Soap doesn't affect the future insects. it kills the insects that are coated with soap spray. Just apply it to the heavily infested growth tips. I can't make out the image of the winged insect, but if it is nearly immobile and looks like a winged aphid, that's what it is. Many beneficial predators will be present when aphids are thick, including syrphid flies and larvae, lacewing adults and larvae, ladybugs and larvae, and tiny wasps. They will almost always gain control of the aphids within a few weeks. Wiping off the thickest concentrations of aphids is a suitable control measure. Spraying water is fine, although many of the aphids will climb back up the rose. Aphids don't do significant harm unless they encrust the stems continuously for over a week.

Thank you guys for all your help, I really appreciate it! I am not spraying any insecticides and I have so many different bugs showing up all the time, I rather like it., but today I have something that is really frightening me and that is some kind of bees or hornets that are making their nests in the ground right near my roses, they attacked me twice and I had to run into the house like a lunatic. My grandson is coming tomorrow to stay for a few days and he loves to play outside, I just don't know what I am going to do, I just might have to spray something near the holes these bees are making, I hate to do it but I might have no choice. They are very big bees too!

Uncertain what is happening in the 1st image you posted. Can you add a closer view of the damage? In the added images - - - The first large brown spot is sunscald. Brown areas in other images is insufficient water sometime in the past. You now live in a hot, dry region with dry summers. Depending upon where you moved from, you may need to relearn irrigation practices..

Thanks to The Logician LLC and rhizo_1 for the answers. I found these on a window sill (outside) while staying at a friend's house in Galway, Ireland. It has been a warm spring with little rain. They are quite tiny, a few mm in length, and move very quickly. They did not move indoors.