for our children. I know they may move away and not want this house when we die, but I hope it can be paid for and provided to them as an inheritance. Or maybe they'll want it b/c we're hoping it really creates a love of 'home' and family. We hope to do a lot of the work ourselves (being big DIYers and having done almost everything to the 2 homes we've lived in) and hope to involve the kids in some of that work so that they have some ownership. I really want to create a home with minimal maintenance as the last 2 homes have been non-stop with one thing or another. Like today when our kitchen sink was running slow and after snaking it it was fine- only to go to the basement and realize all water was now backing up from the floor drain. As if mowing, trimming bushes, and cleaning off the back porch from winter wasn't enough to keep us busy today. So new construction is a must. I get water in the basement every time it rains, the joists are termite eaten, there's adequate space (another 200 sq ft would be PERFECT), but it's not built for accessibility for overnight guests and my FIL is in a wheelchair (as is MIL, but she doesn't stay with us) and my mother has had 2 hip replacements and 2 spine surgeries. 1st floor guest room is also a must. When we bought this house we interviewed architects to see about an addition and major remodel- for 17K more the builder/designer could demo the existing house and build the same sq footage as a shell, BUT NEW (my eyes and ears and back like the sounds of that!). That sold us on living here and making do with 3 layers of wallpaper in the dining room, floor that are mushy, a 1 person kitchen, no tub, on and on and on. So we're living in the house until it's paid off so that we can get more of what we want. In the meantime we will continue to play around with plans and have done lots of reading and research. There are some things we'll be able to re-use- some light fixtures, the garage door opener, faucets, all the appliances, and I'm hoping to buy some things in advance and just store until needed. My husband and I agree on quality over quantity. We don't want a McMansion, we both want a rectangle (Colonial). Preferably one that's more energy efficient than our current home (not hard to do), and keeps us warm/cool/dry. A place to live in for as long as I can conceivably live alone (my grandma made it to 95 with her hardy Midwestern genes). The most current set of tinkering plans have very little in the way of compromise- I think if we can do that and actually build the thing we can call it a success and check something off our bucket list while drinking coffee sitting in our screened-in porch on a Sunday morning knowing all we have to do is mow and trim bushes (and maybe clean off said porch :))....See MoreInspired by Shades: what do you do with your smaller homes hallway?
Comments (12)Eld: first of all, thank you so much for your thoughtful suggestions! You are really educating me here. It never occurred to me that anything other than white would be the solution to a dingy looking area. But what you said makes perfect sense. Funnily enough, I was actually going to use Light Navajo White, because that is what I just used in my kitchen. Because my house is so small, I really want to use the same colors and materials throughout everything except two bedrooms and the bathrooms. So same flooring, paint colors, etc. in the library, LR, eat-in kitchen, and hallway. I thought it would help the visual flow of the space and unify it, while at the same time making it look and feel bigger. The light navajo white says it has a hint of brown. It is definitely not a super white white. Do you think it would work in the hallway? Also, Eld, yes, the door on the right in the picture is the back door of the house. It's actually located about in the middle of the length of the house. The hallway, if you measure starting at the Sterilite drawers on the left, is just over 16' long. There are three other doors off it besides the back door. The main bathroom is just before the laundry on the left, my room is on the left just after the laundry, and Joy's room is at the very end. I completely agree that better lighting would make a huge difference! Murraysmom, thanks for sharing! I love water colors! Your little hallway sounds peaceful, with the softness of a light green and the painting. I don't know if you've seen any of cpartist's colored pencil art--she posts on the kitchen forum and sometimes here as well, but her drawings are so gorgeous! She is to drawing what Shades is to glass mosaics. My dream wall would have a large cpartist work of flowers in a vase hanging up and Shades' glass lizard climbing up the wall! Eld, hahaha! Every time I write your name, my stupid phone changes it to either "Elf" or "Elderly!" If I missed any when I proofread, my apologies in advance, lol!! :-) Chris, if that mural is to cover up a "design mistake," then I say Praise the Lord for design mistakes! My comments are glowing because I truly love your art!! And I'm so glad you have this "therapy" to work on while you're caring for Joe in the sunset of his life. You are one strong woman, and I am so inspired by you. :-) If I get really industrious in the next few days, haha, I'll post a floor plan of my house. But I'd love to hear more stories about all your hallways or other awkward spaces you have or want to decorate! :-)...See Morerusty105
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