This is one of those years when I'm going to have to be a very mean person. Last year I was a very nice person.
MY MISTAKE: Last week, when our son brought our granddaughter up to spend the week with us, I sent him home with a big Wal-Mart bag full of plums and two Wal-Mart bags full of tomatoes. One bag was full of big tomatoes and the other was full of a rainbow assortment of cherry types.....orange (Sungold) red (Sweet Million, Tumbling Tom Red, Tomatoberry, Husky Red Cherry and Sun Cherry FT), black (Black Cherry), yellow (Ildi, Fargo, Jelly Bean and Cuban Yellow Grape, and pink (Sweet Treats). He planned to take them to the airport to work to share with the guys at the Fire Station, which he did do. He told me later they ate both those bags of tomatoes the same day he took them in. He said they loved them and had no trouble making them disappear. Firefighters love to eat almost as much as they love to fight fires, and they're all great cooks, so I love sending them bags of 'surprises' to incorporate into their meals.
THE DEVELOPING SITUATION: Well, apparently the word of the wonderful tomato feast spread throughout the airport and, and Tim came in from work this morning telling me people were asking him if they could have some tomatoes too. I forgot to ask him if they were firefighters or police officers, but either way, news of the tomatoes had spread. Some of they were just shamelessly begging and others were trying bribery, i.e. "I'll get my wife to make you a homemade cake if you'll bring me home-grown tomatoes". I was laughing as he told me that (hey, if we want a home-baked cake, I'll make us one!) but them I told him the answer and it was "No. We have no tomatoes to share."
I feel like I am being mean but I don't have extra ones to share with anyone outside our family. It is going to be an awful tomato year if the heat holds. We DO have a great crop now and I'm picking a few pounds of tomatoes a day, so technically I could share some, but they're destined to be eaten by our family or turned into salsa or tomato sauce.
It probably would be hard for a non-gardener to understand that just because I had a great harvest last week and sent two bags to the fire station, that doesn't mean I'll have a great harvest this week or next week and have more to send to the guys at the station. A non-gardener wouldn't understand that high heat (and especially in combination with high humidity) shuts down pollination, so that new tomatoes are not setting on the plants now.
FEELING A TINY BIT GUILTY FOR NOT SHARING: So, just call me the biggest meanie in the world, but I'm not sharing our precious home-grown tomatoes with anyone Tim works with this year. I am hoarding them like precious gold because in an exceptionally hot summer, they are precious like gold.
I do think that I can afford to 'be nice' and send that particular begger (the cake guy) a Wal-Mart sack full of plums. I've been jellying like crazy, and still have at least 60 lbs. of them sitting on my breakfast room table in various bowls, buckets and storage bins, and am picking more plums daily. Every day I manage to process the ones that are at the peak ripeness that day, but then I bring in more, so I'm sort of treading water with the plums...not getting ahead but at least not falling behind.
Really, would it kill me to send a few tomatoes to one guy? Yes it would, because then everyone else would expect some. Since DH's and DS's Public Safety Department (fire/rescue, police and EMS personnel) has almost 400 employees, how would I or they decide who can have some and who can't because I don't have enough tomatoes to make 400 people happy. Better to just say no up front.
What is wrong with all these people? Why aren't they growing their own? I'm laughing as I say that, but you know, I just am not going to give these tomatoes away to random people who'd like to have some.
I am so glad I had great fruit set in April and early May, because virtually no large tomatoes have set since then, although small, bite-sized ones are still setting. Some years I have given away hundreds of pounds of tomatoes, but this is not one of those years.
Dawn
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Okiedawn OK Zone 7Original Author
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