You can select which file types are to be associated with which player. Just de select all the file types associated with WMP that you don't want it to handle. Tools/Options/File Types Your current player should continue to handle the file types previously assigned.

are you opening the windows media player program and hitting the help button there in the program? It is likely 12 I think all windows 7 came with 12 and my guess is that yes you would have the latest version. I use VLC player myself instead and prefer it. as you can see here it is compatible with 7 VLC Media Player VLC

I'm not a Apple user but microsoft has a couple things for mac users Windows Media Player 9 for Mac OS X Sporting a new brushed steel skin for Apple's newest operating system, this new version of our player opens the world of Windows Media 9 content to Macintosh users. Readme 6,990 KB 33 min @ 28.8 Kbps Windows Media® Components for QuickTime With Windows Media® Components for QuickTime, by Flip4MacÂ, you can play Windows Media files (.wma and .wmv) directly in QuickTime Player and view Windows Media content on the Internet using a Web browser. 3,686 KB 18 min @ 28.8 Kbps Here is a link that might be useful: Microsoft Downloads for Windows Media Player 9 for Mac (OS X):

Here's an explanation lifted from a webpage: A codec is software that is used to compress or decompress a digital media file, such as a song or video. Content creators use codecs because a compressed file takes up less storage space on your computer and can be transferred across the Internet more quickly and smoothly. When you play a digital media file, Windows Media Player uses a codec to decompress the file. Codecs are used to create and play nearly all music or video files on your computer or on Web sites. Q.Why do I get a message that says my computer is missing a codec? A.You are probably trying to play a file that uses a codec that is not on your computer. When you try to play a file that uses a codec that is not on your computer, the Player tries to download the codec from a Microsoft server. If the codec is available, the Player installs it on your computer and then plays the file. If the codec is not available on the server (for example, because the codec wasn't created by Microsoft), the Player displays a message that your computer is missing a codec. If you are connected to the Internet, the message usually has a Web Help button that you can click for more information. If the Player can determine which codec you are missing, when you click that button, a Help topic is displayed that contains a link to WMPlugins.com, a Web site that lists a number of codecs that are available to download. The MPEG-2 and DivX video codecs and the ACELP.net and Ogg Vorbis audio codecs are examples of codecs that are not included in the operating system or the Player by default. Q.How do I find a codec? A.When trying to find the right codec for a particular file, you can use WMPlugins.com or other Web sites. Typically, you should start with WMPlugins.com first. Recommend that you use caution when installing codecs that aren't listed on WMPlugins.com or Microsoft.com. If your computer is running Microsoft Windows Millennium Edition or Windows XP, we recommend that you set a system restore point before installing any digital media components. This enables you to return to your original system configuration, if necessary. If you get a message that you're missing a codec when you try to play a file, click the Web Help button on the message. In the Help topic that is displayed, click the link to WMPlugins.com. If you know the name of the codec you want to find, you can go directly to WMPlugins.com Codec. If the codec is listed on WMPlugins.com, follow the instructions on the page to download and install the codec. Q.Does the Player always try to download codecs automatically? A.It depends on several factors. To ensure the Player can try to download codecs automatically, you must have Internet Explorer 3.02 or later installed on your computer, maintain Internet access while playing the file, and your Internet security should be set to Medium. In addition, if your computer is running Microsoft Windows NT, Windows 2000, Windows XP Professional, or Windows Server 2003, you must be logged on as an administrator or as a member of the Administrators group. Finally, do the following: On the Tools menu, click Options. On the Player tab, select the Download codecs automatically check box. If you use the Player in a work environment that is managed by a network administrator, you might be restricted from downloading and installing software from the Web.