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flowerkitty

My Garden Path

21 years ago

Wow. I accidentally landed in the NY State forum and posted this reply thinking I was in the Natives forum. Cant let it go to waste, so here is the history of my native metamorphasis:

My Garden Path

1. start reading native forums

2. become convinced natives are important

3. decide to naturalize my land even though I believe traditional non natives are more beautiful

4. overwhelmed by size of job and ignorance of native plants

5. return to gardenweb over and over trawling for help

6. start to become literate. learn to id a few plants

7. change plans a million times

8. do a few things on my property and learn a ton from trying

9. read chats with new understanding

  1. find some nativists to be dogmatic or severe purists. I don't care - I am married to one
  2. come to understand why some are so dogmatic
  3. come to new level of sympathy for those who do not wish to be purists
  4. begin to see natives as beautiful

    (a co worker once told me if someone was nice they looked prettier and prettier to him. If they were not nice they looked uglier and uglier)

    14 experience the first thrills of discovering a new native on my property

    15 begin to see positive aesthetic improvements in my property from the many small changes

    16 become infected with purist fever obsessively searching the web for the 'right' plants for my ecosystem

    17 become a shameless coveter of more and more plants I cannot afford as my list of desirables grows out of control: (O Queen of the Prarie if only I had say 11,000 of you in my swampy area)

    18 Morph into a secretive craven cultivator of 'wicked' plants various critters enjoy, such as pokeweed, bidens

    19 develop cunning and evasive tactics as I run up against purists

    20 realize I have become an ignorant sneaky purist

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